The article tells that Yu Juan, a lecturer at Fudan University, wrote a book after being diagnosed with advanced breast cancer at the age of 32, telling her feelings about life. This book is called Unfinished Life.
Facing the impending death, Yu Juan began to think more about the meaning of living. She said, "Living is king, so remember."
At that time, she was an excellent doctor of returnees, a young lecturer at a prestigious school, talking about marriage, having children and having a happy family, but her fate was so cruel. The prince wants you dead in the third watch, and the fifth watch won't keep you.
It is conceivable that such an excellent lady, with a high degree of education, must be very talented and hardworking. Maybe she used to spend her life day and night for scientific research, maybe she was under great pressure to balance her family and work, maybe she used to work overtime to give future generations good economic conditions, maybe she was excellent. In the face of anything, she should go all out and not give herself a chance to regret it.
However, behind these desperate efforts, there is a huge crisis about health, and this young woman is as unaware as we are. It was not until the arrival of death that she suddenly realized that she had chased too much fame and fortune in her life, but ignored real happiness.
These are some of her words, and I copied them down:
What I said is very simple, but it is really thought-provoking. Happiness is a struggle, but the struggle must be for happiness, not for those material desires. In the past 30 years, Yu Juan may not have relaxed for a moment. After finishing college, you have to study for a master's degree, a doctor's degree or a doctor's degree before you can find a teaching position. When you find a teaching position, you must think about promotion to avoid being eliminated. In order not to fall behind, we can only move forward step by step and dare not stop. So do many of us. Anxiety, stress and desire threaten us to keep walking and dare not stop. Even if we know in our hearts that no matter how big the house is, we only need to sleep in a bed at night, and no matter how good the car is, it is just a means of transportation. But we compare actively or passively, to compare food, clothing, housing and transportation, to compare old-age care, and to compare children's education. We are in a hurry all our lives, staying up late and wearing the most expensive eye cream.
In recent years, the news of the sudden death of young people is nothing new. Among them are university professors and corporate executives ... More and more people are following the same path as Juan.
At this time, look at the topic of "unfinished life", which contains many regrets. At the age of 32, the story came to an abrupt end, leaving only relatives Lacrimosa.
Is money important? Importantly, money can buy life to a certain extent, expensive imported medicine and surgery can be bought with money, but money is not as important as health, and it is not as rich as Jobs. Although he extended his life for several years with great wealth, he finally regretted it. He died at the age of 56.
It can be seen that life is the fairest and health is the most important. No amount of money is useless without health.
Don't stay up late, don't eat and drink, smoke and drink less, exercise more, take care of yourself, and don't be too hard on yourself. Fame and fortune are like a dream, which you can't take away when you die. Only a lifetime of well-being and happiness is true.
Every night, don't think about how much money you made today, ask yourself, are you happy? Don't put the cart before the horse, you will regret it if you have physical problems!
Finally, send a passage of Jobs' dying speech, hoping to inspire you.