You can say it directly, and you can discuss the problem with him from his girlfriend's point of view. We all know that men and women are different. Although it is the 265,438+0 century, some inner morality and conservative words are still needed and exist. Then if your roommate brings his girlfriend to the dormitory for the night, they will definitely sleep together. Then if men and women sleep together, intimate things will definitely happen. They may not be able to control themselves because of passion, and they don't care if there are others around, so they will do something they want to do, such as ~
As outsiders and friends, you are in the same dormitory. If you sleep together, you will inevitably accidentally see his girlfriend sleeping when you get up at night. If anything leaks out, it will be seen, and it is his girlfriend who suffers, not you. If you are a roommate, you are a bystander when they clap your hands. Although you can't see it in the dark, at least you can hear the sound of movement. What a bad thing this is for a girl, and how much influence it has on her reputation ~
You can tell all this to your roommate. If he really cares about his girlfriend and thinks about her reputation, I believe he won't take her back to the dormitory for the night in the future. It doesn't cost much to open a hotel and you don't have to go every day. As for saving money?
One more thing, you can tell him from your own point of view. You live in a dormitory, so this house belongs to both of you. You can't bring people to the dormitory casually, let alone the opposite sex. Let alone his girlfriend's mentality of coming to live in the dormitory with him, just say yourself. If his girlfriend comes, everything will be restricted, it will be inconvenient to do anything, and even avoid it. Then at night, maybe the affection between two lovers will affect your normal rest.
Forget it once or twice, but it's really meaningless to bring her here often. Although he also lives in this dormitory, he has to think about his roommates. He can't be selfish ~
Anyway, I can't understand and accept such behavior. I really can't figure out what he and his girlfriend think. Two people just don't care about each other's privacy? Or do you really want to live in a dormitory just to save this money? And there is a man in the dormitory. If this gets out, how will the girl be treated? Let's talk to him directly, so that everyone is good!