In real life, we will find that college students are gradually showing a trend of "polarization". Students who study hard gradually become better people with their own efforts. And those "degenerate" students get nothing but muddling along every day.
So how does a college student "degenerate" in college? You may not believe it.
It is very likely that a college student has changed from excellent to "degenerate" because of the word gregarious.
After entering the university, although students are over 18 years old and have become adults in the legal sense, there is a general problem of mental immaturity. The outstanding performance of this problem is that everyone is afraid of loneliness and isolation and is eager to be a gregarious person.
Many students even let go of their true thoughts and go along with things they are not interested in in in order to get along with others. Whenever there is no class, many students always like to gather in the dormitory to play games. At this time, students who don't play games lose the same topic as them, and even feel isolated.
At this time, in order to get rid of their unsociable state, these students will even give up the habit of reading and start playing games. As a result, this game has been played for three or four years, and it will be too late to regret it when you graduate.
Lack of strong self-discipline, gradually immersed in the state of "boiling frogs in warm water", many students abandoned their studies.
If you want to make progress in your study at university, you can't achieve it without forming good habits and strong self-discipline ability. Many students promised to live up to their college time when they first entered the university, and they must be admitted to graduate students or civil servants through their own efforts. But most of my classmates were finally changed by the lazy environment and became "Buddhist youths".
Unlike high school, universities have no teachers to stare at everyone's study, and everything depends on the students' consciousness. Because of this, the learning atmosphere in universities is not as strong as that in high schools, and whether to learn or not depends entirely on students' own choices. In this environment, if you don't discipline yourself and cherish your time, it's easy to waste your youth and neglect your studies. Over time, it became a "degenerate."
The cultivation of self-discipline ability cannot be achieved overnight. We should learn to gradually cultivate the habit of self-discipline by setting and accomplishing small goals. Only by becoming a self-disciplined person can we achieve our long-term goals step by step through unremitting efforts.
Taking up most of the study time to do a part-time job for petty gain seems to be a huge loss and one of the important manifestations of "depravity"
I believe many students have the habit of taking part-time jobs in college. I have always supported part-time jobs in universities. Through part-time jobs, students can not only reduce their financial burden, but also get in touch with society and exercise their abilities. However, if you spend a lot of time doing part-time jobs or even taking up study time for immediate interests, you will really become a "degenerate" person.
Everyone should learn to take a long-term view. College time is very precious, so we should spend it on study. If you spend a lot of time on a part-time job and learn nothing, you will definitely regret it when you formally work in the future. Some students even skip classes and fail classes for part-time jobs, which finally affects graduation, and it is not worth the candle.