Basically, everyone will say to become excellent first. I think this sentence is actually very empty, that is, it has not pointed out the direction, let alone proposed the method. In fact, the eyes of friends are very important. There are always some people reading "Why didn't I choose him at that time and blindly found this balabala?" If you don't know what kind of man is trustworthy, it's easy to be led astray by your own feelings.