Don't mistake friendship for love.
The opposite sex should rationally grasp the boundaries between friendship and love. Friendship between the opposite sex is different from love. It is wrong to think that there is only love and no friendship between the opposite sex. The opposite sex can establish and maintain a healthy friendship. Some students can't accurately distinguish friendship from love when they are in contact with the opposite sex, which adds a lot of trouble to both sides.
2, can not only focus on the process regardless of the consequences.
Responsibility is an important guarantee of long-term love and the touchstone of faithful love. People's praise of love at all times and in all countries reflects the selfless dedication of lovers to each other. This voluntary responsibility enriches the connotation of love and promotes the realm of love. If "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had", treating love as a game will hurt each other and myself.
3. Establish a correct view of love.
University is a wonderful time of life, and the flowers of love are colorful. Only by being cared for will they bloom more colorful. College students should establish a correct view of love, take a cautious and serious attitude towards love, properly handle the relationship between study and love, properly solve the problems of misunderstanding and lovelorn love, and avoid improper grasp and handling of love problems.
4. Don't misplace love.
Some students put love in the highest position, pursue love first and indulge in emotional lingering. This view of love can easily lead to misunderstanding of life goals, which is very harmful to college students who need to devote their main energy to their studies. Being very much in love all day and delaying study is not conducive to correctly treating and dealing with contradictions and setbacks in the process of love, which often makes some students lose control of their emotions and behaviors after falling in love or lovelorn, and even lead to serious consequences.
If we meet in love in college, it is a blessing to love, to ourselves and to future happiness to cherish and handle all kinds of relationships in love.