"I am a sophomore at school and accidentally found myself pregnant for two months. I am so confused, scared and anxious that I dare not tell my parents for fear that they will go crazy. I have been unable to sleep for three whole nights.

My boyfriend just worked and his family is ok. At present, he is in the same city, but he is far from me. When I was a freshman, he was a senior, and I was madly pursued. We've only been in love for a year.

I told him about it, and he resolutely opposed me to abort the child, said he would marry me, and kept begging me not to abort. Now I am so ambivalent. I feel that if I really miscarry, we should be finished.

This child completely messed up my life plan. I can't imagine I will get married and have children at the age of 20. I haven't thought about marrying him yet, and I love him too, but a year's love is too short. Our school is better, we are usually busy with our study and work, and we don't know each other well enough.

That night, he begged me not to use condoms! I regret very much that I softened my attitude at that time! At that time, I was still lucky, thinking that the safety period was fine, and now I even hate him a little. I don't know what to do. Do you want to return the students and children? Will the school keep my student status for me? I'm really at a loss in pain. I don't know what to do. "

My suggestion: This is a great event. You should think it over: This man is worth marrying or entrusting for your whole life, especially your character? If you really can't have an abortion, the sooner the better. If you delay one more day, it will harm your health. Go to a better big hospital and ask how much influence the first pregnancy abortion will have on the body and future fertility.

This kind of thing still needs to be told to parents, so that parents can make decisions and negotiate with the man. By the way, it depends on the man's family, the boy's responsibility, and whether the boy is a trustworthy person. We should make a decision as soon as possible, without further delay.

If you want to get married, hold a banquet with your license as soon as possible. If necessary, negotiate with the school for suspension. Men should show sincerity. It's not like a boy said you should have it. If you can't give your identity, then do abortion as soon as possible, and don't delay. It won't do you any good.

If you want to get married, you have to negotiate the terms in advance. You should continue to study after the baby is born at the full moon. Don't give birth if you don't agree. You have such a good foundation, don't ruin your future. Look into the distance. You are better than anything. There is no future in raising children at home, and eventually men will resent it, especially if you have such a good foundation and the ability to learn.

Remember, no matter how wrong you are, your parents will stand by you. Although they may be disappointed in you and even scold you, they love you and will make every effort to think of you because you are their daughter.