By the way, I slept with her roommate in my college girlfriend's dormitory.
I think you are right. A loner is a loner. Do you want to follow them when they commit crimes? You're going with them when they go to prison? I am on your side. You did the right thing. As for paying medical bills, what you should do is to stay away from the injured people after paying medical bills. For your own future, such a friend is not suitable for you. I believe you are a good man.