How difficult is it for college students to be independent? Know these three points and be an excellent person yourself.
1. Most of the traditional family education methods in China restrict the cultivation of students' independent consciousness.
China's parents mostly hold the hope that their children will succeed. Since childhood, they have made clear arrangements for their children, getting up, sleeping, studying and so on every day. From life and work, the future of further studies, etc., are all arranged by parents.
The arrangement from parents will indeed make children detour, but they are too dependent on their parents and lack the ability to make independent decisions and plans, and may not know what kind of learning style and lifestyle to choose.
As a result, many students do not know how to study after graduating from high school and entering universities, and it is easy to lose the good habit of self-discipline.
2. The rebound after the high-pressure college entrance examination made students feel relieved and felt that there was no need to work harder.
Before the college entrance examination, the school and parents put forward the slogan "as long as you don't die, you must learn to die", and the teacher also comforted the students. "It's very tiring to study now, but it's good to go to college." "Therefore, students are often in a state of excessive tension and pressure in high school.
How difficult is it for college students to be independent? Know these three points and be an excellent person yourself.
Three months after the college entrance examination, most senior high school students had a good summer vacation. Coupled with the relaxed atmosphere in the university, students began to "fly by themselves". The pent-up energy of high school broke out in universities, and they spent a lot of time on entertainment such as internet, games and movies, and could not control themselves well.
Over time, these recreational hours have affected students' study and life. They do not actively participate in activities, have no motivation to learn, their academic performance drops, and their attention is not concentrated, which has caused a series of chain reactions.
When the exam is approaching and you need to work hard, you can only review for the exam by surprise.
China's parents mostly hold the hope that their children will succeed. Since childhood, they have made clear arrangements for their children, getting up, sleeping, studying and so on every day. From life and work, the future of further studies, etc., are all arranged by parents.
The arrangement from parents will indeed make children detour, but they are too dependent on their parents and lack the ability to make independent decisions and plans, and may not know what kind of learning style and lifestyle to choose.