Full communication, I believe that most people are caring people.

When communicating with your roommate, you must pay attention to communication skills and don't hurt his self-esteem. The most important thing is kindness and humility. Don't be hasty and don't shake your face. People should have self-esteem.

For example, after the lights out in the dormitory, some students are sleeping, and a roommate is still watching a movie outside under the bed. A grumpy classmate may just say, keep your voice down, it's noisy. As a result, everyone guessed that the roommate who went to the movies couldn't stand it, and directly came to the sentence, did I mention you when you were like this before?

In fact, the roommate who watched the movie also knew that he was doing something wrong, but he just couldn't stand the classmate's speech attitude. If that classmate can walk over, talk calmly, and let the classmate who is watching the movie wear headphones, Bian Xiao thinks the effect will be much better.

Even if it is his fault, you should control your emotions and communicate calmly.

There is no animosity between roommates. If everyone takes a step back, it will be different, but first, you should learn to communicate with others.

02

Be tolerant and understanding, and be a generous person.

Some people will say that they have been calm and communicated countless times, and the other party just won't listen. What should I do?

To tell the truth, there is no good way for such people. I'm afraid there is no other way but to fight violence with violence. However, this is not the best choice. It's hard to live together when a dormitory looks up but doesn't see it. The most important thing is to avoid tragedy. There have been too many such tragedies in recent years.

The only way left is tolerance and understanding. If he doesn't want to clean the dormitory, you can clean it more often. Anyway, there is only a little space in the dormitory. He is noisy at night, you may fall asleep when you put on headphones to listen to music; If he doesn't pour the instant noodles after eating, you can help him pour them out and show him what kind of person he is.

In fact, when you leave school, you will encounter many unfair things. When you are powerless to change, you can only endure it and then turn it into motivation.

People are doing it, and the sky is watching. God won't let a generous person down. In a way, it is also an exercise, and it is useless to communicate with others. Only with a generous heart can we do better.

03

It is also the most important to regard these as training your own ability.

I endure, what I exercise is my endurance and endurance. If you quarrel, I will exercise my anti-interference ability and concentration. Maybe school is the last relatively quiet environment in your life. Life will be more noisy after you get married. What should you do? Why not take this opportunity to exercise yourself?

A lot of bad things, from another angle, you will be open-minded.

An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. What you are experiencing now may be a fortune in the future. After many years, you may be grateful if you think about it again. Don't always complain about the suffering in your life now. Sometimes, from a different perspective, learn to enjoy it, and you will find that what you experience is a kind of exercise. Don't forget why you insist and don't give up because of difficulties. What will happen in the future is a gift.

In fact, in the final analysis, the most fundamental way to jump out of an environment you don't like is that you have enough capital. Share a word, live like lime, the more people pour cold water on my life, the more boiling my life.

Of course, I also hope that all the roommates you meet are like-minded and can have fun together. This kind of example is not without. Sometimes, mutual tolerance really changes a lot.