Characteristics of University Roommate Relationship University Roommate relationship is the most basic interpersonal relationship in the university, and roommates are the people who have been with us for the longest time and are the closest. During the four years of college, we lived, studied and played with our roommates, shared many happy and unforgettable times, and experienced many difficulties and challenges. There may be profound friendship between us and our roommates, and there may also be some contradictions and differences.
The characteristics of college roommate relationship are as follows:
Diversification. College roommates often come from different places, different families, different cultures, different personalities, different hobbies and different values. These differences may bring fresh and interesting experiences, and may also lead to conflicts and misunderstandings. Interaction. College roommates need to communicate and coordinate frequently, and deal with all kinds of daily affairs, such as duty, sanitation, electricity use and quietness. At the same time, roommates also need mutual care and support to help solve some problems in study, life and emotion. Flexibility. The relationship between college roommates is not fixed, and may change with time, environment, events and other factors. Some roommates may become close friends, some roommates may drift away, and some roommates may turn against each other. Influence. The relationship between college roommates has a certain influence on our physical and mental health, academic performance, social ability and so on. Harmonious dormitory atmosphere can make us feel comfortable and happy, while tense and conflicting dormitory atmosphere can make us feel depressed and annoyed. How to keep in touch with roommates after graduating from college? After graduating from college, my roommates and I will embark on our own life paths and face different challenges such as work, life and family. Our contact with roommates may become less or broken, which is a normal phenomenon and a necessary process of growth. However, this does not mean that we should completely forget or give up our former roommate relationship. After all, they used to be an important part of our lives and gave us a lot of help and influence.
In my opinion, there are several ways to keep in touch with roommates after graduation from college:
Use social media. Social media is one of the main ways for modern people to communicate and one of the effective tools to keep in touch. We can pay attention to the roommates' dynamics through WeChat, QQ, Weibo and other platforms, understand their recent situation, and express our concern and blessing by giving them likes, comments and private messages. Seize the holiday opportunity. Festivals are a good opportunity to enhance feelings and express affection, and also a good opportunity to keep in touch. We can send a greeting or greeting card to our roommates on Spring Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, birthdays and other festivals, or make a phone call or video chat to ask about their work, life and family, and share their joys and sorrows. Arrange party activities. Party activities are a good way to relive the past, improve the present and look forward to the future, and also a good way to keep in touch. We can invite roommates to get together, have dinner, sing a song, play a game and so on. At an appropriate time and place, recall interesting things and stories in the university, exchange puzzles and challenges now, and plan future dreams and goals. Provide help and support. Help and support are good manifestations of maintaining feelings and enhancing trust, as well as keeping in touch. When we know that roommates have encountered some difficulties or problems, we can lend a helping hand and provide them with some practical or spiritual help and support. For example, introduce them to some resources or opportunities for work or study; For example, listen to them talk about some emotional or psychological troubles; For example, encourage them to overcome some setbacks in life or family.