Chatting with my mother on the Internet the other day, I said: Mom! I may be really stupid when I watch TV, but now I always forget things and I don't speak fluently as before. I wanted to get her comfort, but my mother said, yes! You were smart when you were a child, and everyone praised you. Look at you now, you are getting more and more stupid, and you are stupid anyway. I hope my mother can feel my heartbreak through the mobile phone screen. After a while, I saw a friend's circle of friends Many ignorant traditional parents in China like to let their children sleep with their heads up. Thinking of one day in adolescence, girls' awareness of beauty is rising. I went home and asked my mother why her head was flat. As a result, my mother proudly said: the flat head looks good, and many people do it. Popular science in the circle of friends knows that this practice of giving pillows to children will seriously lose the normal brain cavity structure and endanger the normal development of intelligence. Although I'm more concerned about the visibility of hairstyles. I quickly sent pictures of popular science to my mother to let her think about whether she had done anything that was not conducive to my intellectual development. Then my mother replied, she said, how should I know? Just heard it from someone else. So you see, there are too many superstitions in life, and most of them bring big or small consequences. It may be that hearsay is easier to hear and operate, so most people are too lazy to observe it themselves, so the truth and opportunity pass us by again and again, so we become the victims of superstition.

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When I was a child, I was always surrounded by all kinds of praises. I have won prizes in all the competitions and activities I participated in. My mother said that from my glib bickering with her when I was four years old, her child is likely to become a talented female lawyer in the future. It turned out that she thought too much. Because of the recognition from childhood, I once thought I was the center of the world when I was young. At that time, I was not only proud but also fond of fantasy, thinking that I could do anything. While my peers are still talking about new games, I have begun to plan the future in my diary, imagining poems and distant places. This difference makes me feel superior and different. However, it was only later that I realized that all these were illusory appearances, and the bright future I described was now just a piece of waste paper. Because the trajectory of real life began to run counter to all your plans and fantasies, which made me feel unprecedented frustration. I think I know the answer, but I can't face the fact that I haven't worked hard for a while. You know, just like facing failure, it takes courage. After entering the university, there are all kinds of people around me, some are active in the school organization, some are doing what they like, and some are doing a good job in starting a business. However, most people live a life of three points and one line. As I said, people like to choose the simple method. In most of these people, a large number of people directly regard life as a little bit, and delimit the dormitory as a comfortable circle. Most of the time, they either lie in bed and brush Weibo's plays or order takeout. One of the criteria for everyone to be friends is that you find that you two read the same gossip! So I chatted with you through gossip. what do you think? Wow, she fits my three views. You all think it is wrong for an actor to do such a thing. On my 20 th birthday, I walked on the road of people coming and going, looking at the faces around me. I wonder if there are many people who make their lives better. At the same time, it occurred to me that these people may also have dreams, but the biggest possibility is that in this parallel world, we happened to witness our mediocrity. Suddenly I feel like them, and the sense of superiority brought by small differences is gone in an instant. From this day on, I realized that I am not omnipotent. I realize that I have always regarded myself as the most convinced superstition in recent years. The most terrible thing is that in this superstition, I mistakenly think that my ideal life is within reach.

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Tell me about my three roommates in college. Roommates A and B have been addicted to online games since their freshman year. They basically stay up late every day, and it is common to play all night. Roommate C, a die-hard fan of a Korean group member, usually likes to collect all kinds of information about idols. She is willing to do a lot of things for her idol online, especially keen to find out her idol's black powder in the middle of the night to reason with them, while I am keen to observe, judging from the redness of her face, when did this little fan girl call last night? But in fact, many times I don't play games, and I am also a member of the midnight life overdraft club. This situation lasted for two years. Then one day, I found myself losing my hair and went to see a doctor. The doctor said, "Young man, go to bed early." That day, my roommate C suddenly said to me, "Do you know? I have many fans in Weibo now, but I want to give up my number. I feel that idolization has affected my normal life. This is not the way. " . I can't help but think that everyone has had such moments of introspection in the process of growing up, either hiding in the dead of night or telling others. I nodded to the side of Nuo Nuo, bother to say yes. What is even more surprising is that at almost the same time, everyone in the dormitory began to go to bed early. The sounds that had nothing to do with sleeping at eleven o'clock were replaced by quiet breathing. Everyone tacitly realizes that the meaning of youth is by no means unlimited consumption of themselves, and it is time to tear off all kinds of deified labels attached to young people. Only when the body or mind starts to light up the red light, do we begin to doubt that youth itself is a superstition. Lu Yao wrote in "Ordinary World", "I think everyone has an awakening period, but the morning and evening of awakening determines the fate of the individual." Every awakening of human beings represents a growth. If you expect a soul exchange, I think it's neither too early nor too late to be 20. At this time, we shed the immaturity of minors, but still have the passion that most adults lack. The 20-year-old group is about to leave their families and become real individuals. Whether it's blood shed or a calm Jianghu performance, I hope you can get rid of superstition as soon as possible and hope that the light will come to your life. Of course, this light is called awakening.