And life is like autumn leaves, how can it be colorful without wind and frost? How can it be wonderful without suffering?
Suffering can temper one's will. When a person does not encounter any difficulties and hardships, he is often naive, only seeing the sunshine of the world, but not seeing the shadows in the sun, so the decisions he makes are often simple, naive or reckless. At this time, she or he, like a weak flower in the spring breeze in February, can't stand the devastation of the storm. I remember reading a story before. The protagonist is a girl who is overprotected by her family. Even the books she read since childhood were carefully selected by her parents. Therefore, in the girl's heart, there are only Snow White's fluffy skirt and Cinderella's crystal shoes. One day, she suddenly learned about the real world from TV, and her inner ideal world collapsed, so she suffered from depression and was addicted to anxiety and dissatisfaction with the world. If the information she received from childhood is true, if she can experience some setbacks that normal people must experience, I think her mind will be mature and her heart will be strong, and she will not be defeated by depression.
Suffering can add meaning and charm to mature people. When a person's experience of suffering is transformed into thought, emotion and will, it will enrich his precious connotation and have rare wisdom, depth and tenacity. How many hardships a person has experienced, his "aura" will look different.
I like to read the words after Yi Annan crossed. Compared with the fresh and lively ci style before Nandu, the ci style after Nandu is more desolate and long. Yi 'an in girlhood is as beautiful and moving as Spring Festival. When I first met Zhao Mingcheng, "Looking back at the door, but smelling her childhood", she got drunk, strayed into the depths of the lotus, and "returned to the boat late", all of which revealed her little daughter's charming attitude. I don't care after reading it. Later, a sentence in his works, "I'm afraid the ship won't move, and there are many worries", even killed many readers' hearts! After the ordeal of the country's destruction, there is nowhere to express the melancholy. At this time, Yi 'an, like the frost leaves with thicker branches after the autumn wind swept, has an unspeakable beauty.
I often hear people complain about their bad luck and why they have to bear so much. I think suffering is a catastrophe for some people; For some people, it is a song for brewing, which "ferments" the vitality of our life into the energy of human life and makes life more mellow and heavy!
Tagore's poem says it best:
Only through the tempering of hell can we cultivate the power to create heaven;
Only bloody fingers can pop up a unique sound in this world.
Frosted leaves are redder than flowers in February.
The choice of leaves is brilliant in first frost and autumn, even redder than two Moonracer flowers, which is amazing. The same is true of choosing a job in life. We should be good at finding another way in the fierce competition.
I remember Mr. Lu Xun said: "In fact, there is no road in this world. If there are more people walking, it will become a road. " At one time, we all took this sentence as a straightforward truth. Now, people seem to believe another sentence: "The world has a road. If there are many people walking, there will be no road."
This is an extremely competitive world. As we all know, if we want to be invincible in today's world. Creating the brilliance of life and finding a good job have become the key to life. A good career means a good life, so modern people like popular majors that everyone is optimistic about. For most people, finding a hot job means a good future. And is this really the case? I don't think so
The more popular the profession, the more powerful it is. Everyone is eager for a good job. The more people invest in this industry, the greater the competition, and the higher the requirements for personal ability. Some people blindly pursue hot jobs, but often ignore subjective conditions. As a result, they quickly became victims and were ruthlessly eliminated. "Hot" may be a beautiful single-plank bridge. Only a few people can walk on it, and these few people are often elites.
In fact, it is the stupidest thing to blindly pursue "heat" and blindly follow "wind". Since your ability is limited, why bother to "squeeze" a wooden bridge with others? What everyone praises in this world is not necessarily good, and what nobody cares about is not necessarily bad. Sometimes, avoiding crowds and finding another way may be more suitable for you. Life should have the wisdom of maple leaves: I don't stand out from the crowd in the flowery spring, so I can only be a foil; I only choose to be brilliant in the late autumn when everything is bleak, and monopolize that shocking beauty! "Frost leaves are red in February flowers" actually contains a way of choosing a career in life.
A wise man will never follow suit, but choose the best opportunity and stage for himself, give full play to his talents and realize the greatest value of life.
Facing the "upsurge" of college students studying abroad, young Mao Zedong paid more attention to China, and his unique way made him a "real China revolutionary". Contemporary Yu Mingmin turned his attention to the most unpopular private education industry at that time. He keenly grasped the opportunity of first frost, showed the gorgeous "red leaves" of New Oriental, and became the richest teacher in China.
It is a leaf, you can go with the flow wholeheartedly, set off the red flowers in the noise; You can also shine in the cold and loneliness, creating a different kind of beautiful scenery. These two things only depend on whether you have the wisdom of self-positioning.
Frosted leaves are redder than flowers in February.
Schopenhauer said: "Life is a kind of suffering, and only those who can stand it can find that life is also a kind of happiness." Yes, autumn leaves experience wind and frost, February flowers are brilliant, and life after suffering is particularly wonderful.
Suffering shows the true meaning of nature's self-improvement. Seeds break through the imprisonment of soil layer and move towards light; The eagle crossed the storm and flew into the sky; Haiyan got rid of the shackles of the bird's nest and soared in the blue sky ... Do you know why the Yellow River can become a symbol of a big country? It is because it flew out from the cold Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, experienced the impact of countless stones and experienced the test of huge gap, thus forming the tiger-like momentum and thunderous power of Wan Li. Do you know why the frosty leaves in cold autumn are redder than the flowers in February? Because it has been baptized by frost, it has developed the tenacity to endure hardships, thus giving out the dazzling brilliance of life. All this shows that suffering is the hand that nature shapes the strong.
After suffering, they write the chapter of life.
Van Gogh lived in deep pain, but ignited the colorful world with pain; Gou Jian endured humiliation, but made a comeback in Yue. After the national subjugation, Li Yu drew a perfect ending for the southern Tang poetry with blood from his heart. Jews have a custom: the moment when the sun goes down is the beginning of a new day. People in many countries all over the world think that a day in the Gregorian calendar begins at midnight. When talking about this issue, the Jews said: "Those who start with night, their end is light." Great countries go to the world in this kind of education. All this tells us that "only through hell's hardships can we forge the power to create heaven and heaven."
After suffering, it created a miracle of the country's prosperity and made the world marvel.
There is such a young man with a prominent family background, which is enviable in both history and wealth. But unfortunately, the property he should have inherited was lost in various historical accidents and the mistakes of his ancestors, so the young man started from scratch and cheered up again. He is criticized and doubted by many people, but he is still bent on winning success and winning the recognition of the whole world. To this end, he has made many efforts. Finally, he won the title of "unparalleled". This young man is China. He used his vicissitudes to tell the world that he was outstanding because of suffering and strong because of suffering.
The road of history is not a sidewalk on ten thousand streets, it is completely in the wilderness, sometimes through the dust, sometimes through the mud, sometimes over the swamp, sometimes over the jungle. Similarly, in the journey of life, you will encounter all kinds of difficulties and setbacks. If you bravely break through, you can walk into the sunshine zone full of flowers.
Phoenix nirvana depends on 500 years of perseverance. Rebirth from the fire is a beautiful new life and a sublimation of suffering. Then, when hardships come unexpectedly, meet them and surpass them!
Frosted leaves are redder than flowers in February.
When the maple leaves in autumn are branded with fiery red marks, the most beautiful colors will be displayed when everything is in full bloom, and life, like the maple leaves in autumn, can only release colorful beauty after years of precipitation.
Sometimes, success needs the precipitation of years and the baptism of wind and rain to reach the peak of honor.
Over time, you can fade the girl's flowery face, or you can carve a trace on the wise man's forehead. This is probably the longest silence before the blockbuster. Masaaki Shirakawa, a famous Japanese scholar, published a personal collection at the age of 92. He devoted himself to the study of China literature, and his Baichuan laboratory was always brightly lit until eleven o'clock every night. He once said, "A scholar can't be a real scholar until he is eighty years old." Life is quiet and peaceful until I am eighty years old! Eighty years old, which should have faded, glows with more beautiful colors than youth! Who can not marvel at the beauty of such a scholar's death? What a successful life needs is the baptism of years, cleaning up the filth of time and leaving the essence of life before entering the hall of honor.
Sometimes, success is a beauty who becomes a late bloomer, leaving the most splendid old age. Time teaches calmness, and wind and rain teach perseverance. Therefore, success is a brocade interwoven with calmness and persistence, but it takes a lot of time to be exquisite. Chinese painting pays attention to the beauty of profundity and implication. If you look closely, the masters who can be unscrupulous and splash ink are often near seventy years of age. There may be only a few strokes in a painting, but what emerges from it is the massiness accumulated over the years and the vitality that has experienced wind and rain. Therefore, people who are eager for success are also willing to spread their heroism in their twilight years and look forward to the evening scenery. "Martyrs are full of courage in their twilight years", which is exactly the case. Success is often the most vigorous last stroke of wealth accumulation and thin hair, which outlines the extraordinary charm of a magnificent life.
The baptism of wind and rain can make the heart tougher. When you clench your fist, grit your teeth and rush through the final storm, you will suddenly see the most beautiful rainbow. Wu is a famous writer in our country. He persisted in his creation when his family was besieged on all sides and his meals were unsustainable. Finally, he got The Scholars, which enjoyed a good reputation in the literary world. Beethoven continued to write after he was deaf, and later he had the Symphony of Destiny. After falling into the trough of life, Akira Kurosawa constantly reflected on his creation and finally won the Cannes Film Festival Award at the age of 70. If the wreath after success is the brightest, then I say the storm before success is the most beautiful, because it inspires the tired hearts of hikers and gives the real warriors the courage to soar.
Maple leaf is better than fire, but what gives it gorgeous pride in the bleak autumn wind? Success is as beautiful as a flower, but what gives it amazing beauty after its death?
As time goes by, the wind and rain are tottering. Calm and persistent people are unmoved. The beauty of success in old age slightly overshadowed the tenderness of youth, and the winner smiled and thanked the dying beauty.