For my grown-up son, I hope to develop outward, but I can't bear to keep him away from me. Parents have worked hard to raise their children step by step. When the children become talents, it is time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. Just as we should appreciate and understand our parents' painstaking efforts, we should repay their painstaking care.
2. Fu Lei's encouragement to his son
Teacher Fu made a detailed analysis and objective appreciation of his son's recording. And mentioned the hope for his son. It not only reflects his affirmation of children, but also gives them the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction for the children.
3. Fu Lei's charge
Facing the ever-changing society, parents have mixed feelings about how to deal with it. I hope to tell my son with my own experience and bring less complaints. Parents don't want their children to make the same mistakes when they take detours. They all want their children to live better than themselves.
4. Mother's concern
I hope you can devote all your energy to the study of knowledge, be more rational and less emotional. It is not easy to control all the troubles by relying on strong confidence, but it must be overcome. The mother told him how to deal with his feelings and career, and let his son understand the key.
Fu Lei loves his son.
When leaving, Fu Lei blamed himself for being strict with his son and the method was too strict. Fu Lei said that when his son was young, he was strict and meticulous, and he "cruelly abused" his son Fu Cong. Fu Lei just wanted to be a genius under strict father.
Letters from Fu Lei is a book reprinted by Yilin Publishing House on 20 18. The authors are Fu Lei, Zhu Meifu and Fu Cong, and the editor is Fu Min. Letters from Fu Lei was first published in 198 1. The publication of Fu Lei's Letters was a sensational cultural event at that time and sold well for more than 30 years. This is a letter written by Fu Lei and his wife to Fu Cong and his daughter-in-law Milla from 1954 to 1966 in May, edited by his second son Fu Min.
These letters began in 1954 when Fu Cong left home to study in Poland, and ended in 1966 when Fu Lei and his wife committed suicide. Hundreds of letters in 12 years run through Fu Cong's growing experience from studying abroad and having a good time to getting married and having children, and also reflect Fu Lei's translation work, friends' communication and the ups and downs of Fu Lei's family fate. Fu Lei and his wife are very careful. Their son's letters were properly collected and the key contents were classified and copied into volumes.
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Letters from Fu Lei is a very special book. It is a reflection of Fu Lei's thoughts, even the most important work of Fu Lei's life, because "A Letter from Fu Lei" is a letter between him and his son, which reflects his painstaking management of his son as a father.
The book A Letter from Fu Lei is full of fatherly love. Maybe every father loves his children. But while Fu Lei loves his children, he also does not forget to educate him in all aspects, such as music, art, philosophy, history, literature and even health.
What is printed in this collection is not an ordinary family letter. Fu Lei said in his letter to Fu Cong, "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions.
First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music;
Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people;
Third, it is not only your writing that exercises you through communication, especially your thoughts.
Fourth, I will always remind you to be a' faithful mirror', no matter in life, in details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. "
The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and excellent personality".