The school banquet is one of the unique traditional banquets in China, which is usually held at the academic stage when students are promoted to high schools and universities. As a guest, in addition to tasting delicious food and enjoying a happy atmosphere, it is also an essential link to give gifts to the host.
First of all, it should be noted that each region and each family have slightly different views and acceptance of the amount of gift money. Some cities, such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and other relatively rich areas, have higher requirements, while other economically underdeveloped areas have lower requirements accordingly. Generally speaking, the number of additional gifts for school banquets is related to your relationship with the host, your financial ability and local cultural customs.
In addition, in addition to cash-filled red envelopes, the choice of gifts is also very diverse. If you are not interested in traditional forms of red envelopes, stationery, digital products, books, flowers and other gifts are good choices. However, when choosing gifts, we should pay attention to avoiding the situation of emphasizing color over friends and choosing some generous small gifts.
Bad phenomenon
1, "Teacher Xie Banquet" emerges one after another, and the endless stream of "red business cards" also annoys many parents. A parent said that when my son was admitted to college a few years ago, we hosted several banquets and received gifts from relatives and friends. But in the past two years, my friends' children have been admitted to universities one after another and held a thank-you banquet. The red envelope I returned has already exceeded the total amount of gifts I received. In my opinion, such a banquet will become a fund-raising banquet.
2. Some people invite you to the thank-you banquet, and for the sake of work and face, they have to bring red envelopes to the banquet. This kind of banquet is a headache to eat, and it is not good for children to see this scene more often.
Some hotels offer preferential policies to attract customers who hold school banquets, and it is difficult for many citizens to decide whether to attend the thank-you banquet invited by friends. Some parents agree with Mr. Zhang that the banquet of thanking the teacher has brought undue distress and financial burden to the family.
The thank-you banquet has quietly deteriorated. Some parents are not celebrating their children's success in further education, but accepting gifts in the form of a thank-you banquet.
5. "Xie Shi Yan" covered up corruption, borrowed children's education and other matters, and held a banquet to collect money.