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Problems needing attention in college students' counseling
Question 1: What should college students pay attention to as tutors? Being a tutor for the first time, I have no experience. Hello! Being a tutor is a good job for college students now, which can not only exercise themselves but also earn some living expenses. This is a good thing to kill two birds with one stone. However, in real life, there will always be some very bad situations for college students, especially some girls. Therefore, in the process of tutoring, we need to pay attention to the following points.

Before tutoring, it is best to tell familiar classmates and friends where to tutor, and leave the phone number of the parents of the children to the classmates. In this way, if there is danger, you can also help at the first time and let your classmates know.

Tutoring for the first time should be accompanied by classmates, especially female classmates. You'd better put a bottle of water in your bag, and don't accept your parents' food casually. Female students should try not to talk to male parents alone.

It is best not to be a tutor at night. If you must go, you should find a classmate to accompany you. You'd better not wear too many clothes when you are a tutor. Once you find the abnormal behavior of your parents, leave quickly.

Gfd 1。 Keep a neat, clean and refreshing personal image at home or outside. Be diligent; "Wash your hands frequently, cut your nails frequently, take a bath frequently and change clothes frequently." If you have long hair, you must tie it up at work. 2. All service personnel are not allowed to comb all kinds of avant-garde and weird hairstyles, and are not allowed to keep long nails or apply nail polish. Try not to wear makeup, such as heavy makeup, and avoid using irritating cosmetics. They should wear light makeup, keep fresh and elegant, and don't wear jewelry to work. 3. Pajamas are only worn in your bedroom. It is not allowed to walk, work or go out in the living room in pajamas and exposed clothes. You are not allowed to comb your hair in the living room. 4; No matter in the company or in the employer's home, you should behave generously and sit correctly. Don't put your feet on tables and chairs, cross your legs, shake up and down, and look weird.

Return the favor 1. When guests come from home, they should be natural and generous, warm and reasonable, take the initiative to greet the guests, offer their seats to pour water, and be seven points full. 2. When talking with guests, be measured, keep a certain distance, don't give the guests a look or other impolite behavior, don't laugh loudly and pull relationships, and don't ask the guests about their experience, income, age, etc. Don't eavesdrop or interrupt when the employer is talking with the guests. 3. Don't taste it first when eating at home or with the employer's family and guests. If you don't replace the host, you should humbly let others sit down first. If you have children, you should take care of them. 4. When watching TV with your employer's family or guests, don't grab a favorable seat, let alone watch it for a long time. When the guests leave, you should take the initiative to open the door to see them off. ====================

1, the tutor must cooperate with parents and students in class time and be willing to do his best to help students learn. The agreed class time shall not be changed at will. 2. Be polite. If you say hello to your parents, don't walk around the room. 3. Grasp the children's learning situation in detail to seek learning solutions. An excellent tutor, especially a college student, should usually ask a question politely when meeting his parents for the first time: "Aunt XXX, let me know about your child's study first, so as to help him improve his academic performance." 4. Clearly explain your learning solution to parents (children) and convince them that you can help them (children) improve their academic performance. 5, learn to encourage children, establish and enhance his confidence. Learn to find every bright spot in your child and express your praise to him enthusiastically. It's not easy to find the bright spot of others, so you should learn to appreciate others from time to time. 6. Pay attention to safety. Pay attention to being cheated, etc. 7. Understanding means understanding, and not understanding means not understanding. For some questions that you are not sure of the answer, you should consult the information before answering them. You can't take it for granted and mislead students. 8. Protect your legal rights. Some employers think that the tutor is a student and dismiss you after a few days of trial. At this time, remember to ask about your labor income and ask an intermediary for help when appropriate. (If any) 9. Improvise. The plan has not changed quickly, so we should be good at changing emergencies and ensuring personal safety.

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Question 2: What problems should college students pay attention to when they are tutoring? 1, the tutor must cooperate with parents and students in class time and be willing to do his best to help students learn. The agreed class time shall not be changed at will.

2. Be polite. If you say hello to your parents, don't walk around the room.

3. Grasp the children's learning situation in detail to seek learning solutions.

An excellent tutor, especially a college student, should usually ask a question politely when meeting his parents for the first time: "Aunt XXX, let me know about your child's study first, so as to help him improve his academic performance."

4. Explain your learning solution clearly to your parents (children) and convince them that you can help them improve their academic performance.

5, learn to encourage children, establish and enhance his confidence. Learn to find every bright spot in your child and express your praise to him enthusiastically. It's not easy to find the bright spot of others, so you should learn to appreciate others from time to time.

6. Pay attention to safety. Pay attention to being cheated, etc.

7. Understanding means understanding, and not understanding means not understanding. For some questions that you are not sure of the answer, you should consult the information before answering them. You can't take it for granted and mislead students.

8. Protect your legal rights. Some employers think that the tutor is a student and dismiss you after a few days of trial. At this time, remember to ask about your labor income and ask an intermediary for help when appropriate. (If any)

9. improvise. The plan has not changed quickly, so we should be good at changing emergencies and ensuring personal safety.

I hope it helps you.

Question 3: What should I pay attention to as a tutor? Honesty and punctuality are very important, especially when you come to a student's home for a trial or interview for the first time. Dress neatly and dignified, smile, and be confident and calm.

First, ask parents about students and communicate with them, and then talk about their own ideas on improving students' grades. Be sincere and good at listening, but don't perfunctory your parents; Be confident, but don't brag. According to the actual situation of students, put forward practical solutions to convince parents that this is fruitful. After the interview or trial teaching, agree with parents on the time of next counseling and the number of counseling per week.

To stimulate students' interest in learning, in the process of counseling, in addition to teaching the knowledge of textbooks, we can also tell them some topics they are interested in appropriately. . . Let students recognize you and cooperate with your teaching. . Also, be careful.

Question 4: What problems do you need to pay attention to as a tutor? Matters needing attention in tutoring college students In recent years, more and more college students use their spare time to work in the society. For college students who have been studying hard for ten years, finding a job can not only earn considerable income, but also exercise their communication and work ability and lay a good foundation for future employment. Among many jobs in * * *, "tutor" is the most popular and favored by college students because of its high salary and convenient use. However, because college students have no real contact with society and their thoughts are still relatively simple, some lawless elements take advantage of college students' eagerness to work and study, defrauding them of their money in various ways, and even causing physical and mental harm. In this regard, Baoji Tutoring Work Introduction Center reminds teachers to pay attention to some tricks of tutoring to prevent criminals from cheating in the name of tutoring. In addition to relying on social forces and legal system, college students also need their own careful prevention and efforts to recognize the usual tricks of scammers and prevent being deceived. The following is an analysis of some common cases. I hope students can recognize the nature of all kinds of liars and safeguard their legitimate rights and interests. 1. Choosing a regular tutor channel Zhao is a college student. After returning to school early in the summer vacation, he looked for a tutor everywhere. He didn't go through a formal tutor center, but registered information on BBS and some free newspapers. One morning, Zhao received a phone call from his parents and asked him to meet at the gate of a shopping center at noon. Zhao arrived as scheduled, and the other party was a young man of about 30 years old, not tall, covered in famous brands and gold goods, riding a motorcycle. "My name is Wang Yong. I am the department manager of a company in this city. I was entrusted by people to help my friend's children find a tutor. " After some conversation, Manager Wang said that Zhao had good conditions. After contacting a friend on his mobile phone, he said that his friend had an entertainment and he would have to wait until later to talk about the treatment. After that, Manager Wang politely invited Zhao to have a light meal and went together after dinner. Ye Zhao is not easy to refuse. Manager Wang put Zhao's wallet in the trunk of a motorcycle and took Zhao to a restaurant for dinner. During the dinner, Manager Wang kept a sense of humor, and Zhao gradually relaxed his vigilance. After dinner, they drove to the electronic mall. After getting off the bus, manager Wang said to find a friend first and ask Zhao to wait for him outside the door. An hour later, Zhao Jian Wang didn't come out, so he went into the mall to look for it. When she came out again, she found that Wang's motorcycle was gone, and his wallet was still in his trunk, which contained a mobile phone and wallet ... In addition, there were tragedies in which some female college students were tricked and killed by lawless elements after placarding as tutors in the street.

Baoji City Family Education Work Introduction Center reminds that college students must do family education through formal channels, such as the school's work-study center, formal family education service institutions, and large-scale talent markets. And it is easy to be used by criminals through BBS, newspapers, street placards, distributing and posting small advertisements. 2. Choose a formal tutor service organization to prevent it from being used by black intermediaries. At the beginning of the summer vacation, a classmate of Xiao Zhenghe, a junior in a university, applied for a job in the city tutor service center and wanted to find a job as a summer tutor. The service center requires each of them to pay the registration fee of 20 yuan and the information fee of 100 yuan, saying that they will be informed as soon as there is information about the tutor in the near future. As a result, after several days, Xiao Zhenghe was not informed. Zheng Xiao, who is eager to find a job as a tutor, is very anxious. He calls every day to ask, but every time the tutor center replies that there is no suitable information now, he will have to wait for another two days. In a blink of an eye, the summer vacation is about to pass, and Xiao Zhenghe has not found a tutor. They met at this tutor center and asked for a refund. As a result, they found that this "black intermediary" has gone empty, and many college students' hard-earned money has been "evaporated". Baoji Tutoring Work Introduction Center reminds: College students must choose a regular tutor service institution to find a tutor through the tutor center, and observe whether the tutor service institution has a certain scale, service years, sound service system and excellent staff quality. And whether there is a business license issued by the industrial and commercial department. 3, recognize the responsibility of family education, don't pay all kinds of fees easily-some scammers often take advantage of college students' eagerness to make money, and do what they like to cheat money with their urgency. College student Wang is eager to make money. Obviously, the tutor center introduced him to a tutor job, but after meeting his parents, they claimed that they needed to find someone in her husband's company and asked her if she could introduce some classmates, claiming that they would also help the college student buy the money he owed from the computer and introduce him to other tutors and universities ... >>

Question 5: What problems should undergraduate tutors pay attention to so as not to be cheated? Make it clear how much it costs an hour.

Question 6: If college students need to pay attention to family education for the first time, Mandarin is better, otherwise the first impression to parents will be particularly poor. Coaxing children is very different. One-on-one teaching is very good, and the major should be excellent. I can't ask you questions for a long time. You can't find out what your students are taking in the exam by solving problems that students can't understand. Besides, please pay attention to hygiene.

Question 7: What should college students pay attention to when they are tutoring for the first time? First of all, pay attention to who you tutor, the students in that grade; Secondly, students' mastery of knowledge; In addition, what is the personality of students; What are the puzzles in learning? Finally, according to the actual situation of students, you should make a good tutor plan and prepare for each class (especially the first class).

Question 8: What details should undergraduate tutors pay attention to? Attention should be paid to the following safety issues. I hope I can help you!

1, safety first. In the process of finding a job as a tutor, always keep in mind that safety comes first, and never neglect the safety issue because you are eager to find a job; It is best to find a tutor through formal channels, such as the school's work-study center, formal tutor service institutions, and large-scale talent market. And it is easy to be used by criminals through newspapers, street placards, distributing and posting small advertisements. At the same time, for those college students who have had many tutoring experiences, they must not lower their awareness of self-protection and safety precautions. It is best to find a classmate to accompany you when you make an appointment for a client interview or go to tutor for the first time; As a tutor, you should know the family situation and fixed contact information of the parties in detail; Always remind yourself that safety is the most important thing.

2. Through introduction. It is best to apply for a job through a formal intermediary. In addition, it is more reliable to introduce family education through relatives, teachers and classmates. Try not to be a heterosexual adult tutor; Try not to choose a single-parent family with a father and children when tutoring students;

3. Fixed time. First, the counseling time is relatively fixed, so don't change it without special circumstances; Second, the tutorial time should not be too late. Family counseling time should be arranged as much as possible on Saturday and Sunday during the day, and try not to go to remote places to tutor.

4. Tell your whereabouts. For the first time, you'd better invite your classmates to go with you. At the same time, it's best to call your classmates after you get to the family where you are a tutor, so that on the one hand, your classmates can know your whereabouts, and on the other hand, even if you meet someone with malicious intentions, you can scare them in this way. In addition, when you are tutoring, you should inform your roommate of the schedule and timetable of going out for tutoring, so that good students can master it, just in case.

No matter what happens, we should keep a clear head, deal with it skillfully, look for opportunities to escape, and report problems to relevant departments in time. As college students themselves, we must be strict with ourselves, take part in more social activities, listen to more lectures on legal knowledge and safety prevention education activities, and learn more, understand more and master more prevention knowledge, which is good for us.

Question 9: Is it good to be a tutor? What are the requirements? The requirements of family education, how to do it, matters needing attention in family education, some unsafe factors in family education at present, hidden dangers in undergraduate tutor, etc. , pay close attention to tutoring 1 14.

First, how to be a competent tutor?

Being a tutor seems simple, but it's not easy. On the one hand, it depends on your knowledge level and teaching ability, on the other hand, it depends on your ability to communicate and get along with others. Many middle school students choose college students as tutors because they can learn knowledge and make friends. In the tutor center, a middle school student asked that the tutor should be cheerful and good at telling stories. Her reason is, "at school, we can't choose teachers, but we have to talk if we have a tutor." Please go back to your tutor. You are both a friend and a teacher. Of course, I am happy to study with people I like. "Therefore, as a tutor, in addition to mastering the knowledge to be taught, I also like children, and I am willing to introduce all my study and examination experience to children, which can stimulate children's interest in learning and teach them the correct learning methods. In addition to these two basic requirements, to be a competent tutor, you should also show good qualities in the nuances:

1. Be punctual, neither late nor early, especially for the first time. If you arrive early, it is easy for your parents to be passive. You can walk around first. Being late and breaking promises can also make parents anxious.

2. Pay attention to etiquette, especially the details. Dress neatly and generously, and some girls wear miniskirts as tutors. Speak humble, don't ask your parents about the source of income or family property.

3. You can take the initiative to invite parents to audition. You should have the courage to prove your ability and let the other party accept it.

4. Understand children's learning level and hobbies, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, make lesson plans quickly, talk about children's interests, and start from children's interests to activate thinking.

5. Parents invite you to dinner, smoke and eat fruit, and politely decline. You'd better bring your own cup. You'd better bring your own water if you can keep warm. If you want to smoke, just bear it. If your parents let you smoke, you must say no.

6. Don't say too many digressions. Parents spend at least 75 cents a minute and won't listen to your nonsense. This is also a kind of professional ethics.

7. If you have to rest, you should inform your parents in advance. In the meantime, you should make up lessons another day.

Second, how to prevent individual parents from sexual harassment?

Due to the particularity of the tutor market, there are some unsafe factors in tutor at present. In recent years, it is not uncommon for college students to be sexually harassed or even sexually assaulted as tutors. According to the survey, 20% of undergraduate tutors have been harassed. This is mainly because the tutor market is still in a relatively primitive trading state and lacks effective supervision and management. At present, college students do tutoring mainly through three channels: one is the introduction of classmates and friends; The second is the work-study program organized by the school; The third is through social intermediary. But there are also some people who just hang a sign on the side of the road and the employer will follow after paying. As for where to go, they have no clue, which provides an opportunity for some lawless elements.

Most sexual harassment occurs in students' homes. Some parents of students deliberately "check" their homework close to their bodies in class; Others deliberately say something ambiguous, such as "have you made a boyfriend" and "have you received a kiss"; Some parents take the opportunity to "eat tofu" on the pretext of inviting tea or going out to play.

Some college students have a simple awareness of prevention. For example, a girl said, "First look at the' face' at first sight, and then judge his behavior and accomplishment through his behavior." This mainly depends on the feeling. A girl who is a little "sophisticated" said: "It is best to take a classmate with you for the first audition class, and then look at their family atmosphere and attitude towards their children, so that parents can be roughly judged." This is just the minimum awareness of prevention. Experts remind everyone that to be a tutor, you must see your employer's ID card clearly and leave your whereabouts and employer's contact information to the school, so as to be safer.

It is best for college students not to contact themselves, but to go through a reliable intermediary, such as the school's work-study center. Female college students should have a certain awareness of prevention and not go to remote places to be tutors; You'd better find a classmate to accompany you when you go to a strange house. If you find something bad, you should leave at once. Mai Zhiqiang, a professor at South China Normal University, suggested that students' family environment should be known before tutoring. If they find something wrong, they would rather give up than insist. Be alert when you are tutoring, pay attention to your words and deeds, and don't give people an opportunity. As for male college students who encounter sexual harassment, they are actually under the same emotional and psychological pressure as girls, so they should learn to control themselves. & gt