Every college student is full of longing for the future. Everyone wants to make great achievements in his career, achieve success and realize the value of life after graduating from college.
The so-called life value refers to a person's position and role in society. It is a philosophical category. The value of life is different from the value of goods, which includes the value of existence and the value of activities. If a person wants to realize his own life value, he must correctly understand and grasp the relationship between existence value and activity value.
For college students, as a special group, they not only have the general attributes of the existence value and activity value of ordinary people in society, but also have their own special attributes. In the whole learning stage of university, it mainly reflects the existence value of college students in society. College students enter the society after graduation. Their life value is mainly reflected in their responsibility and contribution to family and society. Therefore, the life value of college students is the perfect unity of social respect and satisfaction for individuals and personal responsibility and contribution to society.
First, the importance of scientific world outlook for college students to realize the value of life
A scientific world outlook is to learn to analyze and study the objective world with Marxist standpoints, viewpoints and methods and to solve many problems in the objective world. For contemporary college students, only by establishing a scientific world outlook can they truly understand the meaning of life, arrange their lives scientifically and reasonably, correctly handle and treat many practical problems in life, realize their life value and make outstanding contributions to the progress of human society. Although Marx lived in a different era from ours, his fundamental world outlook, from the understanding of life to the pursuit of life value, will always be an example for contemporary college students to learn.
Second, the ideals and beliefs of college students to achieve the guiding role of life value
Ideal is the general goal of life struggle and pursuit. Great ideals are like the beacon of life, always leading the direction of college students' success. The stronger college students' pursuit of ideals, the greater the motivation to realize the value of life; The clearer the goal, the higher the probability of success and the greater the contribution to society. The lofty ideal also needs the support of firm belief, even if it encounters great difficulties, it can overcome many difficulties and obstacles to reach the other side of victory. Ideals and beliefs not only affect the whole growth process of college students, but also affect the realization process of college students' life value. It is particularly important to help college students set up lofty ideals and strengthen their beliefs.
Third, college students should combine the realization of personal value with the creation of value for society.
People have social attributes. All personal activities are inseparable from society. So are college students. From this perspective, the value of college students is the unity of self-value and social value. The meaning of life lies in struggle and creation. The process of struggle and creation is the process of realizing self-worth. In real life, people often attach importance to their own value and pursue the realization of their own value, while ignoring the important content of creating value for society. Some people even mistakenly believe that the value of life lies in taking rather than creating, and the more you take, the greater the value. This view is extremely absurd, because individuals exist in society and their needs cannot be separated from the supply of society.
Only by organically combining the process of realizing self-worth with the process of creating value for society can a person truly realize his own life value. This is why some people have made extraordinary careers in ordinary posts, while others have been doing nothing all their lives, even going to corruption and illegal crimes.
Fourthly, the way to realize the life value of college students.
The higher one pursues in life, the better. But what is more important is to be practical, brave and good at starting from the basics and starting from small things. If you go too far, you will often accomplish nothing. College students have begun to realize their self-worth in universities, such as summer teaching activities organized by the school and activities of going to the countryside through science and technology. Although the time is short, it is of great significance for college students to enter the society after graduation and choose the way to realize the value of life.
In 2005, CCTV organized the "People Who Moved China in 2004" selection activity, which introduced us to Xu Muyu, a graduate of Huazhong Agricultural University. He chose to volunteer to teach in primary schools in poor mountainous areas of Guizhou Province. His deeds caused a shock in the hearts of college students and touched many college students. There are many ways for college students to realize the value of life. Only by integrating one's pursuit of life value into the torrent of social needs can one truly reflect one's own existence value and make one's own contribution to society.
A sacred temple in ancient Greece, on the doorpost of the entrance, impressively wrote such a warning: "discover yourself!" " "If you want to realize your life value, you must be yourself! This is the first step of self-realization. Only by reaching the realm of self-realization can we get happiness in life, peace of mind and inner richness. Self-realization is to find yourself and surpass yourself. Self-realization means experiencing your life fully, actively and intently. Self-realization means knowing your life choices.
Li Ka-shing said: "Life has its ups and downs, and everyone should learn to endure their own sadness. Only in this way can you realize what is success and what is true happiness. "
The most powerful is Nietzsche's sentence: "Be yourself!" .
"We don't imitate because we are role models for others." If we can set an example in life and work and become an example for others to learn, it means that we have reached a certain level in doing things. Even if I can't reach this level, "being myself" is the basic embodiment of realizing the value of life.
Self-realization is neither selfish nor narcissistic, nor is it a deliberate pursuit of perfection and so-called perfection. Whether in the workplace or in life, a person who pursues the realization of his own life value should have the following personal qualities:
First, know yourself and accept yourself.
Self-abased people look down on themselves, narcissists value themselves too much, conceited people dare not face up to themselves, complacent people ignore their potential selves, but self-centered people lose themselves, self-indulgent people give up on themselves, and suicidal people can't accept themselves. These are all unable to correctly understand and accept themselves. To realize the value of self-life, we must first have an inner dialogue, open our hearts to ourselves, listen to our inner impulsive voice, and understand our true self: what kind of person I am, what kind of emotional tendency I have, where I am going, what my life mission and responsibility are, what advantages and disadvantages I have, and so on. See yourself clearly, find yourself unique in this world, and accept everything that belongs to you unconditionally, so as to find your own life value and realize your own life value.
Second, accept others and living environment.
A person who strives to realize the value of his life will inevitably seek harmony with the interpersonal relationship and living environment around him, and will not be affected by external factors. At the same time, he will strive to turn all external factors into factors conducive to his growth.
A cynic feels that he has hit a wall everywhere, and no wind direction is downwind for him, because he puts himself on the opposite side of the environment. A person who looks down on others everywhere. Everything is his fault to others. Even if he is full of integrity and kindness, don't trust him, because he has blinded his eyes. In the workplace, people who can accept others, act with empathy, have an open mind, have good interpersonal relationships, and are good at absorbing the advantages and strengths of others are easy to be appreciated and promoted by leaders. In life, people who are good at accepting others can establish more comfortable social and interpersonal relationships and gain a deep sense of happiness in life.
Maslow made a vivid metaphor: children look at the world with wide eyes and are innocent. They only pay attention to and observe what the facts are, and have no arguments or demands on him. Self-actualizers also view the humanity of themselves and others in the same way. Imagine how many negative emotions such as accusation, resentment, dissatisfaction and hostility will be avoided in our lives if we can look at others and the world with children's uncritical eyes!
Third, the natural expression of behavior.
A hypocritical, pretentious and juggling person, he can't find his true self, let alone realize himself. Therefore, a person who pursues self-worth must be honest, pure and natural in his behavior style, without affectation or disguise. There is a famous saying: "If a person can show himself in strength, he will never make a fuss about skills." If you dare to face your true self and have a strong heart, you don't need to dress up deliberately. The more petty bureaucrats, the more peaceful and natural the real leaders are; The more a person feels inferior, the more he pretends to be arrogant, and the more rich he is, the more he is afraid that others will look down on him. The sea is silent, who will doubt its depth and vastness? Taishan is tall and straight and doesn't care about other people's feelings. Who can say it's true? Being true to yourself, daring to face the advantages and disadvantages of your own humanity and being honest with life are the only ways to realize yourself.
Fourth, have keen insight, appreciation and creativity in real life. Love life, love the world, love people around you, love your work, and keep the freshness of appreciation, and gain insight into the meaning of ordinary life, so as to realize the value contained in life. The value of life is reflected by the results of one stage, and the results of one stage will become the process of realizing the next stage. The value of life is the synthesis of results and processes. Everyone has to fall in love, but it is inevitable that they will be lovelorn; Everyone wants to get married, and divorce is inevitable; Everyone wants to live a wonderful life, but no one can escape the inevitable result of life. Do you think the result is important or the process is important? If we only pay attention to the process and not the result, just like people who are in love will never get married, it will be a fig leaf of love after all. If we only pay attention to the result and ignore the process, we will lose the wonderful experience of the life process and never feel happy. Therefore, the value of life lies not only in the wonderful process, but also in the realization of the result, which is a re-creation of one's original life.
5. Clear objectives, responsibilities and missions.
Without a clear value orientation and life goal, it is impossible to realize the self-worth of life. There is a lot of discussion about life goals and responsibilities. I just want to emphasize that the value of life is the goal and responsibility of life. Every responsibility is the realization of life value, and the life value of self is realized through the accumulation of life bit by bit.
Sixth, it is beyond the characteristics of independence and the need for solitude.
The biggest psychological problem facing modern people is that they are losing the ability to think independently. Information has flooded every aspect of life, and the online world has become an increasingly popular way of life. Modern people seldom have time to sit quietly and think about their own thoughts. Some people's psychology has become so fragile that they can't stand being alone for a moment. Many people are addicted to the internet and occasionally isolated from the online world, so they are at a loss; Some people's habit is to turn on the TV the first thing when they come home from work, expecting a series that they can't watch all their lives. If the power is cut off occasionally, it will be like ants in your pants. People used to take a few books or diaries with them when they went on business trips, but now they will ask the hotel if they can surf the Internet, have coffee or chat. Many people can't find themselves in a prosperous and affluent lifestyle. Although I often call for myself, I often look for my position in other people's frame of reference, rather than going deep into my heart to find my potential self. A person who loses himself can't think, can't find out where his life value lies, and how can he realize his self-value?
Independent thinking ability is the most important personal quality to realize the value of self-life. Being able to enjoy life instead of going with the flow, enduring a little loneliness, enjoying occasional loneliness, thinking deeply on the road of self-cultivation, self-cultivation and self-reflection at all times will light a bright light in your heart and inspire your unlimited potential and value.
Self-worth refers to a person's virtue, knowledge and ability, also known as intrinsic value. If a person's knowledge, ability and virtue are brought into full play, and virtue can Hui Ze others and have a good influence on society, then he will realize his external value, and he will have a sense of accomplishment, happiness after his self-needs are met, and his psychological feeling is that he can simply realize himself.
Since self-realization is the realization of self-value and the satisfaction of self-demand, it also determines the infinity of its body. Because as long as a person is physically and mentally healthy, through continuous learning, his self-worth will continue to increase, and his higher-level needs will never end. To realize self, we must fully understand ourselves, strive to keep climbing, and combine with the whole society and times, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and give full play to what we have learned, what we know, what we can do and what we have created. As an external environment on which self-survival and development must depend, society should be the maker and defender of fair, fair, open and transparent rules of the game, and create equal competition opportunities for everyone. If so, no member can realize himself, and the whole society and nation will be more brilliant.
Thousands of miles away, it begins with one step. Only when you have an ideal can you have a goal. Let's start from now on, start from bit by bit, and move forward step by step. This is the only ladder to realize self-worth.
College students are the best among their peers, the reserve force of high-tech talents in the future, and the relying force to realize the four modernizations. Their ideological quality and correct values are directly related to the future rise and fall of our country.
Self-worth refers to a person's morality, knowledge and ability, also known as intrinsic value. If a person's knowledge is well used, his ability is brought into full play, and his virtue can Hui Ze others and have a good influence on society, then he will realize his external value, and he will have a sense of accomplishment and happiness after his self-needs are met. At this time, his psychological feeling is self-realization, that is, the realization of self-worth. Simply put, self-realization means feeling good and happy.
Since self-realization is the realization of self-value and the satisfaction of self-demand, it also determines its own infinity, because as long as a person is physically and mentally healthy, his self-value will continue to increase through continuous learning, and his higher-level needs will never end. To realize self, we must fully understand ourselves, strive to keep climbing, combine with the whole society and times, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and give full play to what we have learned, what we know, what we can do and what we have created. As an external environment on which self-survival and development must depend, society should be the maker and defender of fair, fair, open and transparent rules of the game, and create equal opportunities for each individual. If so, every member of society can realize himself, and the whole society and nation will be more brilliant.
When a child receives a good education from an early age, has a good learning environment in adolescence, and can study subjects of interest according to his own wishes in college, he can make contributions to society and always care about society and others, so that people can usually realize themselves. Maslow, a humanistic psychologist, believes that when people meet the needs of physiology, safety, belonging and respect, they reach the peak of their lives, which is called peak experience. In order to enter the peak experience and complete the self-realization of life.