The essence of life is to test and learn. The only way to live is to face difficulties and struggle to survive. No one's life is smooth sailing. The key lies in how to face the low tide of life: to save or to fight? Escape will never solve the problem, face it bravely and be full of hope. Difficulties are just an examination room for you, and getting out of the examination room is a new life.
In the face of difficulties, the example of Xiao Chen is thought-provoking. Xiao Chen is my colleague, and we worked together for two years until Xiao Chen left. When he first joined the company, Xiao Chen was still a wet behind the ears, full of passion and fighting spirit for his work. Good career planning has always been his proud talk after dinner, as if he had stepped into the door of the business director. Finally, after working for a year and a half, Xiao Chen ushered in his promotion opportunity. The company recruits business executives internally, and anyone who has worked for more than one year is eligible to apply. This time, Xiao Chen naturally has answers, and he can't blame Xiao Chen for being complacent. Those who are suitable for registration in the company have either been unknown for several years, or are uncompetitive aunts in their 30 s and 40 s. From registration to written examination, they spent a week in excitement, but they were dumbfounded by their own achievements. He didn't say he was in Sun Shan, but Xiao Li, whom he despised most at ordinary times, took the position of business director. Xiao Chen was confused and wanted to communicate with the personnel department, but he couldn't open his mouth. Since then, Xiao Chen has been devastated, as if the goal of promotion is out of reach, he has forgotten everything at work and will never finish the work assigned by the leaders on time. I also asked him why he became so depressed. Xiao Chen said, since there is no hope of promotion now, what's the point of working hard? I might as well go to Beijing with my friends for development, where opportunities are everywhere. After Chen left, I learned from the leader that Chen was his favorite at that time. I was going to promote him to another department and then transfer him to the office. Unexpectedly, Chen became more and more negative and his work became more and more unsatisfactory after he advanced to the exam. I can't stand a small setback. If I suffer a little, I dare not face it. I am bent on leaving the company and going to Beijing for development. How can such a person deserve the heavy responsibility? If what Xiao Chen thought at that time was not to escape, but to try to correct his own shortcomings and deficiencies, he would have sat in the position of department director now!
Isn't it the same in life? The little bumps and tribulations we face are just tests given by God. Some people choose to escape, and as a result, one hurdle has not passed, and another hurdle has come again. And strong people can always break the immediate predicament, no matter how difficult it is, they will resolutely move forward, so every time they look back, they find that the predicament given to them by God is the best experience.
Self-confidence comes from self-identity in the deep heart and is the strongest fortress in the face of all obstacles. Self-confidence means that you can clearly realize that you have the ability to change your destiny at any time and under any circumstances. A confident person dares to say that I can change my life and control my destiny! Without self-confidence, you lose hope for the future. People who have no self-confidence are afraid of difficulties and setbacks, dare not fight back against the problems created by life, and finally fall into a situation where they are trampled by others.
Helen Keller, an American writer, was blind and deaf due to acute encephalitis at the age of one. In such unimaginable hardships, Keller began her life journey. Young Keller is cheerful and confident. Under the education of his family, Keller admits that he is different from ordinary people. People say that Keller came into this world with a studious and confident temperament. Although fate was so unfair to Keller, with the help of Anne Sullivan, the first teacher, Keller worked hard to learn pronunciation and Braille. Young Keller always said, I will go to college one day! I'm going to Harvard University! After unremitting efforts, this day has finally arrived. Radcliffe Women's College of Harvard University arranged her entrance examination in a special way. Keller handwritten the questions in Braille and wrote the answers on a typewriter. After nine hours of exams, I not only passed all subjects, but also achieved excellent results in English and German. Keller devoted his life to the welfare and education of the blind and deaf. She has successively completed fourteen works, such as The Story of My Life, which has produced worldwide influence. The indomitable spirit of struggle is regarded as the eternal pride of mankind.
Self-confidence is the master of fate. If you are ambushed by ups and downs, you will forget your true value and lose the courage and confidence to face difficulties. Who can achieve real success? Never lose heart!
Complaining itself is a kind of negative energy. Faced with difficulties, we are exhausted physically and mentally. At this time, complaining can not only solve the problem, but also carry firewood to put out the fire. Whether complaining about problems and difficulties reflects a person's pattern and attitude. People with big patterns will never say anything depressing no matter how hard and tired they are, but the weak in life and work always find excuses to blame others for everything. If you complain, you will forget your shortcomings and incompetence. In fact, others may create problems, but you can only solve them. Now that the misfortune in life has happened, we can only face it calmly. What's the use of complaining? Stop complaining, keep smiling, a brand-new tomorrow is just around the corner!
Xiao Wang is twenty-five years old this year, and his gossip is full of all kinds of complaints: the failure to finish the work is due to the uncooperative colleagues, and the punishment of the boss is a contempt for his noble character. Even the contradiction between husband and wife is because the wife can't think from his point of view. Communication with Xiao Wang is always full of negative energy. Happy people are miserable after talking to Xiao Wang, and miserable people are even more disappointed after talking to Xiao Wang. Some time ago, Xiao Wang experienced the biggest ups and downs in his life: the company's performance was not good, and Xiao Wang suddenly appeared on the layoff list. After Xiao Wang lost his job, he only thought about the injustice of life to himself all day and lived in the pain of unemployment every day. Only a few interviews were ruined because of Xiao Wang's untimely "talking". One day, Xiao Wang was walking in the street. Just after the intersection, a stalled truck ran into the fence next to the flower bed, and the driver died on the spot. Xiao Wang, who narrowly escaped, broke out in a cold sweat and instantly felt that all the difficulties he faced were just passing clouds in the long river of life. When he got home, he was accompanied by his wife. He was in his prime, and a beautiful life seemed to beckon him. After changing his mind, Xiao Wang no longer complained about the injustice of fate, but expressed his gratitude for fate and life. Soon he got an enviable job with a higher salary than his last job. Now Xiao Wang often says that he is grateful to the last layoff for giving him a chance to start again, otherwise he may have to eat and die in the original company all his life.
The sword front comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold. Difficulties in life are the touchstone of life. Being brave is the winner, and being afraid is the loser. Follow the above methods to tide over the difficulties and make yourself stronger!