Amanda's Durian Fluttering and White Deer Plain, as well as Chen Shu's Iron Pear and Lovers' Things, are all widely acclaimed works.
Besides being excellent actors, Amanda and Chen Shu actually have a lot in common. For example, Amanda and Chen Shu are both married to their current husbands, and Amanda and Chen Shu also have stepsons born to their husbands and predecessors. Although they are both step-mothers, Amanda and Chen Shu treat their stepsons in the opposite way.
First, the relationship between Amanda and her stepson is very tense! Amanda's husband, Wang Xinjun, had a marriage with actor Tang Jing before she married Amanda. Speaking of Tang Jing, you may not be familiar with this name, but as long as you mention the role of "Hu Shiniang" in Legend of Wulin, you will have a very clear impression on her. Yes, Tang Jing is the actor of "Hu Shi Niang" in Legend of Wulin.
Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing met in 1996, and they cooperated for the second time in 1997. This cooperation also made Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing fall in love, and they entered the marriage hall on 1999.
Tang Jing gave birth to a lovely child to Wang Xinjun after marriage. However, due to various contradictions, Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing officially announced their divorce in 2009, and Wang Xinjun also obtained custody of his son. After divorcing Tang Jing, Wang Xinjun got to know his wife Amanda by making movies.
It's just that Wang Xinjun and Amanda didn't fall in love because of the drama, but when they were promoting their works, Wang Xinjun and Amanda fell in love. The couple also became official husband and wife on 20 14+65438123 October. However, due to their busy work, they never held a wedding.
Although Wang Xinjun loves Amanda very much after marriage, Amanda also has a very headache, that is, she can't get along well with her stepson!
You know, when Amanda and Wang Xinjun got married, the children of Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing were already a 12-year-old boy, and all the 12-year-old boys had basically entered a rebellious period. Amanda has no previous experience in raising children, so such a child of 12 years old also makes an old actor like Amanda feel very headache.
Second, due to the irreconcilable relationship with stepson, the relationship between Amanda and stepson has become very cold! When Amanda and Wang Xinjun just fell in love, Wang Xinjun's son hated Amanda very much. Therefore, after Amanda married Wang Xinjun, Wang Xinjun's son didn't accept Amanda from the bottom of his heart, and even Wang Xinjun's son didn't want to say a word to Amanda.
But Amanda is well-known in the entertainment circle. Amanda doesn't want to take care of Wang Xinjun's son because Wang Xinjun's son doesn't accept himself. Although Amanda and Wang Xinjun's son live together, they feel like strangers at first sight. Although Wang Xinjun is very eager to see these things, Wang Xinjun can't change the relationship between Amanda and his son.
Shortly after Wang Xinjun and Amanda got married, they had a child belonging to them. After having children of her own, Amanda ignored her stepson.
Although Amanda is the guardian of Wang Xinjun's son, she is unwilling to assume the responsibility of guardian. Even when attending some family occasions or friends' parties, Amanda and Wang Xinjun's son don't want to appear in the same box.
Some people may say that the stepmother in the world is equally black, but I have different doubts about it, because the star I am going to talk about next is also a boy's stepmother, but she regards her stepson as her own. This actress is Chen Shu that everyone is familiar with!
Third, Chen Shu and his stepson have a very harmonious relationship! Amanda and her stepson did show you the bad side of non-biological mother and son, but Chen Shu and her stepson did show you the good side of non-biological mother and son. Because before Chen Shu and Zhao Yinyin got married, Zhao Yinyin and Huang Zijia had a marriage.
Zhao Yinyin's ex-wife Huang Zijia was the first girlfriend of singer Pu Shu, but later, Huang Zijia chose to marry Zhao Yinyin. However, due to Zhao Yinyin's busy work, their relationship also had serious problems. Therefore, after less than two years of marriage, Huang Zijia chose to divorce Zhao Yinyin, and Zhao Yinyin obtained custody of his son.
Chen Shu and Zhao Yinyin met and fell in love through the introduction of friends. At the first sight of Zhao Yinyin, Chen Shu was deeply attracted by Zhao Yinyin's artistic charm. Soon, Chen Shu and Zhao Yinyin fell in love and got married in Bali on September 1 16.
However, since Zhao Yinyin and his ex-wife Huang Zijia had children, Chen Shu became someone else's stepmother as soon as she entered the door.
However, the relationship between Chen Shu and his stepson is not as tense as that between Amanda and his stepson. On the contrary, Chen Shu and his stepson can communicate with each other as often as friends.
Fourth, in order not to let the stepson be affected, Chen Shu also decided not to have any more children! Although many stars in the entertainment circle choose not to have children all their lives, Chen Shu made such a decision at a young age. It can be said that on the one hand, Chen Shu and her husband Zhao Yinyin have very strong feelings, on the other hand, they don't want their feelings with their stepson to change.
Chen Shu and his stepson are not related by blood, but Chen Shu spends all his thoughts on his stepson, so for his stepson, Chen Shu is his own mother.
Although the stepson sometimes makes Chen Shu angry, Chen Shu never chooses to educate his stepson by beating and cursing. On the contrary, he regards his children as friends through communication.
Of course, a harmonious relationship between Chen Shu and his stepson is completely feasible, even if Chen Shu changes her mind in the future and chooses to have children with her husband Zhao Yinyin.
All in all, Amanda and Chen Shu have excellent acting skills, but in the matter of being someone else's stepmother, it is obvious that Chen Shu is better.
When Amanda treats her husband's son, she can't calm down and sort out the misunderstanding and estrangement between them, which is enough to show that Amanda is not suitable to be someone else's stepmother.
Being someone else's stepmother is something that needs careful consideration. If you can't make up your mind to be kind to your husband's children, then you should consider whether this marriage can bring you happiness.
Because marrying a man with children will not only affect his married life, but also have a considerable impact on the growth and psychological education of children. After becoming someone else's stepmother, he must also regard her husband's children as his own. If he can't be fair and reasonable, he will definitely make his stepson hate himself.