There are also behavioral habits, which are very different. Today, Xiaobian talks about the contradictory views of the dormitory for reference only.
In terms of dressing, in college, boys may not care so much, just wear something casually and they will be satisfied. But in this respect, girls are different. They pay great attention to dressing up and changing themselves. College is an important period for girls to change. In this process, girls can be described as eighteen kinds of martial arts, and in this process, there has been a comparison. Because of different family conditions, some people can wear gorgeous clothes, whole brands and all kinds of luxuries. In reality, many students have different dormitory family conditions. At this time, to a certain extent, there will be barriers between roommates, and the contradictions that follow will be hidden secretly.
In college, eating habits are not as relative as in high school, and there are many choices, such as take-away, various dishes in the canteen, snacks outside and restaurants. Many students don't like to eat alone in college, so they feel lonely, and many students like to order takeout. There is still a big difference in food. Rich students often go out to eat, eat something good, and students with poor family conditions can only handle it by themselves. Because many activities are not involved, roommates have a certain suspicion that they may be unsociable, which is not conducive to the relaxation of roommate relationship.
Accommodation is the time field where roommates have the most running-in relationships. They can get better or worse to a great extent. In this process, some students have different work schedules at night, different sleeping habits at night and different getting up. For example, some students go to bed early and sleep at different times, and some students are used to sleeping late. This process will lead to whether to turn on the light, whether to play the sound outside, and so on. This is also a sexual problem in many dorms. Another is that some students are used to getting up early, and often the alarm clock will make a lot of noise, so there will be some disputes.
Being away from home is also an important criterion for testing roommate relationship. In the process of going to class, some students are early, some like a person, and some don't go directly. Especially in large classes, in which roommates are good helpers. In order not to attend class, they arranged for their roommates to help sign in. At this time, whether to help or refuse, contradictions arise. What kind of view is it not to help? Generally speaking, no matter what you choose, stick to yourself and do your best.
Language behavior and living habits are also important factors in the contradiction of dormitory life. Some students like to socialize and have many friends. At this time, dormitory is a good communication environment. Inside, some roommates will be very unhappy. They think the dormitory is a private space, and some privacy and valuables are in it. In this process, the shaping of dormitory environment is also very bad. If they don't face up to this problem, there will be great contradictions in the long run, which will be unfavorable to the dormitory relationship.
To sum up, Bian Xiao felt that there were contradictions everywhere in the dormitory. What we can do is to dare to face them, be honest with each other, work hand in hand, actively participate in activities, do what we can, and work together for a better university life.