Classmates and roommates come from all directions of the motherland, and it is not without various phenomena. The living customs in my hometown are completely different, so are my personal living habits, hygiene habits and personal morality, which determines that living in a dormitory may lead to contradictions. Many people have many opinions on roommates' minor faults, so you should check your uncivilized living habits when you live in the dormitory, otherwise you will suddenly be isolated and confused. Cold violence is actually the most hurtful behavior. In a university, it is a small society, and there will be many societies and activities. Dormitory is where you belong, but you will feel better when you meet some roommates who like to use cold violence. The reason why some people in the dormitory will encounter this situation is that some people form gangs and isolate people they don't like; But someone offended the people in the dormitory, and then was alienated and isolated; What's more, you are too good to be gossiped and isolated. In particular, students in university dormitories come from all corners of the country, and there are differences in personality, living habits, growth environment and values. In addition, the study pressure of college students is relatively high, and the corresponding emotions will also be transferred to students' interpersonal relationships. All kinds of reasons may lead to the gradual development of silence between students and turn into "cold violence". In the face of "cold violence" in the dormitory, don't be afraid, don't question whether you are unsociable, and don't worry about whether it will affect your life. To put it another way, it's not because you are not good enough, but because you haven't met anyone who cherishes you. Please don't tolerate others hurting you because you are kind. Your kindness must be sharp. You don't have to be wronged by others, don't waste your time and feelings for some meaningless people or things, you just need to be yourself. "Remember, now you don't need to please anyone to live, you are fully capable of becoming better on your own. The fewer people want you to live a colorful life in college, the more you want to live a wonderful life and prove to them that you will live better without them.