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Forever student, friend, I don't know at which stage you study, so I will talk about this situation separately.

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Role change is an important topic in life. From high school to college, there will be brand-new feelings from lifestyle, learning methods and interpersonal communication. For this reason, in English, the word "newborn" is called "newborn" and has a fresh meaning. It means that there will be many new experiences, new hopes and new pursuits after entering the university. Only when freshmen actively understand and adapt to the environment can they re-recognize themselves in the new environment and find their new development opportunities.

First, the survival of the fittest

Freshmen have just entered the university from high school, and the problems they usually face are:

1, adapt to life. Say goodbye to everything you are already familiar with, stay away from your parents and handle everything in your life independently; Freshmen come from all corners of the country, and their different personalities are tolerant of each other. Seemingly ordinary things are always testing every college student's attitude and moral cultivation towards others.

2. Adapt to learning. In universities, the concept of class is diluted, there is no fixed classroom, and one or two hundred people attend classes together, which is often like guerrilla warfare; Teachers may have to arrange a lot of extracurricular reading materials, and students also have relatively loose and free time than high school.

University teachers' lectures are not as simple as high school teachers', and they often teach in an outline or guide students to learn by themselves. There are many differences in learning purpose, breadth and depth of teaching content and teaching methods.

3. Adapt to changes in emotional needs. At present, in most middle school campuses, adolescent sexual health education is still blank, and some normal male and female students are not guided or even accused; In the university, the relatively relaxed alien * * * enters the space, which releases the repressed sexual psychology. Due to the influence of social pluralistic values, and more importantly, the lack of knowledge and skills in adolescent sexual physiology, psychology, ethics, legal system and different directions, some college students are at a loss when facing heterosexual courtship, their own love for the opposite sex, lovelorn love and sexual harassment.

Second, actively adjust.

College students are a special group with high social requirements, high parents' expectations and strong desire for personal success. Because college students' psychological development is still in an immature stage and lack of social experience, they are high-risk groups of psychological disorders, so it is necessary to strengthen psychological adjustment.

Psychological quality is the synthesis of psychological quality formed by acquired education and environmental influence on the basis of innate endowment.

At the time of admission, everyone's ability is not much different, but when they graduate from college, they are surprised to find that their ability gap may not be a few steps away. For college students, this gap is by no means caused by intellectual differences. Where is the mystery? A large number of studies show that the differences are mainly in non-intelligence factors, that is, intelligence, will quality, moral responsibility, attitude towards life, interpersonal relationships, hobbies, personality and other emotional factors.

Facing the problems in college life, freshmen need to know, experience and learn from a new angle.

Set yourself a realistic goal. There are not only academic aspects, but also personal cultivation, physical exercise and interest development. We should make appropriate adjustments to some unrealistic goals, so that we can have a better mood and devote ourselves to the new study life.

Third, learn to develop.

There are many things to do in a person's life, such as studying, starting a business, falling in love, getting married and so on. The two most important things are to learn to be a man and do things. The goals set in the university stage have an inestimable influence on the future development and are closely related to the improvement of people's basic quality. Gorky said: "The higher a person pursues, the faster his talents develop." If the goal of high school is simple and concise, and contains more personal fantasies, then the goal of university stage should be more profound and long-term, containing more complex social factors, in which personal wishes and social needs should be better unified. In other words, we should realize what I am suitable for, what society needs and what I can do.

The establishment of new university goals is actually the establishment of life goals. Mr Whitehead, a famous British philosopher, said: "In middle school, students study at desks; In college, he needs to stand up and look around. " As long as we stand up and look forward to society, history, future and all aspects of life, we can grasp the appropriate goals and promote our all-round development.

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Career goal selection

The so-called goal selection is to determine your own goals on the career path. That is, how old you are, what you want to achieve and what you want to accomplish, all of which should be clearly marked on your career path. The establishment of the goal is scientific, and the goal is worthless if the method is not right. Even for an unscientific goal, work hard, waste time, run out of energy, and achieve nothing for life. This may be because everyone wants to achieve something in life, but in fact success is only one of the few important reasons.

What career goals should be established in life should be designed according to subjective and objective conditions. Everyone has different conditions and goals, but the method of determining goals is the same. Here is an introduction on how to establish the focus of the goal.

The establishment of goals should meet the needs of society and organizations. A career goal is like a product. If there is a market for this "product", it is necessary to "produce". Therefore, when determining career goals, we should consider the needs of internal and external environment. Where there is demand, there is position.

The establishment of goals should be suitable for their own characteristics. Different people have different characteristics. This feature is your personality, interests, specialties, etc. Set your goal on your best personality, your greatest interest and your best major. If you do this, you can get everything you want.

The establishment of goals should be just right. Is the career goal high or low? Generally speaking, it is better to be taller. With lofty goals, it can play an inspiring role. But the goal is too high. If you are divorced from reality, you will fail because you are too ambitious. If the goal is too low, it will lose its meaning if you get something for nothing.

Don't set the target too wide. The goals are high or low, and the professional scope is wide or narrow. When setting goals, is it better to be wider or narrower? From a scientific point of view, the narrower the professional scope, the less power is needed. In other words, for different working objects, with the same strength, the narrower the professional scope, the greater its role and the higher the chances of success. So the scope of the target should not be too wide. It is better to choose a narrow topic and put all your energy into it, so it is easier to succeed.

The establishment of goals should be coordinated with the length. The establishment of goals should be combined with long and short. Long-term goals point out the direction of life, which can boost morale and prevent short-term behavior. Short-term goals are the guarantee to achieve long-term goals. Without short-term goals, long-term goals cannot be achieved. Especially in the process of career development, through the achievement of short-term goals, we can realize the sense of accomplishment and fun of achieving goals, and encourage ourselves to move towards higher goals in order to achieve greater achievements. However, if we only have short-term goals and can't see lofty ideals, we will lose the motivation to forge ahead, and will also make the development of life swing from side to side or even deviate from the direction of development.

Don't aim too much in the same period. As far as career goals are concerned, there should not be many goals in the same period, and it is best to concentrate on one. The goal is the object of pursuit. Have you ever seen a hunter chasing five rabbits at the same time? Don't say five, you can't even catch up with two, because it's almost impossible. Therefore, when setting goals, it is best to focus on a meeting point.

The establishment of goals should be specific and clear. The target is like a shooting target, and it is clearly there. If the target is vague, it can't be used as a target. For example, someone is going to make up his mind to do something, but he doesn't know exactly what to do, which shows that he has no clear goal and thinks he has it. Without a clear goal, not only can we fail to achieve the goal, but we may also have an illusion. Time, energy and money were invested, but they failed to "attack" the target. 10 years later, nothing.

The target should have space. Leave room for your career goals, that is, don't be too hasty, too full and too dead in the time schedule to achieve them. If we are too hasty, such as setting the goal that will take five years to achieve in three or two years, we will "haste makes waste", or the plan will fail or the quality of work will be affected. If the schedule is too full, you will do this and that at the same time, and as a result, you will not see one thing and be too tired to persist. If the arrangement is too late, if it is stipulated that you can only do something at a certain time, if you encounter some interference, you can't finish it and have no time to make up for it, then you are bound to fail.

If we want to leave room, we must leave room for manoeuvre, and even if some accidents happen, we have time and energy to deal with them flexibly.

My friend, of course, everything needs you to keep a peaceful mind. Don't rush for success, don't aim too high, accumulate step by step, work hard bit by bit, believe in accumulation!