I think this question is not difficult to answer. If the parents of this student are big entrepreneurs and big bosses, it is not an exaggeration to ask for a living allowance of 7,000 yuan per month. Let your father give it to you. Not only that.
If this student's parents are ordinary families, it can be said that this student is considerate of his parents and does not ask too much of everyone. Then let's analyze whether the living expenses of 7000 yuan for students are too much.
Let's talk about the city where our parents live. Let's take ten big cities as examples. Urumqi, ranked tenth, has a per capita income of 7868 yuan (data is 20 19). If this student's parents are both from Urumqi and both parents are ordinary employees, that is to say, the total salary of both parents is 15736 yuan, and the living expenses of 7000 yuan account for 44% of the total salary of parents, accounting for almost half of the total income of parents. If you are Beijing's parents, 7000 also accounts for one-third of the family income. So, this classmate, do you think you have gone too far?
If I were you, my monthly salary was 2990 yuan (a county in Henan), and my wife's income was lower than mine 100 yuan. The total income of my husband and wife is less than 6000 yuan. Son, you asked us for 7000 yuan to keep us alive. The income of our husband and wife belongs to the middle income in our county. There are many parents whose income is similar to ours. Parents like us can't even afford their children's living expenses of 7,000 yuan per month. As the netizen said: this is simply debt collection!
Let's take a look at the ten cities with the highest monthly living expenses for college students. The highest living expenses of college students in Beijing are 2445 yuan per month, and the tenth-ranked college students in Hangzhou are 1625 yuan per month. It seems that college students' living expenses of 7,000 yuan a month are not low in a city like Beijing.
Personal suggestion: college students' living expenses should not exceed one-third of their parents' total salary, and they should be considerate of their parents. After all, college students can improve their lives through part-time jobs in addition to the living expenses given by their parents.
How do college students improve their lives?
1, scholarship
For top student, scholarships are indispensable every year. Of course, not every college student can get a scholarship.
2. Part-time job. There are many kinds of part-time jobs: undergraduate tutors, campus job fairs, or writing articles from the media, contributing to WeChat official accounts, making videos and becoming online celebrities, etc.
In short, college students can tell their parents how much money they need and how to spend it. Parents also give their children as much money as possible. There are as many parents as there are who don't want their children to be wronged. I hope I can't give them all. But as children, we are not debt collectors.
Talk less to your parents. It is not easy for your parents to support you to go to college. Don't let your parents worry about your living expenses. After all, it doesn't cost much to eat at school every month. Don't buy luxury goods, let alone ask your parents for money like a love fund.
When college students grow up, they should be grateful to their parents and solve their worries.
I remember an old saying here: My parents raised me when I was eighteen, and my adoptive parents reached eighty. Of course, this does not mean that our parents will not support us at the age of eighteen, but that by the age of eighteen, we are adults and can earn money by ourselves, which can reduce the pressure on our parents. When our adoptive parents are 80 years old, it doesn't mean that our parents are over 80 years old, so we won't adopt them, but we should know how to be grateful. My parents brought me up, and my adoptive parents will live forever!
Children ask their parents for 7,000 yuan of living expenses when they are freshmen, which indirectly reveals that children do not have a strong concept of money, have no reasonable plan for their college living expenses, and have no consideration for their parents' ability to pay. In fact, as college students, parents only need to pay the necessary living expenses (necessary expenses such as eating and dressing). Parents guarantee us basic food, clothing, housing and transportation. If we want to live a better life, let's take a part-time job!
Is it too much for freshmen to ask their parents for 7000 yuan a month?