Birthday is a common thing, but this year's birthday is particularly unforgettable for Xiaomei, because her 19 birthday was spent in the police station. The flowers in her hand and the cake on the table were bought for her by the policewoman. She appeared at the police station on suspicion of taking drugs. When I saw the news, I felt very heavy. 19 of the age, originally the age of the flower season, but because of the so-called buddy loyalty, even curiosity, I took the drugs handed over by "friends" without thinking. Xiaomei is a college student, and now she is a sophomore. She has a great youth, but she lost her sense of proportion and came to a place that should have nothing to do with her. Waiting for her is a long period of remorse and abstinence ... Xiaomei usually makes such illegal and criminal things because her parents are negligent in discipline. As long as she wants to do something, her parents let her do it without any rules and constraints, so she will intensify, lose her sense of proportion and become more and more unruly. In order to prevent this from happening again, we should cultivate children's rules and "measure" from an early age. Do you know how to make children "measured"? Welcome everyone to leave a message at the bottom of the comment area!

First, parents should not spoil their children, but be measured.

When we walk in the street or get together with friends and relatives, we will feel very educated if we meet children with proper manners and quality. Their peers are children who have no rules and no sense of proportion, and most of these children have a * * * sex, that is, their parents spoil them too much. Which parent in the world doesn't love children? But love should pay attention to one way and have a limit. Overindulgence will make children lose themselves more and more, and become more and more disproportionate.

2. Cultivate children's rules and measures from an early age.

Therefore, good habits are formed from childhood, absolutely right. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate her rules and propriety when the child is young. From the rules, from table manners to dealing with people, educate children patiently, and tell them what they can and can't do first. What can and can't be done should be made clear to children from two aspects: moral quality and laws and regulations. If they lose their discretion, what will happen to them? Are you ready to take responsibility for the consequences before you do something?

Never let the child's temper come.

Cherrie Ying, a famous entertainment star, also talked about the issue of propriety when educating children. Children should be educated at home, so that they won't go out and be gossiped or even do inappropriate things. All this is subject to certain constraints, and the child's temperament is definitely not allowed.