The love between Li Dan and Heiwei Sauce was also ridiculed as the realistic version of Daxiong and Jingxiang.

The netizen laughed and said: "The lazy hero finally married the dream lover Jing Xiang."

In my impression, the two have a good relationship and often show their love on social networks, so many people are shocked by the divorce between Heiwei sauce and Li Dan.

But to be honest, I'm not surprised.

As a matter of fact, their divorce was foretold.

Birds are different from fish. Their love is an accident.

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"Marriage brings me great pain."

I love freedom more than you.

After reading "Waiting for Li's Birthday", I thought there would be many sweet stories of black tail sauce in the book.

As a result, when I opened the book, I didn't feel the bright warmth when two people were together, but I felt a large piece of inner cold, which made people gasp.

It turned out that their marriage was like this in Li Dan's mind.

Li Dan said:

Marriage has brought me great pain.

In other words, I gave my nameless pain a name and shaped it.

The last false freedom is gone, animal's and self-destructive.

None of you feel guilty for forcing me to get married. No one has considered the consequences for me. I was abandoned and lived in this happy life. It deserves you.

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For the lover's black tail sauce, he described it like this:

I love my girlfriend, but I still refuse to use the title of wife.

She is no better in this matter, even worse than me. She thinks that love can overcome everything, my persistent habit, my long-term cowardice, the cold wind that has never been broken in my heart, and my friendship with death for many years.

She tried to hold me and put her hand on my heart, hoping to warm my heart.

Will my heart be hot? No, this is its mission.

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It can be seen from these words that Li Dan is not as humorous as he is on the stage.

How frolic he is in the program, and how desolate his heart is. He is a complete pessimist.

For him, marriage is not a warm nest, but a cage that traps him. Two people have been together for a long time, so we must give you an "explanation"

He was forced to get married.

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Contrary to Li Dan's attitude towards the pain of marriage, in this relationship, Black Tail Sauce, like many ordinary little girls, has been trying to burn herself for love.

Try to love your heart again and again with hot confessions.

She once took Li's birthday as her own sun, sent a photo with an essay:

In July, looking at photos now seems like watching the sun every day.

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She once regarded Li Dan, who was laughing happily, as a "super handsome guy".

When Li Dan had nothing, he was still a poor boy, so he said four words of "handsome" to Li Dan and made a passionate confession: I want to be with you.

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She seldom writes to praise Li's birthday talent, and everyone is boasting. In her eyes, the loveliness of Li's birthday is always in some small things.

For example, Li Dan just squatted in the steeplechase, and she also wanted to praise him: He was very good.

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To tell the truth, Li's birthday has nothing to do with the word "handsome" according to secular standards.

But it is this seemingly "blind" love that makes Black Tail Sauce feel more sincere about Li's birthday.

Many people in this world have no love. They are well liked for their looks, talents and money. In fact, when they love each other, they also love themselves.

And true love, after stripping off these standards, must be a treasure from the heart:

But no matter how ugly others think you are, I love you; But no matter how unsuitable others think us, you are a treasure in my heart.

What she loves is the soil at the foot of the rose, the most special star in the universe, and the innocence that only she saw on Li's birthday.

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But the most painful thing with pessimists is to accept unequal love forever.

For Li's birthday, although marriage makes him happy, the oppression that follows is often stronger than happiness.

Lee loves black tail sauce at Christmas, but he loves the unspeakable freedom more than black tail sauce.

Even this desire for "freedom" will eventually hurt each other.

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"How can a hugging hug be derailed?"

Without faith, he is the biggest killer with feelings.

At the end of 2018165438+10, some netizens broke the news about a video of "Li's birthday is suspected of being derailed".

The netizen broke the news: It seems that Lee Guo kissed a girl who was not his wife on her birthday, and then he hugged her.

From the photographer's point of view, the relationship between these two people is really "close", during which the girl's hand was once put on Li Dan's shoulder.

Set off an uproar for a while.

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Although after the incident, Li Birthday issued a statement denying "derailment";

The video hostess also explained airily with a series of "hahahahahaha":

"disgusting! I am really a black question mark. "

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Weibo commented that there are also many friends on Li's birthday who are "assisting":

"Every time I drink too much, I will dance with XXX. No one ever feels wrong."

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"Their circle is quite open."

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But netizens still don't buy it.

Because this series of rhetoric simply shocks people's three views. It seems normal to cuddle with other people when you have a girlfriend. On the contrary, netizens are "eccentric."

But no matter what grandiose explanation they make for this cross-border action, one thing is certain:

When any woman really cares about a person and a relationship, she will not feel good in the face of such a scene.

Even if he is drunk, he is rude.

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This lack of sense of boundaries reminds me of Lingling who came to help me consult before.

Lingling said that she recently dreamed that her husband was cheating on another woman. Sometimes it is someone she knows, sometimes it is a strange face, and some people can't see clearly in their dreams. ......

Although she knew that the dream was not a reality, the mood in the dream kept waking up.

Lingling didn't find the reason until the teacher guided her to tell her about things, people and so on that made her feel uncomfortable in her marriage.

It turns out that Lingling's husband has always had a good female friend.

The husband said it was cold, so the female friend took off her coat and handed it to him to wear.

When we went out to play together, my husband said, "You see, XX and I are quite suitable. We all know to bring some cash in case of emergency. "

Lingling asked, "How can you say in front of your wife that you are suitable for another woman?"

The husband said directly, "She is not another woman." .

"I know they mean nothing to each other, but I still feel uncomfortable watching these scenes."

Lingling couldn't seem to stop talking about it, and the more she said it, the more wronged she became.

The reason is obvious, which is caused by the lack of sense of boundary between husband and friends.