Is it true that 80% of college students live in dormitories after school because they are addicted to games? The author believes that although it is not absolutely true, there are indeed some college students who are addicted to games and have lost their direction in life.

Nowadays, college students have a remarkable feature, that is, people become smarter and have a wider range of knowledge, but their self-reliance ability and self-care ability have declined. This is still obvious. For example, when going to school in Bian Xiao, many college students will go out as tutors, so that they can exercise themselves, earn a certain living expenses and basically support themselves.

What about college students now? How many people are tutors and go out to work and study? It's basically clothes reaching out. No matter what parents do, no matter what family conditions, it has become a firm rule to send money to children at that time. So why do college students nowadays seem to be very enterprising, and sometimes even indulge in games and lose themselves? Bian Xiao believes that there are two main reasons: both parents and children have responsibilities.

Bian Xiao feels that the main responsibility lies with parents. You are not mistaken. Parents should bear the main responsibility. There is a simple reason. Children are raised by you, and some of their living habits and personality characteristics are inseparable from the influence of their parents. How to cultivate children's sense of responsibility and enterprising spirit is very important. If we don't make more efforts in this respect, the children in the future will not be able to stand on their own feet, and parents will naturally participate.

At present, most parents only emphasize the achievement of basic knowledge when cultivating their children, and basically ignore the ability of self-reliance and self-care. Some parents even turn a blind eye to some small problems, such as children's love to play with mobile phones, which will not only affect their academic performance, but also easily lead to their bad living habits.

Therefore, the quality of children is directly related to their parents. Childhood personality directly determines their attitudes and principles in the future, and even their outlook on life. Nowadays, most children are trying to make ends meet, so even if they go to college, can they? What to wear for dinner? Yes, but they will still sit there waiting for you to feed them, just like many college students don't know about work-study programs, but they keep asking their parents for money.

In addition to the responsibilities of parents, students themselves also have certain reasons. Some students are not enterprising, have no clear sense of responsibility and ambition, have no complete life plan and lack independent personality. They also muddle along, so it is a problem for such students to live independently even after graduation.

In short, it is an indisputable fact that some college students are addicted to games and do not make progress. For such children, parents, teachers, schools and students themselves need to work together to change their attitude towards things, improve their life ethics and let them gradually return to normal.