My son just left early, 10 and a half months, and he can walk by himself without help or hug. However, I really never taught him to walk. He completed the transition from crawling to climbing on the sofa by his own will. I took him for a walk in the community at that time. Others said that he left by himself at such a young age. Some grandmothers also told me not to let him go, saying that it was not good to leave early. But he has to go and likes to go, and his sister walks alone 1 1 month, so I feel something is wrong when I come and go, so let him go with the flow.
However, by the age of 1, many people, including myself, found his legs a little bent. My aunt even said that she would take them to the hospital for correction, saying that the younger they are, the easier it is to get through it. However, some people say that children wear diapers for a long time, and they are not used to taking them off. They bend and slide straight when they grow. I was scared to death. I listened to everyone's advice, gave him calcium and zinc supplements, put on his shoes backwards, and even wrapped and tied his feet at night, but I didn't do it several times because he was uncomfortable. Later, I only insisted on eating calcium and zinc for two months, and slowly his legs grew straight when he was 1 half years old. Now I'm over 3 years old, and my legs are long and straight, and I don't bend at all.
But I was really worried that I couldn't sleep well, and I was scared to death. So try not to let the baby leave early, and don't deliberately teach the baby to leave early. If you learn to walk by yourself like my family, hug more or push with a cart, and walk fewer steps so as not to be afraid.
Many parents think that the earlier a child can walk, the better, which is a sign of "genius" or super ability. In fact, this idea is wrong.
Every child grows up step by step according to the laws of nature. Walking too early will cause the baby's leg bone dysplasia, and it will also make the child unable to walk with his heels, resulting in unbalanced body and poor brain coordination. At the same time, children who walk too early will certainly ignore the most important stage in life, that is, crawling.
So, how to teach children to walk when they reach school age?
First: the natural growth stage of a child is 8-9 months, which is the stage when the baby can stand and hold an object to make a "lateral" step, and it is also the first step for the baby to learn to walk. Many parents think that this is the meaning of walking, so they are eager to train their babies to walk and start holding, pulling and leading them forward with their hands. Some parents even let their children learn to walk in walkers. In fact, when people train their children to walk, because of the height of their parents, children will unconsciously step on their toes, and it is unsafe to walk with a walker, which is easy to cause imbalance.
Second: children who walk too early are prone to fall and get hurt, and they can't do more complicated sports activities when they grow up, such as gymnastics, skateboarding and cycling.
Thirdly, ignoring the relationship between children's crawling stages because children are eager to walk will affect the development of children's visual space perception, brain coordination and limb coordination.
We encourage children to practice more in the crawling stage, rather than rushing to train to walk. Good crawling training and children's brain coordination and balance ability will help children walk steadily and balance in the walking stage.
Teacher Matthew: director of giraffe kindergarten, child psychological behavior consultant.
What harm does the baby have when walking early? Just as some parents ask their baby what harm it is to stand prematurely, parents should understand relevant knowledge, make use of the situation, intervene and guide reasonably, and let the baby grow up healthily.
According to the law of children's growth and development, walking is a great sports development for children. The movement development of any baby after birth is a continuous process from raising head, lifting chest, sitting, turning over, climbing, standing, walking and jumping. This process will last about 24 months.
There is an old saying: if you can't climb, you want to go, which is like a tall building rising from the ground. Therefore, the baby should not walk too early.
Then the normal walking time of the baby should be
12- 15 months will walk alone. Generally, walking has the following process:
10 months, the baby can walk a few steps in the cart;
1 1 month holding an adult's hand;
1 1- 12 months, you can stand on your own feet for a while;
12-1may can be stabilized independently.
The development speed of each baby is not completely constant. Some children leave early, others leave late.
If the average child can walk at 8, 9 months or even earlier, we call it leaving early; On the other hand, if the child doesn't leave at 18 months, it will be too late and he will have to go to the hospital for examination.
1, lower limb osteoarthrosis dysplasia;
Baby's bones contain less calcium salt and more collagen, so bone mineralization is not good, and at the same time, the toughness of muscles and ligaments is insufficient. If we let our baby walk early, or even practice walking too early, it will increase the risk of fracture and hip joint injury. Over time, it will even cause deformity and bending of lower limb bones, that is, X-shaped or O-shaped legs, and there will be an "8" shape on the inside or outside when walking.
2. Influence on spinal development:
We know that babies naturally rely on the support of the spine when walking. After the baby can sit still for 6 months, the main exercise is contact crawling, which can make the spine establish normal physiological curvature and make the spinal ligament muscles develop more maturely.
If the child does not practice crawling well and walks too early, it will cause scoliosis and kyphosis, forming a hunchback; Or the ass is protruding and stubborn, and the walking posture is not good in the future.
3. Causes of flat feet:
Because the arch of the baby's sole has not yet formed, the plantar skeleton has not yet matured, and the plantar ligaments and muscles have not yet matured, so the baby can't walk by the thrust of the arch. If you leave early, it will cause the baby's flat feet, affect the baby's normal walking in the future, and form different degrees of varus or valgus.
Some parents ask us that children are still young and curious about new things. What should I do if I have to stand in front of the station and walk before? How do we guide? In fact, each child's physical fitness is different and his development progress is different. Therefore, we should follow the baby's development law and guide the baby step by step.
1, distracted:
If the baby must go by himself, the baby does not have a strong sense of self at this time, and it is easy to divert the baby's attention. Parents can divert their attention in other ways, such as watching pictures and listening to children's songs, which are generally effective.
In addition, if the baby wants to leave and parents don't want the baby to leave early, they can also take the opportunity to pick up the baby and play other games.
2, increase the crawling time:
10 months ago, try to let the baby play and move on the climbing mat. There is no support such as a desktop around me, and I am in a sense of self-protection. Generally, babies are afraid of walking, such as playing fun games.
3. Listen to music, tell stories and play games as much as possible to stimulate the baby's hearing, vision and perception, promote the baby's brain development and motor coordination, and lay the foundation for walking.
Children leaving early will have a bad influence on their development, so we should follow the rules and guide the baby to walk correctly.
Every baby has its own development process, but it will also follow the "universal law+personal characteristics".
Generally speaking, children will only sit for about 6 months. Letting the baby practice sitting too early will put too much physical pressure on the fragile spine, which will affect the development and even lead to the bending and deformation of the spine.
Similarly, don't train to stand too early, because standing too early will not only affect the development of the spine, but also affect the baby's leg bones, and it is easy to form X-shaped legs or O-shaped legs.
Of course, it's okay if the baby walks on his own. If the baby is allowed to practice walking too early at home, it will be bad.
It is easier to learn to walk too early. Children with normal O-legs learn to walk between 12 months and 18 months. It is normal to walk as early as 10 months, but parents should not deliberately let their children learn to walk too early. Because if the baby's bones are not long enough to walk, premature standing and bearing loads are more likely to cause "O-legs".
Medical Guidance/Professor Xu Li, Director of Pediatric Orthopaedics, Third Affiliated Hospital of Southern Medical University
My children sit early, climb early and leave early. ...
I can walk two steps in more than nine months, and I started walking independently in ten and a half months. Now I have been walking in the community for eleven and a half months!
I really tried my best. The child's character is predestined. My husband and I have never taught anything!
Sitting and crawling are all learned from my dog, so the crawling posture is very standard! The teacher was surprised in the early education class. He couldn't climb the mountain last week. He climbed so well this week … let's climb more.
Then he went home and put the climbing mat on himself to play. He started chasing the dog, threw the ball to the dog, and left by himself!
Then after he experienced the feeling of freedom himself, he got out of control and walked around the house!
Can't interfere, can't press!
You can only buy toddler shoes, and the bumper strips are arranged!
The doctor said that every child has his own developmental law, so there is no need to worry too much within a reasonable range.
I can walk for ten months by myself, and my baby may inherit my state.
Now I try to let him climb more and play some climbing games with him, but I don't stop him from leaving. Let it be.
By the way, my family doesn't hug much. My dog grew up with a belly when he was pregnant and played with him after he was born. The amount of exercise is relatively sufficient, which may also be related.
Hug more, maybe walk a little slower.
Oh, it doesn't matter, as long as you are healthy. I really don't feel comfortable going to pediatrics to see the joint development. As long as it's okay, go anywhere.
Ma Bao and Bao Dad get together to discuss their children for the longest time, such as how old your children can walk, stand, talk and so on. Some parents are worried when they hear that other children can walk in 8 months, while their own children can't walk 1 1 month. In fact, the development of children's various systems has certain rules. It is normal for a baby to learn to walk between 10 and 15 months. Parents should not worry about letting their children learn to walk, because it is not good for babies to walk too early.
Many parents think that a walker is a very good tool for children to learn to walk, but it is not. A walker is not only bad for children to learn to walk, but also affects their physical development. Studies have shown that long-term use of walkers by infants is likely to lead to O-shaped legs or X-shaped legs, and it is also easy to appear in the subsequent walking. Because in the walker, children usually only walk on tiptoe, and incorrect walking posture can easily affect bone development.
Babies should be able to crawl before learning to walk. Crawling is a meaningful action for children, which can not only exercise the muscle strength and coordination ability of the whole body, but also exercise the balance ability, and even have a positive effect on the development of the brain. It is very important for the development of children's sports system in the future. After many children learn to stand, parents skip the crawling process and let their children walk directly, which is one of the important reasons for many children's sensory disorders in adulthood. In adulthood, patients with sensory impairment are inattentive and learn slower than their peers.
As the saying goes, turn three times, sit six times and climb eight times, which is the growth law of most babies. When will they really walk? According to the growth and development of each child, the time will be different.
Some babies have a reasonable and balanced diet during pregnancy and are in good health. After birth, if you are fed breast milk and complementary food scientifically and reasonably, you will grow stronger, and all the growth indicators of your body will exceed the average level, and you may leave earlier. On the contrary, some babies have been weak and may walk in the future. However, some babies are obviously strong, and there is no problem in climbing and standing, but they are too timid to step forward, so they leave late.
Therefore, the baby's walking time is basically between nine months and one and a half years old, and the time difference is still very large. Baby walks early, some because of hard body, some because of good motor function and strong coordination ability, unless someone specially trains baby to walk, we don't advocate it. If we let nature take its course, the baby will suddenly stand up and walk one day, and we don't have to worry about the harm of walking.
However, although walking early proves that the baby is healthy and strong, it can't let the child walk for a long time. After all, the bones of babies are still too weak, so it is especially not recommended that babies stand in the walker early to practice walking. One stop is half a day, and adults are relieved, but the baby's legs are weak. Even if they are tired, the babies will not be tired. They can only rely on more attention from adults.
In the process of raising children, children grow up with adults. We are the children's first teachers. Everyone should study more. Let's try not to make mistakes on children, lest we regret it for life.
Female treasure walks too early for seven months, which is very harmful.
Let's look at the danger of leaving too early.
1, affecting the development of spine and legs.
If the child stands or walks too early, the bones and muscles of the child's spine and legs have not developed well enough to support the child's body, which may lead to X-shaped legs or O-shaped legs, and may also lead to the child's hunchback, thus affecting the development of the spine.
2. Affect the coordination of the body and the vestibular balance function of the brain.
Generally speaking, children have to climb for three or four months before they can stand up and walk. By crawling for a long time, you can exercise the muscles of your child's neck, shoulders, back, legs and hands, and also enhance the coordination of your body.
After the child fully crawls, he will stand and walk more smoothly and his body will be better coordinated.
If the crawling time is too short, walking too early will lead to uncoordinated body and unstable walking, which will easily lead to injuries to children.
Adequate crawling can also promote the development of children's vestibular balance function. The vestibular balance function determines the child's concentration and emotional control ability.
If the crawling time is too short, it will lead to children's inattention, emotional instability, and easy to spear with classmates.
3. Affect children's intellectual development.
Children stimulate brain development through exercise and perception at an early age. If the crawling time is too short, it will have a certain impact on children's intelligence.
There is a saying in society that children who walk early are smarter, which has no scientific basis.
There are also some parents who think that it is not good for children to stand and walk too early. When children stand on railings or tables, they will not hesitate to knock them down.
This practice is also wrong.
Parents should let their children walk naturally, never teach them to walk, and let them stand up on their own initiative.
When the child has climbed for a long time and is ready, he will stand up with the railing or table.
If the child stands up and the whole sole touches the ground, it means that the child's body is ready to walk.
If the child stands up and touches the ground with his toes, it means that the child does not have the ability to walk, and parents should intervene. Children standing on tiptoe will affect the development of lower limbs.
Every child's growth and development law is different. Some leave early, and some leave late. No matter whether they leave early or late, it is normal for them to take the initiative as long as they stand up.
Sanjia
Before 1 year-old, children's bones are not fully developed, with less calcium deposition and soft bones. If children learn to walk too early, the weight of the body will increase the burden on the legs, forming O-legs and X-legs. If children learn to walk too early, it will also cause deformity of their spine, because in the process of learning to walk, the spine will deform to support the weight of the body, which will cause deformity of the spine for a long time.
First, the baby walks for a long time.
1 and babies younger than 10 months, the cerebellum and bones are not yet mature, and there is less calcium deposition in the bones. The bones are too soft. Learning to walk too early can easily lead to the baby's deformity because of the premature load on his legs. In addition, the baby walks unsteadily and his feet are in the wrong posture. If you practice walking for a long time, it is easy to cause the muscles on the outside of the calf to be more developed than the inside, forming an ugly O-shaped leg.
2, the baby learns to walk too early, which is easy to cause the baby's spine deformity, because in the process of learning to walk, the baby is prone to hunchback, and the spine is easy to deform in order to support the weight of the body. Secondly, because of calcium deficiency, the baby has a soft spine and underdeveloped back muscles. Standing too early will make the spine bear too much weight and affect the normal development of the baby's spine.
Second, how to train your baby to walk for a long time?
1, training crawling: crawling is the premise of walking, and parents can guide their children to crawl slowly on the soft bed. In the process of training children to crawl, it is necessary to prevent children from falling and being infected, and to ensure the safety and hygiene of crawling places.
2. Use tools: let the children use the cart, put their hands on the cart and walk by the cart. This will allow children to experience the feeling of walking and lay the foundation for their own walking in the future.
Learning to walk too early is not good for leg development, and it is easy to have bifurcated legs or O-shaped legs. In severe cases, it will also lead to the bending and deformation of the spine, which will affect the baby's future height. The baby will leave too early. At this time, the feet are not well developed, and it is easy to have flat feet, which is very unfavorable to the baby's health. The best time for a baby to walk is about one year old. Don't let the baby use the walker too early, otherwise it will also affect the leg shape. When the baby learns to walk, he should also choose the right shoes for the baby.