Son, you are finally going to college. You have been nagging for more than ten years, and you have been studying hard for more than ten years. Now you can see the vast sky outside and fly at will. Of course, from now on, you have to face many things alone on the road of life. Here, I also want to repeat some things that I think are important. I hope you can be patient.
How are you going to spend the rest of your college life?
During the summer vacation, we were worried. From the beginning, I mistakenly thought that you were a surprise for Dongguan University of Technology. Finally, I realized that the difference between city college and non-polytechnic college is dissatisfaction with the future university or speculation about its teaching ability and learning atmosphere. Finally, we chose to believe.
About: I don't know what kind of college life to choose? Have you ever thought about it, or have you ever considered maturity? Is it relaxation after more than ten years of hard work? Keep learning and then study? Or did you go to an ordinary university to give up on yourself?
Mom didn't go to college. I think a university should be such a place. College is the first step for you to really control your life, and it is the place where you really find yourself. From kindergarten to university, most children have been learning under the supervision of teachers and parents for so many years, and you have just begun to really control your life.
In the next few years, you need to make a plan for your college life and have a clear orientation and goal for your future development, so as not to waste the next college life.
Understand that if you choose to relax, then the relaxation in recent years corresponds to the price in the next few decades. If you relax and play games like some classmates, you will wake up from your dreams in the future. Why didn't I have a good college life?
If you can study and study again, you will find a bright future waiting for you, no matter what university, if you make a good plan and work hard to implement it.
Why do you say that self-discovery means that you need to find out what you really like and what you want to do in the future through social contact in college! Then take this as the goal and plan your life for at least a few years.
-How to plan college life?-Speaking of planning, you need to know what a college is. In my understanding, a university is a half society and a transitional link between students and society. Here, you need to get to know the society step by step, instead of studying as hard as in high school, and don't waste a few years as a pleasure.
Learn knowledge in a planned and purposeful way, cultivate high-efficiency learning ability, lay a solid foundation for the subject, and learn the relevant contents of professional courses well.
You need to constantly enrich your professional knowledge. Professional knowledge is a stepping stone to your future work, just a stepping stone to lay the foundation. Because I don't have mature professional skills, I need to participate in various club activities and actively exercise my various abilities, including emotional intelligence, speaking, dealing with people, organizational skills and even specialties. You need to get to know the society and actively participate in various practices related to your future, which will also help you find a job in the future.
Even some inequalities and irrationalities related to society should be accepted and treated reasonably. You should learn to struggle and get used to all kinds of grievances and setbacks, because you are just an unfinished screw in your future work. You also need to contact people in society who can help you in the future. These people may be able to help you in the future.
You should also learn to distinguish between good people and bad people. Society is a mixed bag of fish and dragons. You should have the ability to distinguish. Not everyone is as kind to you as parents or classmates. Even some students will secretly give you little shoes to wear, and some social people will harm you. You will always meet in society. In college, you need to make a few sincere friends and get in touch with classmates as much as possible. These true friends and classmates will be with you all your life. How can you become a talent without training? Is to hone yourself more, so that when you graduate, hone yourself into a talent gap. When you first entered the university, you were just a material to be processed, not even blank.
I hope you can challenge your life in City College.
Finally: about money.
I know that the living standards of college students are different, and there is no upper limit to the gap, which is related to family conditions, the price level of the city where they live and so on. Some students have good family conditions, and a lot of money is not enough for one month's living expenses, so they will continue to give it at home, while some students still need to do part-time jobs to make up for it. .
Mom wants you to study hard in college, don't worry about living expenses, and don't have too many part-time jobs. If a part-time job is good for your social practice, you can go at the right time.
At present, I don't know how high the living standard in Dongguan is, and the monthly living expenses for you can't be fixed. You can apply to your parents again when you go. The premise is that you should eat and wear enough to meet daily use. Don't indulge in online shopping, don't pursue famous brands, it's not enough to add money. The reason why I set standards for you is to cultivate your good habit of thrift. Also, don't accept gifts from others casually. There is no such thing as a free lunch. People eat the shortest and people are short. You have to pay it back when you come out to hang out. Of course, you must not haggle over every ounce when dealing with people. The necessary communication needs money, and I can give it to you alone. Never set foot in platforms such as "campus loan". Where you need money, where you can communicate with your parents.
I hope you have a good life, without jealousy, comparison, inferiority, bullying and contentment.
Finally, I wish you a happy college life, learn professional knowledge and become a useful person to society.
Love your mother in the early morning of August 9.