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What should I do if I am isolated and rejected by my roommates in college?
Being rejected by roommates in college, you can think about whether to express your feelings with others too unreservedly. Whether there is a point of jealousy, living habits can not implicate others, showdown.

1. Is it too unreserved to express your feelings with others?

This is simply a lesson of blood and tears. I used to tell others what I thought of someone or someone without reservation, and express my inner feelings with death.

2. Is there anything to envy?

Jealousy belongs to the instinctive reaction of human nature. You should first find out whether you have been envied for a long time. For example, everyone in the same dormitory studied hard, and only one person got thousands of scholarships.

Living habits can't bring trouble to others.

Because universities gather in this dormitory from all over the world, some personal habits are understandable. For example, people in Northeast China like to take a bath, people in Sichuan like to eat spicy food, and people in Shanxi like to be jealous. No matter what living habits, we should take the feelings of others as the premise and not affect the comfort of others in the dormitory.

4. Change dormitory or move out.

If you can't find the above reasons, or feel that you can't solve them through communication after finding them, for example, the other person's values are too different from yours, which can't be changed, then there is only one and the most effective way for you to change your dormitory or move out. Don't listen to what others say to you, "Focus on your own things, improve yourself and ignore them."

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Method for avoid exclusion

1, a person who likes to talk but not do.

University dormitories are private spaces and public places. After all, several people live in a room, not their own private space, so everyone should cherish this space and treat the dormitory as their own boudoir from the heart, so that the dormitory will become more and more warm.

2. People who only care about themselves and don't consider others.

People who "only care about themselves without considering others" are often called "selfish people" In the university dormitory, if you become a selfish person, no other roommates will want to make friends with you.