(1) To raise a child, we must first provide him with good material security.

Children should take good care of three meals a day. It is not cheap to drink milk powder when children are young, but to provide complementary food when they are older. Children's complementary food pays special attention to what can be eaten and what can't be eaten, whether it is hot or cold, whether it is hard or soft ... all need caregivers to take time to do. Also, children's diapers, clothes, toys and so on. It's a big expense. This fee can be provided to children according to their income level, but it will be a big expense in any case. After children go to kindergarten, the cost of education will also increase, and the cost of raising a child is much more than that of raising an adult.

(2) It takes time, energy and patience to raise children.

A child is a vivid life. He has joys and sorrows and needs company. Every day when he is awake, he can't live without adults. Because he is still young, he doesn't know which behaviors are unsafe. We have seen many news reports that children have potential safety hazards because of poor care. Especially when children are young, they are easy to get sick. At this time, adults will be very anxious and basically don't want to have a good rest. We have read many reports that it takes too much energy to accompany a child. Especially after children study, it is school homework, which takes a long time every day.

He Laoshi mentioned the requirements for a nanny in the article "Nanny's annual salary is 840,000: Behind all high salaries, there are unexpected reasons":

Provide a safe, loving and interesting environment for children to stimulate interest and potential;

Guide children's activities all day, play at home or organize some activities;

Visiting relatives and friends, going out for dinner, participating in activities or other family activities, the nanny should be accompanied throughout;

Bachelor degree, preferably with learning background related to early childhood education;

Personality: kindness, kindness, adaptability, flexibility, emotional stability, humor, fun and happiness. ...

This should be what every mother tries to do. Even if she doesn't graduate from children's education, she will show her children many books related to educational psychology.