Face up to yourself and communicate actively.
Initiative is the first rule of interpersonal communication. Only by actively communicating with others can we achieve the success of interpersonal communication. As a student, I can take the initiative to ask others questions when I encounter problems, and I am also willing to answer other people's questions. Only mutual assistance can promote the good development of relations.
Learn to be tolerant, reasonable and frank.
When you are unfair or hurt by others, you should have a broad mind, don't haggle with others, and explain the truth of "taking a step back and broadening the horizon". When you hurt the other person unintentionally, you should apologize to others in good faith in time and strive for forgiveness.
Keep your distance and create a good communication space.
Only by keeping a normal distance can the normal relationship between them continue to develop well. In daily life, don't ask too much about each other's privacy, but leave enough private space for each other. At the same time, don't point out the shortcomings and deficiencies of the other party too clearly, but should take a more euphemistic way to remind them to help them correct.
Find someone who has hobbies and build a bridge of friendship.
Usually, like-minded people tend to have normal interpersonal relationships. In the process of daily study, we can communicate on issues of mutual interest in order to seek mutual promotion and progress. In the usual study, we should be a conscientious person, pay attention to observe and understand each other's preferences, and do what we like, so that the relationship can develop normally.
Treat people sincerely, courtesy before soldiers.
When communicating with your classmates, you should exchange your sincerity for your sincerity. Sincerity is the key to knocking on the door of friendship. The so-called sincerity is also. Only by treating others sincerely can we establish a beautiful friendship and gain the trust and support of others.
Ways to deal with interpersonal relationships in universities
First, respect each other and learn to be tolerant.
Everyone has his own personality, hobbies and characteristics. Therefore, we should try our best to understand the needs of our classmates, respect others' hobbies, admit the differences between our classmates and ourselves, and don't belittle some characteristics of our classmates easily, let alone judge their clothes.
Second, strengthen communication and get rid of loneliness.
Boys and girls in adolescence have limited cultural knowledge and life experience, and their interpersonal skills are still immature, and sometimes they can't grasp the relationship with their classmates. Therefore, students should strengthen communication, often talk together, fully express their ideas, and let students know each other's personality and characteristics. Establish a good image in the other person's mind.
Please always remember one sentence: it is reasonable that people who ask others to forgive their mistakes should treat others in the same way.
Third, to maintain a good mental state, we must first be calm, change "hyperthermia" into "cold therapy" and always remember to "stop the conflict". You know, it's stupid to blame each other blindly and answer blows with blows. Psychological research shows that when people's emotions reach a certain level, they must "vent". After venting, they will be in a relatively balanced state. Therefore, if someone provokes or attacks you because of something, you must calm down and let the other person vent their impulsive emotions. When he is impulsive, it is not too late for you to find a way to deal with it. It is often more advantageous to "attack the enemy first".
Last but not least, when you hurt others, be brave, take the initiative to apologize, apologize in time and correct your mistakes. Take the initiative to bear the mistakes that can't be corrected, and sincerely accept the blame of others, so that the other party will be embarrassed to fight with you. If the other person doesn't know the truth, or it's just a coincidence that leads to misunderstanding, you can't explain it directly. In addition to waiting patiently, you can also ask teachers and classmates for help and let them come forward to clarify.
Detailed rules for dealing with interpersonal relationships in universities
First impressions are very important. Some students take the initiative to help their roommates clean up on the first day of college, which will undoubtedly add points to their image. Some students can also bring some native products from their hometown to share with their roommates. It is said that sharing is a virtue, and roommates are certainly more likely to leave a good impression on you. Of course, the premise is that you are smiling and willing to treat your roommate as family.
Second impressions are more important. Get along for a long time, there will be differences in living habits. At this time, as a rational college student, you should be good at analyzing the shortcomings pointed out by your roommates and remember to refute them. If you are really right, see if the suggestions they pointed out are useful or useless to you. If you are useful, you should learn with an open mind and have a tolerant attitude. At the same time, you should remember that all rivers are tolerant. If the other party goes too far, don't face up to the problem of accusing the other party, and do more self-reflection.
When communicating with roommates, remember not to leave messages, and be good at listening to others' ideas. They are all independent college students. Listening more can increase your knowledge and be good at digging wisdom. The so-called threesome, there must be my teacher.