Yale University
psychology
1. Be confident, absolutely confident, unconditionally confident, and always confident, even when doing something wrong.
2. When you are lonely and bored, read magazines and listen to music. If you have nothing to do, you can find yourself something to do. It can be useless, but it cannot be harmful.
3. Don't think too much, especially negative thoughts, and clean them up regularly.
4. Learn to forget some things, those painful, embarrassing and regretful memories, and make room for sunny memories.
5. Dare to try new things, dare to lose face, love to lose face and dare to challenge. It is good to make more mistakes when you are young. But if you can do it right at once, don't take the fork.
6, every day is a new day, troubles and pains are not overnight. Welcome a new day with optimism and enthusiasm every morning. Although I was slapped yesterday.
7. Admit that you are not smart and brave, so that you can give sincere praise when facing the Excellence of others.
8. The highest state of being a man is not blindly low-key, nor blindly publicity, but always humble.
study
1, learning is always the first, and you can't give up the foundation.
2. Pay attention to preview and review, and learn to teach yourself. Yes, you can get high marks by surprise before the exam, but fast knowledge is also fragile. I don't want to find that I haven't remembered anything after graduation and my mind is blank.
3, keep up with the teacher's ideas in class, and be the first row if you can sit in the first row.
4. Know how to cooperate and be proactive in class, not for others, but for yourself.
5. Be sure to finish the homework assigned by the teacher in time. Indeed, college homework can be delayed, but that's not the reason for you to slack off.
6. Never forget cooperative learning and mutual learning. In college, without the pressure of the college entrance examination, this simple learning spirit is even more commendable.
7. To have your own plan, you have to work silently for CET-4, CET-6 and CET-2. Indeed, this also requires a surprise attack, but the risk of a surprise attack alone is too great.
8. Have high-level requirements for yourself. If you don't hang up, you won't be called Long Live.
associate with
1, unconsciously, assume that everyone is kind and treat everyone around you sincerely.
2. Tap everyone's strengths and sincerely praise others.
3. Friends should cast their nets in an all-round way and focus on training (except male and female friends).
4. bosom friends are hard to find. Some people are used to locking others out at a certain distance. It's easy to get close, but difficult to get close. For such a person, it's useless for you to invest too much enthusiasm, which will only make you depressed. Better keep your distance and stop.
5. Sincerely take the initiative to help others, without expecting anything in return. Doing everything with the gratitude of others is bound to be disappointed.
6. Learn to say no and don't let friendship become a burden.
7. Instead of digging deep into others, try to make others understand you. Because you can read others, you think that person is familiar, but that person thinks that you are strange. Just like a warm hand touching a sharp knife, looking for a wound.
8. For true friends, don't be stingy with words of concern. In a word, a greeting, take the initiative, don't care too much about who is good to whom. One of the two sides of friendship must pay more. It doesn't matter who that person is, what matters is that the relationship between your continues.
9. Be independent under any circumstances and don't lose yourself.
About love
1, don't fall in love because of loneliness and emptiness.
Don't fall in love with paranoid people. For example, those who chop off their fingers to show that they really love you, or those who can die for you. Don't think this passionate love is very touching. He still doesn't love his fingers, and maybe he will chop your fingers off one day. He can die for you, and he naturally thinks that you must die for him ... Oh, the consequences are unimaginable. Breaking up with such a person will also bring endless troubles.
After the sisters around them have a good home, they retreat to the second line.
4. Don't be jealous of your best friend.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but don't treat the people around you as rotten dog tail grass.
6. Don't mistake friendship for love.
7. You can like many people, but don't fall in love with anyone easily.
8, let nature take its course, fate can not be forced.
workplace
1. Never complain. Complaining will only expose your incompetence.
2, public and private should be clear.
3. Always take the initiative.
Don't show your emotions and feelings too much in public. If you are in a bad mood, talk to your friends, not your colleagues.
4. Do things efficiently.
Get on well with colleagues' leaders, but don't dream of becoming bosom friends with them.
6. Talk less and do more.
7. Know what you should know, don't ask what you shouldn't know.
8, some things, see through but don't say.
life
1, put your things away and put them back.
It is better to save money than to make money. Moderate saving can save money more than making money.
3. Pay attention to fashion information and learn to take care of yourself.
You don't need a famous brand to wear clothes, but you must pay attention to matching. (working hard)
5. Eat less snacks and more fruits.
6, pay attention to keep warm, don't care, get old cold leg rheumatism nobody cares.
7. Girls must know the skills they should know.
8. Be yourself.
Peking university teacher gives struggling children.
Yale University
psychology
1. Be confident, absolutely confident, unconditionally confident, and always confident, even when doing something wrong.
2. When you are lonely and bored, read magazines and listen to music. If you have nothing to do, you can find yourself something to do. It can be useless, but it cannot be harmful.
3. Don't think too much, especially negative thoughts, and clean them up regularly.
4. Learn to forget some things, those painful, embarrassing and regretful memories, and make room for sunny memories.
5. Dare to try new things, dare to lose face, love to lose face and dare to challenge. It is good to make more mistakes when you are young. But if you can do it right at once, don't take the fork.
6, every day is a new day, troubles and pains are not overnight. Welcome a new day with optimism and enthusiasm every morning. Although I was slapped yesterday.
7. Admit that you are not smart and brave, so that you can give sincere praise when facing the Excellence of others.
8. The highest state of being a man is not blindly low-key, nor blindly publicity, but always humble.
study
1, learning is always the first, and you can't give up the foundation.
2. Pay attention to preview and review, and learn to teach yourself. Yes, you can get high marks by surprise before the exam, but fast knowledge is also fragile. I don't want to find that I haven't remembered anything after graduation and my mind is blank.
3, keep up with the teacher's ideas in class, and be the first row if you can sit in the first row.
4. Know how to cooperate and be proactive in class, not for others, but for yourself.
5. Be sure to finish the homework assigned by the teacher in time. Indeed, college homework can be delayed, but that's not the reason for you to slack off.
6. Never forget cooperative learning and mutual learning. In college, without the pressure of the college entrance examination, this simple learning spirit is even more commendable.
7. To have your own plan, you have to work silently for CET-4, CET-6 and CET-2. Indeed, this also requires a surprise attack, but the risk of a surprise attack alone is too great.
8. Have high-level requirements for yourself. If you don't hang up, you won't be called Long Live.
associate with
1, unconsciously, assume that everyone is kind and treat everyone around you sincerely.
2. Tap everyone's strengths and sincerely praise others.
3. Friends should cast their nets in an all-round way and focus on training (except male and female friends).
4. bosom friends are hard to find. Some people are used to locking others out at a certain distance. It's easy to get close, but difficult to get close. For such a person, it's useless for you to invest too much enthusiasm, which will only make you depressed. Better keep your distance and stop.
5. Sincerely take the initiative to help others, without expecting anything in return. Doing everything with the gratitude of others is bound to be disappointed.
6. Learn to say no and don't let friendship become a burden.
7. Instead of digging deep into others, try to make others understand you. Because you can read others, you think that person is familiar, but that person thinks that you are strange. Just like a warm hand touching a sharp knife, looking for a wound.
8. For true friends, don't be stingy with words of concern. In a word, a greeting, take the initiative, don't care too much about who is good to whom. One of the two sides of friendship must pay more. It doesn't matter who that person is, what matters is that the relationship between your continues.
9. Be independent under any circumstances and don't lose yourself.
About love
1, don't fall in love because of loneliness and emptiness.
Don't fall in love with paranoid people. For example, people who chop off their fingers to show that they really love you, or people who can die for you. Don't think this passionate love is very touching. He still doesn't love his fingers, and maybe he will chop your fingers off one day. He can die for you, and he naturally thinks that you must die for him ... Oh, the consequences are unimaginable. Breaking up with such a person will also bring endless troubles.
After the sisters around them have a good home, they retreat to the second line.
4. Don't be jealous of your best friend.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but don't treat the people around you as rotten dog tail grass.
6. Don't mistake friendship for love.
7. You can like many people, but don't fall in love with anyone easily.
8, let nature take its course, fate can not be forced.
workplace
1. Never complain. Complaining will only expose your incompetence.
2, public and private should be clear.
3. Always take the initiative.
Don't show your emotions and feelings too much in public. If you are in a bad mood, talk to your friends, not your colleagues.
4. Do things efficiently.
Get on well with colleagues' leaders, but don't dream of becoming bosom friends with them.
6. Talk less and do more.
7. Know what you should know, don't ask what you shouldn't know.
8, some things, see through but don't say.
life
1, put your things away and put them back.
It is better to save money than to make money. Moderate saving can save money more than making money.
3. Pay attention to fashion information and learn to take care of yourself.
You don't need a famous brand to wear clothes, but you must pay attention to matching. (working hard)
5. Eat less snacks and more fruits.
6, pay attention to keep warm, don't care, get old cold leg rheumatism nobody cares.
7. Girls must know the skills they should know.
8. Be yourself.
Society is such a reality, don't be naive, study hard, and you will grow a lot …
Whether you are a man or a woman, to be a man and succeed, the following are what you must do:
1, friends invite you to dinner, don't take it for granted, please be the host, or your reputation will get worse and worse. -
2, set goals for yourself, one year, two years, five years, maybe you are born worse than others, and through hard work, you can often change 70% of your destiny. Broken pots and broken falls can only be friends with cowardice. -
3, this is a realistic society, feelings can not be eaten as food, poor couples are sad. Don't believe the story in the movie, it's just a noisy place for many strangers. Only irrational and unrealistic people believe it.
4. among good friends, we must cultivate a confidant. Don't think you are so versatile and have many friends. In the end, there is only one person who is sincere to you. Trust me. -
5. Don't believe in the numerology of divination constellations, it is deceiving children, and fate is in your own hands. Sitting at home waiting for the house or car, it is better to sleep and have a good dream. -
6. Don't touch people you don't like, but don't speak ill of them behind their backs. People who say right and wrong must be right and wrong. Remember, disaster comes from their mouths. -
7, play less games, this is not Korea, you can't get a house, a car and capital. You can have hobbies, but you should grasp the scale. -Play less attractive promotional games such as farms, pastures and landlords. Maybe your level is high, but it doesn't mean how successful you are. On the contrary, it will affect and occupy your success time.
Everyone has inertia, which is innate, but we can change this inertia the day after tomorrow, because many people are changing. Don't wait for someone else to do something or business before I think of it. Don't wait for others to make money before I want to do it. No one believes in markets and opportunities, but everyone believes in inflation.
9. Know what you want to do. In the dead of night, ask yourself, in which direction do you plan for the future? -instead of doing nothing and doing something meaningless.
10, way out, way out, there will always be a way out. Difficulties and sufferings make it difficult to stay at home. -social surveys generally believe that.
1 1, as a woman, don't sell her old age by seniority, think that her career has nothing to do with herself, and think that she is just washing clothes and cooking to look after the children. This is a big mistake. -
12, be a man and do it; Filial piety first, the way to teach children, husband and wife harmonious and beautiful, happy for thousands of years. But these things can't be done with words. Doing these things in the early days of liberation required great efforts and hardships. Nowadays, the real society needs you to pay a lot of money, and smart people know this truth.
13, don't often surf the Internet to do boring things and play meaningless games in your spare time, read some literary works and learn some business processes, management norms, international current affairs and legal knowledge. This will ensure that you have something to talk about at any party. -
14, I would rather kill information from all directions 1000 times by mistake than miss any chance of success. -It's the only way you won't buy regret medicine.
15, there is no need to tell others before one thing succeeds. Needless to say, others will know after success. This is the impact of the information age.
16, take care of your hair, nails and beard. Society is an exclusive recipient, and the planet needs extremely limited artists. Please don't take any chances. Even with long hair, it looks good and tries to give people a clean feeling. -
17, don't think you are a man and don't need maintenance. At least the diet should not be too casual. Eating more tomatoes, seafood, leeks and bananas is good for men's health. If you can't see the value, I can tell you. At least you can buy more cosmetics for your woman with the money saved from seeing a doctor.
18, people who work hard should not always think about who to rely on. Everyone is selfish, they are the most reliable people. -
19, don't be too concerned about failure. Heaven is a great responsibility to the Sri Lankan people, so we must first torture their minds, exercise their bones and muscles, and starve ourselves ... but we must learn to blame ourselves, find out the reasons and get rid of bad habits. It is normal to have no money at the age of twenty; At the age of 30, there is no money, maybe there is no good family, and greater efforts are needed; Forty years old, no money, can only find their own reasons. It is possible for the poor to become rich, and it is very possible. It is inevitable that the poor can be poor all their lives. Existence is the reason, but there is a choice.
20. In the face of choice, there is only success. If you also choose success, we will definitely go to the other side of success.
N pieces of advice from young chairman
1. Remember, people who watch TV for more than three hours a day on average must earn less than 2,000 yuan a month. If you want to earn more than 2000 yuan a month, please don't waste your time on TV. Similarly, people who play online games or chat for more than three hours a day on average are also people with a monthly income of no more than two thousand.
Because there are many poor people and have no money, they will chat and complain on the internet and kill time. Have you ever seen a business owner or manager in charge often chat in QQ group when something happens?
There are only a handful of such people in this world. When they open the newspaper, this is their news. When they turn on the TV, this is their news. In the streets, they talked about their news as if the world was for them. They can call the shots and do anything. Your goal should be to become this small group of people.
If you really love your parents and your girlfriend, then work hard. Only in this way can you have the ability, financial conditions and free time to accompany them and love them well.
In this society, fast fish eat slow fish, not slow fish eat fast fish.
6. In this society, the winner takes everything and the loser has nothing. Society will always have only heroes of success or failure.
7. If you ask your friends around you, if nine out of ten people say they don't know, then this is an opportunity. If ten people and nine people know it, it is an industry.
8, any industry, a market, is to eat meat first, after drinking soup is not drunk.
9. In this world, first-rate talents can make third-rate projects second-rate or better, but third-rate talents will make first-rate projects worse than third-rate.
10, go out and have a look while you are young. Read thousands of books, not as good as Wan Li Road and Wan Li Road, not as good as reading countless people.
1 1. Deal with people, listen more and talk less. That's why God gave us a mouth and two ears.
12, remember, be the last person to play cards, let others take them away by surprise, when they think you are going to lose, so that you can win the game.
13, don't pretend to be big. The best way to pretend to be big is to pick up a brick, follow it quietly and put him down from behind.
14, don't swear casually, it will make others think that you have no self-restraint and don't want to associate with you. Even contact is perfunctory. Because he thinks your quality is very poor in his heart.
15, when you want to smoke, ask people around you first and learn to respect others. Don't pretend to be cool and smoke in front of girls. You don't know, in fact, they are disgusted.
16, choose your own clothes and don't let your family buy them for you. Although what I bought for the first time and what I bought for the second time are not so good, I will gradually have a vision.
17. If you want to make progress, you must learn a lesson. The successful experience is distorted. It worked. Say whatever you want. The loser has no right to speak, but you can reflect and summarize through his example. We should not only learn from ourselves, but also learn from others.
18, study, study again, and go to the bookstore to read if you have something to do. You can get a lot of information about management, finance, marketing, interpersonal communication and future trends. The competition in this society is too fierce. If you don't study, you will be eliminated. At the end of 2008, more than one million college students in China could not find jobs. The competition is so fierce that we must realize that after graduating from college, learning is not over, but just beginning. Also, I personally recommend a good video program. Who will have lunch?
19. If you are not a singer, a painter or action art, please pay attention to your clothes in peacetime. In today's society, clothes can show which group and circle you belong to.
20, a young man, if three years, without any ideas, his life is basically like this, without much change.
2 1, the winner is courage and courage. I once heard people talk about the success of Wenzhou people on the train and said these three words, "courage." In fact, this is courage, and it is courage to pick it up and put it down.
22. Whether you are engaged in the sales department or not in the future, you should read books on marketing. Because in life, you are selling yourself to others everywhere. 23. In normal times, communicate with friends more. Don't wait until you need their help to contact them. Only when you get to the society will you know how difficult it is to meet a real friend.
24. If you want to know your future annual income. Find the six friends you go to most often, add up their annual income, divide by six, and it's almost yours. This example can fully illustrate that birds of a feather flock together and people are divided into groups.
25. Set yourself a five-year goal and break it down into one year, six months, three months and one month. Only in this way can you find your goal and direction.
26. Whenever you remember the word dignity, you should have dignity, principles and a bottom line. Otherwise, no one will respect you.
27. If I can only give you one piece of advice, it is that there is no free lunch in this world, so don't take shortcuts!
Life skills
Jin Classic Quotations "Lecture Room"
1, tell the person with high status to hang up first. -
2, education is reflected in the details, details show quality, details determine success or failure. -
3. The host will accompany the guests to take the unmanned elevator, and the host will go in first and then come out. -
4, the three-color principle-the whole body does not exceed three colors. -
5. Trinity Law-When wearing a suit, shoes, belts and briefcases should be the same color (black is preferred). -
6, men look at the watch, women look at the bag (big man); Women look at the head, men look at the waist (average person). -
7. Makeup is a respect for contacts and others (women on important occasions); There's nothing hanging on the belt (men on important occasions)—
8. It is the bounden duty to respect superiors; It is duty to respect colleagues; Respecting subordinates is a virtue; Respect for guests is common sense; Respect for the opponent is a kind of demeanor; Respect for all people is an education. -
9. Learn the three basic concepts of etiquette-respect first, good expression and standard form. -
10, guest etiquette-don't cause burden and trouble to the other party, make an appointment before visiting, and pay attention to appropriate activities. -
1 1. Care is moderate, and excessive care is a kind of harm. -
12, the gift of New Year's Day focuses on conveying love and emotion. -
13, the hostess accompanied the guests and the host greeted them.
14, pain comes from comparison; Pain comes from unsatisfied desires. -
15, front door, right side, middle side, front row, distance. -
16, government etiquette is high on the left and low on the right. -
17, harmony but difference (this sentence comes from the Analects of Confucius, the original sentence is "gentlemen are harmonious but different, villains are the same but not harmonious")-
18, irrational. -
19, communication is centered on the other party. -
20. Respect for women means respect for human mothers. -
2 1, when a man loves his wife, he loves himself. The input and output are absolutely proportional, and the income is better. -
22. Being kind to others means being kind to yourself. -
23. The consciousness of interaction; Empathy+effective communication-
24. I never torture others with myself; I never torture myself with others. -
25, look at the object to talk about rules, understand people and respect people. -
26. what can't you eat -
27. Correct your position (be kind to others) and adjust your mentality (be kind to yourself). -
28. How much pressure do you have to bear if you want to do something? -
29, yesterday passed, there is no need to bother; I won't come tomorrow, so I can't disturb you for the time being; I am spending it now. I can't be disturbed. -
30. Many troubles in life are delusions. -
3 1, it is often impossible for everyone to like you; We should try to make most people like us. -
32. With a healthy attitude, there will be healthy interpersonal relationships, a healthy work attitude and a healthy quality of life. -
33. How to adjust your mentality-accept others (tolerate others).