University is a city that you will never go again when you come. Have you ever thought about or asked yourself how I should spend it? I thought about it and asked myself, but it seems that all the answers can only be obtained after you really leave.
When I first went to college, I told myself that I had to read a lot. Later, I did read a lot, but I didn't read enough. I also told myself to have fun, but I played too much.
Once my college classmates and friends around me said: college is better than that. Yes! They really had a good time, drinking, KTV, Internet cafes, mahjong room. They played for four years and graduated smoothly!
When I really graduated from college, I really understood what kind of college life I wanted. There is no difference between a college student who has been playing for four years and a college student who has been doing nothing for four years. They also got nothing, or the former gained more than the latter. The one who played gained some friends, and the mediocre one just lay in the hotbed of college for four years.
And I, as a college student, play too much time. I soaked myself with alcohol. After all, I read too little. I thought I could handle the communication with my classmates and study alone, but in the end I found that I couldn't handle it well. I don't think one can study hard while having fun. I have proved that this is very difficult by practice, but of course I can't say for sure.
Too many people didn't enrich themselves with the resources in the university, but hollowed themselves out with our young capital. What kind of life you want depends entirely on us. You have the right and ability to choose. You have so much resources in four years of college, but you don't cherish them. When you graduate from college, most of you are destined to be tired and hard.
Remember to be knowledgeable in college.
It is never wrong to study. No matter what professional books you read, you can read literary works, as well as books for postgraduate entrance examination and examination. The knowledge you encounter in college in this life is a treasure house that you will never have in this life, but often many people don't care. The only thing that can't be wrong in college is to learn to read. Don't trust others to tell you to enjoy your college life, make friends and have a love affair. Honey, don't believe those stories. There are often some people in the university. They look down on people who study, those who have always been among the best in academic performance, those who often stay in the library, and those who are locked in the laboratory for research. They don't live well by themselves, and they don't want others to live better than him. They are full of unknown addresses, talking with people all over the world, talking about ideals and showing people their lofty aspirations, but they are always just talking. They have never been to the library to read a good book, to experience the thoughts of the great men in the book, and to cultivate their three views. People with ideas are in the library, people who really do research are in the research room, people who drink well are in pubs, and people who play well are in internet cafes. You can find anyone you want to see. People who really pursue their dreams are always running hard.
You should learn loyalty in college.
All roads lead to the same goal. Leave people who are different from you as soon as possible, or you will find it difficult to maintain your relations. Either lonely or vulgar. There are too many temptations in this society and today's university atmosphere. Most college students no longer discuss knowledge and academics. People who are really meaningful and knowledgeable are lonely in their hearts. They walk alone among thorns. In college, you should be accompanied by people who have been running hard, who can drive you and give you positive energy; You should meet some real teachers you can call teachers. They are unpretentious, hypocritical and knowledgeable, and can share their life experiences with you. Those things are much more valuable than what you learned in college classes.
Most of your classmates and friends are just passers-by in your life, and not many can really become friends in your life. Actually, you really don't need too many friends. Most of them don't need to occupy your life. You need to know them carefully, just find a few good ones, get closer to positive people and things, and avoid negative people and things, because they will waste your precious time and don't let them occupy your life.
I seem to have seen such a sentence somewhere the other day: only your parents will be really happy for your Excellence. This sentence is actually a bit extreme, but it also reflects a few meanings. Many people will be jealous and dissatisfied with your Excellence. From a sociological point of view, when a group of the same level suddenly leaves this level and goes to a higher level, some people subconsciously feel that we are all the same. Why can he go to a better level and I can't? The so-called friends are usually people at your level. If a person breaks this delicate harmony, it will lead to the decline of the relationship.
Therefore, excellent people are often lonely, and successful people always have their own characteristics. In college, you should stick to your loneliness. Sticking to your loneliness does not mean not socializing or making friends, but sticking to your inner principles and keeping your inner peace.
You should be wise in college.
There are too many people who will lecture you. They tell you what to do. Those seniors told you that you should adapt to this student union, because that's how people in the student union come over. People who come here are the best at preaching. They always tell you that studying is useless. You should make more friends. If you want to win this position, you should give someone something and invite him to dinner. They will tell you not to talk about dreams and ideals. Those things are all. In college, you should learn the ability to distinguish right from wrong. There are always all kinds of people preaching to you. They will always tell you some dogmas that they think are reasonable as people who have experienced them. But, dear, in the final analysis, college and life are all your own. You can listen to what others say, and it's up to you to accept it or not. Your life is your own. This society has been carrying out some specific rules, some human feelings and some rules. This is society. The word "she" is indigenous and destined to be indigenous. She is not so lofty and clean. It's up to you how not to be too hard on yourself and make yourself stink. I have always adhered to the idea that I can allow myself to be secular, but I can't allow myself to be philistine. I can allow myself to succeed with some skills, but I can't allow my success to be at the expense of framing others.
Learn to be careful what you say and do in college.
You should watch your mouth, talk less about others and look more at yourself in college. Even if someone says a person in front of you, please don't go along with him. Those who often talk about others behind their backs may also talk about you when they are with others. Please stay away from negative people. They like to judge others and say what's wrong with them to show that they won't do that. Remember, don't improve yourself at the expense of belittling others, which will be ridiculous to some smart people.
You should learn to be cautious in college. Don't believe that there must be a relationship in college. Many people will feel amazing when they see a girl or a boy, and they can't wait to pursue it and want to have TA. Honey, please don't worry. TA may not be as beautiful as you think. You just saw what your teaching assistant showed you. What you need to see is what TA didn't let you see. This is called communication. In communication, we all show our best side to each other, so some people say that if you want to know a person, you must listen to what he didn't say to you. This sentence makes sense. We often think that this person is like this. After we get to know each other, we find that this person is actually superficial or very rich in connotation. Love does not look at appearances together. If it's just for appearance, then your so-called goddess and goddess can only be posted on the wall for appreciation, and TA is not applicable. Of course, you will also meet sincere love in college. If it really conforms to your thoughts, opinions and lifestyle, of course, try it. Personally, I am in favor of getting to know each other on the basis of friends, but often many people can't wait to throw themselves at the people they like, and finally they really get together and find many problems. TA is not as good as you think, and you don't love TA so much. Really beautiful love will definitely make you better. The premise of falling in love in college is not to fall in love for loneliness, not to fall in love for love. If you really meet the right person, please bravely pursue it and face any possible results.
If you are in college, please cherish your time, it is never too late to wake up. We can't go back to college life, so we can only let bygones be bygones, and we will chase after what is coming.
University is a very important stop on the road to growth. Four years have passed quickly, and no excuse is a reason for wasting your time. You should know what kind of person you want to be, what kind of life you want, and what kind of yourself you want, and work hard to improve him.
University, dear, you must remember to equip yourself with a pair of armor, cultivate yourself well and be responsible for yourself. When you graduate from college, you will thank yourself.