The hero in the story is Wang Leehom, who used to be high flyers in Tsinghua University. Mom and dad are ordinary workers, and the family has enough ability for her to study. Parents have asked their children to study hard since childhood, hoping that their daughters will have a good job and a good home when they grow up. Wang Leehom has done well in school since he was a child. He was admitted to Peking University with excellent college entrance examination results and successfully realized his academic dream.
When she came to Peking University to study, she met her future husband, Suma, a black student from Africa. Suma's family situation is very poor. After all, she was born in Africa. But he is a very optimistic and positive person. Otherwise, he would not have come to China as an exchange student as an excellent student and entered Peking University to study. The two met and fell in love in college. When he graduated, Wang Leehom wanted to marry this black man, but his parents firmly opposed it. They think their daughter can have a better future, and if she marries this black man, she may not develop well in the future. My daughter went her own way and came to Africa to live with black people. Now their marriage is very happy. They developed education in Africa and opened their own schools.
Every parent wants his child to get married or his son to get married and be with himself. Mother will be very worried because her daughter is married far away. I'm afraid my daughter will be bullied when she marries, and no one in the family will support him. Another disadvantage of marrying far away is that you can't often go home to see your parents. Even if parents miss their children, it is not convenient to see them because of carsickness and other reasons. But these factors are not as good as children's happiness. As long as the children's marriage can be happy, it doesn't matter if they marry far away.
Conclusion: Now that the traffic is developed, where we want to travel, or where to visit our children, we just need to take the high-speed train, plane and car. In dealing with the important issue of marriage, parents can give us guidance as experienced people, but the final decision is still in the hands of children. ?