If you spend too much time in love, it is irresponsible, not only for parents, but also for yourself. With the increasingly fierce competition, the employment situation is becoming more and more severe. If college students want to find a job, they must have irreplaceable core competitiveness, and the shaping of this competitiveness is mainly in universities. Psychologists have proved that 20-24 years old is the best age to study in one's life, which is not only the heyday of one's intellectual development, but also the key period to lay the foundation for his future career. Three or four years of college life is short and precious. Young college students should not spend their prime time in love, but should strive to become successful people. When they succeed, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
The annual mortality rate of college students is 1.97%, of which 90% commit suicide, and 70% commit suicide because of family ties, which is much higher than the rate of suicide because of family ties in society. I just want to ask, can you say that college students can withstand the pressure of love? My main purpose in going to college is to study. The trend of falling in love in college wastes money, energy and time. Perhaps, my first lover doesn't agree with me, but a person who has experienced it won't deny my statement. Love is an emotion. Since it is an emotion, it cannot be suppressed. The problem is that no one loves for the sake of love, so other factors need to be carefully considered. When two people fall in love, they must sacrifice each other in time; It will definitely distract some of your energy; I believe that most students will spend less time with everyone and lose many opportunities to exercise their abilities.
If a person is in love, people around him will soon find a sweetheart in a short time, just like keeping up with the joneses. So, is this love reliable? If you advocate falling in love, in this case, is it detrimental to the school appearance? Are people who come to school, including your parents, surprised to come to this school? What a good school to educate people with books! It is purely emotional education. It is really a school, not a school! Isn't it a bit like a marriage agency?
The Youth Development Research Institute of China Youth University for Politics released their "Public Image Survey of College Students" for the first time in Beijing. Only 1 1.2% of the respondents believe that college students fall in love out of sincere love. Our psychology is not yet mature. Are you sure you can afford to fail? Besides, is failure just failure? After failure, we will stay in the shadows for a long time, and even some people will never get out again. Look at the performance of lovelorn people. You all know that. Can we avoid such a thing? In a secret place that belongs to you, after you vowed to study hard, do you regret forgetting the significance of coming to college? Or do you regret spending too much time in love when you can't find a job after graduating from college? Will you regret too much under the expectation of your parents? When we hesitate to find a lover to meet our psychological needs, our psychology itself has become obscene and disrespectful. We didn't know there were compatriots struggling on the poverty line under the same blue sky!
Problems in college students' love 1, neglect of studies 2, incorrect love motives 3, multi-angle love 4, being unable to extricate themselves after falling out of love 5, wasting money they didn't earn 6, and being irresponsible for the consequences of love.
Two people encourage each other and help each other on the way of courtship. I want to say that this is a very good idea. However, this is just a good idea. Encourage each other and help each other. Then let's stop falling in love and be ordinary brothers and sisters. Love should not be talked about with this purpose, but the true love blessed by God can certainly be enjoyed in the process of love. "Quotations from Chairman Mao", Chapter 38, Section 5, Sentence 27-Love without the purpose of marriage is hooliganism. Love is more than one word, love is a responsibility, love is a pay, love is a wait, love is an agreement. Doing well in all stages of life can make life richer and more meaningful. Let's work hard for college students. After our struggle, our career and love will be fruitful tomorrow.