David Pollet said: In this world, many people are like garbage trucks, full of hatred, anger, disappointment, jealousy, impulsiveness and greed. ...............................................................................................................................
With the accumulation of garbage, they urgently need to dump it. If you give them this chance, they will throw it at you.
When we encounter garbage, we will stay away from it. So, what about people who encounter garbage?
Especially when you meet the following three types of garbage people, it is wise to stay away from them.
1 People who ignore the rules and are sexually violent choose to admit cowardice.
Ms. Chen, with long hair fluttering, came to the hot pot restaurant. When she turned around, her hair accidentally met the man next to her.
The man was furious and severely criticized. Chen apologized again and again, but the man was furious and kept cursing.
Ms. Chen is also angry: finished? As for it?
The man sneered, got up, picked up the hot pot and smashed it in Ms. Chen's face. ...
Do most violent, impulsive and self-centered people feel guilty for breaking the rules and treat them in the usual way?
Don't reason with such people, because they won't ignore the rules after listening.
What should I do when I meet such a violent garbage man?
Professor Li Meijin said, we must recognize cowardice, let nature take its course, stop stimulating him, ease it slowly, and then think about countermeasures.
It is the best policy to endure calm for a while, take a step back and be resourceful. Don't try to defend the rules, because when your ability is limited, you may pay the price of blood.
Nietzsche said: If you fight the dragon for too long, you will become a dragon yourself; If you stare at the abyss for too long, the abyss will stare back at you.
Back to Ms. Chen.
When such a thing happens, just say hello to each other in your heart and let him go.
Unreasonable barefoot people, submit to humiliation
Driving back to my hometown, when the village turned the corner, an old lady suddenly appeared, trembling all over. I slammed on the brakes and broke out in a cold sweat.
I hurried out of the car to check, but fortunately I didn't meet it. But the old man said he was hit.
Tell her patiently: "There is monitoring in the car."
She grabbed the car door and cried hysterically: Come and see, if you hit someone, you won't admit it.
There should be a better way to handle it, but I really don't have time.
So I gave her some so-called compensation for mental damage.
Barefoot people who are not afraid of wearing shoes should not compete with such rubbish people. Your time is much more expensive. If you argue with them, it is easy to be dragged into the quagmire.
Moreover, winning is disgraceful, and losing is even more disgraceful. Think about it, a clean person jumps into the garbage dump, no matter what, it will not get better, or even get dirty.
There is a wonderful saying on the Internet: Don't wrestle with a pig, so you will be covered in mud, while this second brother is lying in the mud and having a good time.
Liu Yong said: The most rational and powerful people have the most say. When you only have reason but no strength, don't rush into the river. You'd better take a step back patiently.
Throwing the mouse is better than hiding from the device. Do you have to calculate the cost and price when you shoot the mouse?
People who are jealous and vicious must keep a low profile.
The Daily Star reported that Dalia from Russia threw his best friend Kolova's 2-month-old daughter from the building 13, causing the child to die on the spot.
Kolova not only has a husband who loves her deeply, but also gave birth to a lovely daughter two months ago. A family of three is happy.
Delia saw it in her eyes and was jealous, so she made such a crazy move.
Weibo reported that a female college student rubbed unwashed peach hair on her roommate's underwear.
Others mixed birth control pills into their roommates' meals.
Because of jealousy, these garbage people with no lower limit can do anything.
So, what should they do when they are around?
Yang Shen in the Ming Dynasty said, "Trees are hidden in the forest, and everyone ignores them. What? It is also different from others. "
Keep a low profile, be ignorant, keep your distance, avoid being different and superior.
When Zeng Guofan was in Changsha, he led soldiers out to practice Yong Yong. A man named Qingde encouraged people around him to make trouble and refused to listen to Zeng Guofan's command.
Zeng Guofan didn't want to tangle with such a rotten person, so he went to Hengyang.
Later, he worked in the Imperial Academy, and his immediate leader Zhao Ji held banquets in various names to collect money. Zeng Guofan offended him by not attending once.
This garbage man bears a grudge, suppresses it everywhere, makes things difficult for him in many ways and pushes him out.
However, Zeng Guofan didn't care about this, but he was polite and alienated, doing his own thing and not giving the other party a handle.
Later, he was promoted to the ruling and opposition power, but he did not retaliate against Evonne.
He said: don't compete with villains.
Just keep close, don't fraternize, don't offend.
As long as it is not within his garbage radius, he can do nothing and avoid being hurt.
Write at the end:
Life is too short, don't spend precious time and energy entangled with garbage people. When they throw rubbish at you, wave, smile and get out of the way, wishing them good luck.
"Not to be taunted, but to be able to hide" is not weakness, but a kind of survival wisdom. Good shoes don't step on garbage, and jewelry doesn't touch tiles.
We can't change the quality of garbage people, but we still have the right to stay away from them.
Liu Run said: Not everyone deserves to be your opponent.
When you meet a rotten person, get out in time; Stop loss in time when something bad happens.
Keeping away from garbage people is the best way to love yourself.