Today's college students are not the college students of our time. In the past, college students were a little sneaky when they fell in love, and they felt embarrassed. Moreover, many of them just stop being polite and dare not cross the line. Nowadays, college students are generous in falling in love, and some college students' couples rent houses off campus and are married. Some students even think that it is a waste of time not to talk about a love in college.
It is said that there is no right to speak without investigation. Let's look at the survey data of three pictures to see how open-minded college students are now, which really makes us feel a bit stunned.
This is a data in "20 19-2020 National Survey Report on Sex and Health of College Students" issued by China Family Planning Association. According to the above picture, the frequency of sexual behavior of students who have had sex in the past year is concentrated in "several times a month" and "several times a year". Is this a little beyond our imagination? Although college students are adults, they are students after all, and many couples may not have such a frequency. At this frequency, it is estimated that they will give way in the future.
This is a survey data of college students' sexual concept. According to the data, the sexual concept of contemporary college students is still relatively open and inclusive. Nearly 70% of college students can accept premarital sex and unmarried cohabitation, and most college students also say that homosexuality is normal and acceptable. It can be seen that college students' thoughts are still relatively open and inclusive.
This set of data shows that 40% of students first happened between the ages of 16 and 18, and many of them happened out of curiosity. Because society, schools and families are influenced by traditional concepts, they are secretive about physiological education, and the physiological courses offered by schools are also ignored, relying entirely on students to "learn without teachers" and understand themselves. As the saying goes, "the secret locked in the box is more attractive." With such a little knowledge, it is easy for students to make some incorrect behaviors in the process of love, and they don't know what necessary measures to take. Some girls are pregnant and don't know it. They have to wait until there are obvious signs to find out.
Why are college students so open-minded now? Of course there are many reasons. The most important reason is that the information on the internet is relatively developed now, and the information on the internet is all muddy. If children lack correct guidance, they are easily influenced by bad information, and they can't keep the bottom line because of curiosity, which is out of control.
Actually, I don't think college students' falling in love is a scourge. After all, they are all hot-blooded boys and girls. It is impossible to stop them by blocking them. We can only strengthen the education of outlook on life and values, strengthen health education and pay attention to persuasion, so that students can focus on their studies. Don't covet temporary happiness and regret for life.