In college, there are actually many classmates and friends, but few intimate friends. And in the process of going to college, I had the most contact with my roommates. I have a roommate with high emotional intelligence. And once in a conversation, he said a word and instantly felt that this person was different. Confession doesn't mean rudeness, and I can't take it as a reason for my rudeness. But my roommate pays great attention to each other's emotions when he speaks.
I remember when I was a freshman, there were many clubs in the school recruiting new students, and then I signed up for several clubs. There is an interview, which is divided into one round, two rounds and three rounds. Among them, the first round of interview, I passed smoothly, but the second round was stuck. Then I was particularly depressed when I returned to the dormitory, because I just went to college and didn't know my roommates very well, and when I returned to the dormitory, I only had. So when he saw that I was depressed, he came to talk to me, and it was not convenient for him to talk to him. Then I said something, saying that I was stupid and nervous during the interview. Then this roommate didn't say anything to comfort me directly, but asked me how many interviews I had attended in my life. I said this was the first time, and then he shared his first interview experience, which was also very embarrassing at that time, so he said that the first time was a big breakthrough for himself, just dare to try.
After talking to him, he was very comfortable. He will enlighten me like a big sister and talk about it with his own personal experience, so it is very comfortable to chat with people with high emotional intelligence.