For parents of students, most people are against their children falling in love during school, and even some parents are against their children falling in love during college. Is this concept still appropriate today?

In fact, many things do exist too late. As for whether the university falls in love or not, the author thinks that parents should respect their children's choices. Even if you don't fall in love, at least find someone after graduation.

Of course, maybe this idea will be opposed by some parents.

However, just a while ago, some media reported that a 29-year-old boy, Xiao Liu, had a blind date and encountered an embarrassing situation in the process. Because the blind date brought 23 relatives to dinner, the cost of a blind date was as high as 20,000 yuan. Such a blind date, it is estimated that many people will be angry, and then Liu Ye angrily left.

Finally, the woman gave the answer, which was a test of the man's mind. In the end, Xiao Liu paid more than 4000 yuan, and the rest was borne by the woman. Nevertheless, for the average person, the cost of a blind date of more than 4,000 yuan is actually not low.

There is more than one such incident. As a graduated college student, it is not easy to find a suitable partner after graduation if you don't find someone to fall in love with during college.

In fact, in most cases, many children who have attended school will marry their classmates, and this phenomenon also occurs because most children have a single social circle, and most of the peers they can know are their own classmates or alumni.

Although the internet has become extremely developed and expanded people's social circle, for men and women friends, after all, there are still a few people who meet and get married through the internet. In most cases, it is either to dig up classmates, colleagues or friends of colleagues. Of course, there are other ways.

However, for most students who have not found a goal in college or found a goal after graduation, they may face a "blind date" once they graduate, according to acquaintances.

I have to say that such an ending can't be said to be bad, but it is by no means a good way to solve personal problems. Especially in the process of media coverage of blind date, we encountered many embarrassing things, which made many graduates more or less afraid of "blind date".

Comparatively speaking, those students who find the other half in college may have a more stable marriage, because they have a certain emotional foundation through mutual understanding in college. This is one of the better ways to find a "love object". Of course, there is no denying that someone found "true love" through "blind date", but how big this probability is may be worthy of our deep thinking.

Perhaps we can understand why more and more graduates are unwilling to get married. They may be due to economic pressure, but it is more likely that they have lost their ability to fall in love.

So, do parents still want to stop their children from falling in love?

The author has also stressed before that children's love problems can be supervised and correctly guided before college, but when they enter college, parents should give their children some space, instead of being the same as their children, and they are not allowed to do this or that ... Otherwise, parents will urge their children to graduate and find an object to marry.

However, it is not easy for college students to find a partner after graduation. If they have no love experience, they will easily be used by emotional "veterans" and even cheat their feelings and get hurt. Some children may collapse for this reason and suffer "great losses" emotionally.

Everyone's life should be different. Don't let your children live like their parents.

As parents, we should also learn to "let go" in time for our children's feelings. Maybe they have grown up!