Most of the city protagonists in Metamorphosis are violent, perverse and overbearing because of lack of parents' love. In the latest issue of the magazine, Chen Xinxin blamed all this on her mother, because her parents divorced. I wonder why two people don't tell themselves about their divorce. I have no right to choose which family I was born in, let alone to separate my parents. He felt abandoned and deeply betrayed. Son, your misunderstanding of your mother is too deep, and divorce has done great harm to her. Your so-called father has his own family, and he won't answer the phone when you are drunk and helpless. Your bad mother took you away alone because you didn't create a new family, just for fear that you would get hurt again. Far from understanding her attitude, you even hurt me off the screen. Unqualified father, you are so attached to and love your mother, and you have been hurting her. This is stupid.
That's why I emphasize that a qualified father should love his wife, and children should also love their parents. If you don't love each other and your life is different, there is no way for children to weigh it. Your dear child will see it in your eyes. If you quarrel all day, it will cause the child's psychological shadow and his personality will deviate from the right track. Like most children in Metamorphosis, aren't their families fragmented?
Another reason is that there is no time to spend with children. Feelings need to be deepened, children are not demanding of you, and you don't need to create too superior living conditions. In this way, the child does not understand but thinks that the child is more important than him. When children don't depend on you, your's feelings can't stand the wind and waves. When you have time to communicate with your child, the child has ignored you, and he doesn't listen to you. At that time, you will regret it. Don't lose big because of small things.
A qualified father needs children to evaluate him. It's not that you think you did it, or that you think you succeeded. A family is more important than anything else. A father is an indispensable identity in a child's growth. As a sensible man, he needs to be with him all the time, so that he can feel that you are always there. Love doesn't need too many flowery words to describe, children will feel it. May all boys become good fathers and all girls find a qualified father for their children.