I summed up some good conditions that college students should have. In fact, to sum up is to enjoy loneliness, take care of yourself, study hard and improve yourself.
The above is my personal experience. I hope all confused students can refer to it and try to make their university not confused.
1. Learn to be alone
Eating alone, sleeping alone, studying alone, walking alone, going to the library alone and seeing a doctor alone are not terrible things, but very romantic things. Loneliness is the only outlet for loneliness.
2. Go to bed early and get up early
Get up early on time whether there is class or not in the morning. Because there is no class, I go to bed in the afternoon. The university you worked so hard to get into is not for sleeping. Go to bed early at night, don't always stay up late to brush your mobile phone. Staying up late not only hurts the liver, but also makes it ugly.
Eat on time
Eat three meals a day on time, no matter whether your roommate eats or not, you must eat anyway; Don't skip meals because no one will accompany you to the canteen. Eating alone is not lonely and there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Keep moving
Regular exercise, a healthy body is more important than anything else.
5. Go to the library more and stay in the dormitory less.
When there is no class, go to the library to read more books and stay in the dormitory less. Living in a dormitory every day is not a big deal. Think about those roommates who often stay in the dormitory. Are they just sleeping and playing with their mobile phones?
6. Brush your circle of friends less. A certain sound is fast, which wastes time and has no nutrition. At present, the WeChat business is basically active in the circle of friends, and a certain sound is even more nutritious. Brush your circle of friends, what you can only do at the age of 80, don't take up the time of 20 years old.
7. Tidy up your desk, bed and wardrobe.
Get up every day, fold the quilt, keep the desktop clean and tidy, and put the clothes in the closet. Don't think that no one can see in the dormitory. A delicate girl should be strict with herself.
8. Pay attention to your clothes
Clothes pilling, remember to shave; The shoes are dirty, so they should be cleaned in time. You don't have to wear famous brands, but you must dress neatly and elegantly.
9. Learn to reject others and not be a flattering personality.
If you don't want to do anything, just say no, don't feel embarrassed, don't embarrass yourself, you should remember that helping is a mutual obligation, and not helping is your duty.
10. Don't care too much about your roommate.
Roommates are best to get along with, but they don't have to cater to them if they can't. Don't care too much about your roommate. There is a saying that college roommates are not necessarily friends. You know, after graduation, everyone goes their separate ways, far apart, with little overlap. You have to believe that it must be your high school classmates who have a good relationship with you in the future.
1 1. Don't fall in love because of loneliness.
When you get to college, you will find that many students around you are in love. Don't envy, 90% of love in college can't come to the end. Love is a rare thing, don't fall in love because of loneliness. A person is the best time to appreciate.
12. Be an ambitious person and fight for what you want.
Be an ambitious person and strive for class committees, societies, grants, scholarships, competitions, etc. , as long as you like. Don't be afraid of failure, you won't know if it is possible until you try.
13. No comparison, no consumption in advance.
Cheap skin care products are also very easy to use, and Taobao's clothes are also beautiful. Don't envy others for using everything well, just consume whatever products you have. Don't compare your parents' hard money with others. Don't use or borrow flowers, it will be addictive.
14. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, but dare to make mistakes.
University is the only stage where you can make mistakes at will, because you have the protection of students. All mistakes can be forgiven, so don't be afraid to make mistakes. Try to make more mistakes in college and find something that suits you and you like.
15. Have a good class.
Listen carefully in class and don't touch the fish. The teacher knows whether you are serious or not. Although he didn't say it, he will definitely give you a high average score. Moreover, there are not many classes in the university. If you don't study hard, you won't have it.
16. Don't panic, you are the best!
After entering the university, you will find many excellent people around you, and you will find yourself with many shortcomings. At this time, don't panic, don't worry, keep self-confidence and constantly strive to improve yourself. You know, it's no use worrying. Take your time, and you will become excellent. Remember, when your heart sinks, life will overflow.