M 1: It's not that I don't love you, but that I don't love you enough. Their mouths will remember to say they love you, but you will never feel your weight in this relationship. Even the games in his computer can't beat you. He doesn't care when you break up. Before falling in love, we are an individual first, so of course everyone has something to care about, and the important things vary from person to person. Falling in love is not the whole of life. Loving someone doesn't have to revolve around this person, but when you find that you are not in this person's life track at all, that's another matter. Maybe he doesn't love you, but he doesn't love you enough to care about your feelings. Before you, there are always a lot of things, such as friends, video games, work and family, which beat you. "It's not that I don't love you, but that my world won't be like that without you." Finally, one day he shrugged and told you, and then went back to play his LOL, as if the world was calm. You saw your place in his heart, and you suddenly woke up. It turns out that in this relationship, there has always been only "you" and no "you". Two people are willing to work hard for each other, which is love. In every relationship, despite failure, you will always learn something. Yes, falling in love has always been a matter for two people. If one person tries harder, another person says no, that is, no. There is no room for change. It's hard to say "if you meet someone you like, he likes you too". We think that "meeting someone who is willing to work hard for each other" is worth saying. Man 2: They don't love you and don't let go. They don't love or let go. They regard half-heartedness as fun, procrastination as nostalgia and love as a charity game. You clearly remember him saying "I don't seem to love you that much", but he seems to be still around you, calling you every so often and pretending to ask if you want to go out for a walk. So every time I see him, I can't help laughing in my heart. You think, "Next, let's rekindle our old love!" "If he doesn't love me, why is he so worried about me?" You keep flashing this idea, but it took you a long time to realize that this kind of man is not kind at all, but cowardly. He doesn't care about you, he's just afraid of loneliness. He satisfied his pride with your love for him. He couldn't control his loneliness, so he searched for you closest to him again and again. He said he was afraid that you would get hurt, but you know that he was most afraid of hurting himself, because he couldn't afford to be labeled as a bad guy. Being stingy in love is the atmosphere of loving yourself. Because in love, none of us is great. We just learned to put another person's weight in our revolving life, but we will also take another person into account when drawing our own blueprint for the future. After breaking up, don't force yourself to be friends, because you are a good friend. Instead of being his chicken ribs, I might as well just start looking for someone more suitable for me. Man 3: Pretend to be an innocent playboy. They believe that "men are not bad and women don't love them". On the surface, they seem harmless, but behind their backs, they try their best to do evil, as if it were all natural. Finally, you want yourself, not me. It doesn't matter if he is bad, but he is bad enough to hide himself so innocently. He packaged himself so innocently that he fell in love with you by accident, which is the only exception in his good record. When he said "it's my fault to fall in love with you" as if he were condemning himself, only he knew he was snickering. He did love all the women around him, but love disappeared too quickly. After all, he loved himself more than others. In a relationship, he gets bored too quickly. If the world between them is a little unhappy, he doesn't even bother to communicate. It's faster to change directly to the next one. Finally, one day, you may find that he has a new partner and won't even explain it to you. You just found that before you, too many "predecessors" stood at the crime scene and waited for a while like you, and everyone saw their own shadow in the next person. You once thought you were his salvation, but after all, you overestimated yourself, and you couldn't even save yourself. Love is not a cure. Love has nothing to do with saving. You once reached out and pulled him out of the mud; Finally, it became his next mud. In love, we should all learn to save ourselves. No matter how hard it is, you should learn to climb out of the mud, unlike him, who regards another love as a cure. Man 4: There is a man who just wants to make out with you all day. He bothers you all the time except making out with you. Sex seems to be the only way for him to express his love. He says he loves you, but you can't feel his love outside intimacy. There are many ways to love, but for him, there seems to be only one way to express it. At first, you will think that at least this is his way of saying "I want you", and at least your is very passionate about love. But after several times, you suddenly feel that all he cares about is his own happiness. Because when he wants it, it's not up to you, and there's almost no room for discussion. You feel that you are about to lose yourself, and the your relationship is becoming more and more like a dangerous bet. The chip is your body. The three elements of love are intimacy, passion and commitment, but your love has only one line, which marks the fleeting passion. People who really love you love you in more than one way. If he loves you, he won't know you from a single angle. He will be eager to know more about your world. He will want to have not only you in bed, but also you with glasses, you with a shark clip, you who stay up late to make a report without shouting, and you who are stubborn for persistence ... Love, of course, will not always be the same love mode, but two people should continue to love each other with a new look. Man 5: If you have wives, you have to say that you love them. They are greedy. They want to hold your wife in their left hand and you in their right. You can't figure out why he allocated his time so well, or why he gave his heart to two people. Being with him, to be honest, you feel happier than ever. He is mature and calm, without the recklessness of a man your age; He knows you very well and always listens to your hints; He won't ask you to go out with anyone in particular, because he has always believed in you, so you have always believed in him deeply. It was not until later that you discovered the reason why he was absent every Friday night. It turned out to be a regular gathering of his family, and he took his wife and children to attend. Family: He, his wife, his children, you realize that you have been out of his world. You only remember that every time you talk about marriage, there is always an embarrassed expression on his face. You hate to win love in a horizontal knife, but somehow you become a third party. He said that he loves you and is only responsible for his family. You look at the man in front of you, and he talks endlessly, but you think he is so strange. You are tired of playing games with these three people. You don't want to fight to the death in exchange for his love. You don't want to trade a bruise for a relationship. You left, and finally remembered yourself. Love is more complete with you. Don't gamble your whole life on one person, and don't gamble yourself for someone's love. In love, there will be sacrifices, but it should not be that only one person is injured and one person is miserable from beginning to end. Love, some things, can only be tasted; Some people, even if they have loved. Girls may meet these five kinds of men. 2. It's okay to put your heart into it. To tell the truth, beautiful women, especially beautiful college students, are easily moved by superficial things, because their experience and their self-confidence just become a sharp contradiction. They are inexperienced but confident, so there is no discussion. There was once a girl in college who was interested in a buddy of our department's student union, just because this buddy always took advantage of his position to pay attention to that girl. The girl said he was very kind and enthusiastic. I don't know if people are enthusiastic about you for some purpose. If you don't have this beauty, can he be enthusiastic about you? Sure enough, after the girl was cheated into bed, the enthusiasm of this "student cadre" plummeted. Therefore, advise some simple girls that when a boy is attentive to you or shows something on his own initiative, you should first consider why he is like this. Second, if you are good at talking, be careful! Women have soft ears, which is an irreversible weakness. But for beauty, this weakness is not known how many times weaker. So what you can do is not as good as what you can say. Look at those ugly boys, there is always a beautiful girl around. What happened? That's because this boy is too talkative and too deceptive. Because of the confidence of beautiful women, they will readily accept praise and magnetism anyway. I also have such a friend around me, who is really ugly, but this buddy is very talkative and fun, and belongs to that kind of versatile. I played with countless women in college, and now I work in an office. The climbing speed is amazing. But his wife will never be happy, because he always goes on with his career. Third, Shi Xiaohui, prevent and not prevent! There is a saying that it is difficult without desire, and some extremes are good, but for some simple girls, it is quite meaningful. It can't be said that people who don't have desires will be happy, but those women who are cheated and brushed are all because their desires are too strong to control themselves. Tell me a true story. It is also a story around us. There is a girl in our university. To tell the truth, her thoughts are simple, but she has a strong material desire. This kind of woman does not suffer. What do you mean women are cheated? Once there was a worthless buddy, a small cadre of the student union, who was close to some school leaders all day. He boasted to the girls that he might stay in school and his family background. The girl believed it and agreed to his request. However, after graduating from his senior year, the man returned to his county town in frustration and "made his great career" in a terrible small company. Fourth, don't believe in the outlined future! In love, people should not be too realistic, but not unrealistic at all. In the final analysis, people are still living in reality, too divorced from reality, and blindly living by looking forward to it will not be happy. For female beauty, it is good to look forward to life. Living in an illusory and beautiful environment since childhood, they can't distinguish many things. It is precisely some men who are quite calculating that use this beauty complex to build castles in the air in their hearts. In other words, a girl told me why my true love was cheated and there was no result. True love, what is true love? True love is the mutual harmony and unity of two people's bodies and souls. This unity is in real life, not in fantasy. Do you think the life he described to you is beautiful, and the love he built for you is beautiful, but can any of these things be realized? If this is not a realistic idea, then it must at least have the possibility of practical significance. However, it is impossible. Why are you still pursuing it? Fifth, if you play treason, be careful! Rebellion has gradually become a fashion among college students. Some people think that a life without rebellion is not fashionable. But you have a clear score. What do you want to resist? Rebellion is to make you rebel against some traditional decadent ideas, not against morality and law. For beautiful women, there is enough capital, but the question is, where is the capital used and should not be abused. Some girls try premarital sex just to rebel. To be honest, if you try for love, it is understandable, although it is not recommended. However, if you try just to try and see how rebellious you are, then you commit suicide. Your youth is so profligate that you will reap the consequences one day.