First of all, the element of money is very important, but it is not all. The sky-high bride price is only one factor. It is difficult for rural college students to take exams, and they are also very frugal after entering school. However, the families of many rural college students are still very poor. Four years of college tuition and living expenses cost a lot, adding up to at least 65438+ 10,000. Apart from just graduating, I have no experience, and I have to spend money on renting a house, clothing, food, housing and transportation to ensure my life. When they got married. Even if there are girls around, it is difficult to be together for life. After all, there are too few people who can share joys and sorrows. It seems that all rural college students with high academic qualifications have some shortcomings and their life experiences are getting worse and worse. Even at home, it is difficult to afford the cost of children's marriage, and buying a house is also very luxurious.
Secondly, we must admit that vision and thinking do have a subtle influence on the direction of life. Zhong Yuan Bian Xiao comes from the countryside. When volunteering for the college entrance examination, many nouns don't know what they mean, but teachers and doctors have a bottom in their hearts. I reported to other experts that eating in the future is a problem. Due to the limitation of vision and thinking, I have no confidence and perseverance. After entering the university, I not only learned one thing, but also compared with many versatile students, Bian Xiao himself seems to know nothing. At that time, students' mobile phones were worth at least 1000 yuan. I remember very clearly that the black and white mobile phone was only 399 yuan at that time.
Then after graduation, the plight of no money really restricted my development in a higher direction. At least you can work at school or make up lessons, but you really have to rely on yourself after graduation. Besides eating, many places have to spend money, so they can't save any money. Now college students also need to find their own jobs after graduation. The salary at the initial stage is not high. After graduation, my views on rural college students have changed. In the past, there was nothing special about college students with decent farmers. Some people think that going to college is completely time-consuming and laborious, and they don't make money for several years, not to mention it is useless to study.
Fourth, college students generally have high standards, so many rural college students are very proud after graduation, and this pride is also reflected in marriage. In other words, ordinary daughters can't see it, good girls can't climb it, and both ends are unhappy. Over time, their standards of mate selection are getting higher and higher. Rural girls feel isolated from the world, they can't see rural young people with the same background, and they can't be with urban young people for fear of injury, so it is difficult for rural college students to find wives.
Finally, it is said that money will go up. In the final analysis, the above three points are two words "lack of money". If you go back to the countryside after graduating from college, you will be despised. If you work in the city and are very popular now, you will say "it is impossible to buy a house with your salary, let alone the other party". However, it is not that rural college students can't find the object, but the process is tortuous. In addition, for rural college students who have the ability to study in graduate school, PhD and study abroad,
Not all college students from rural areas are successful, but some are not. Knowledge can change their fate, depending on how you seize the opportunity. As for love, it is up to you to strike while the iron is hot. Are you afraid that girls will not chase you?