Five-year-old Lingling (pseudonym) can no longer ponder the world he can't understand-this child diagnosed with autism was strangled by his biological father on the barren hill in Shenshan Town, Chibi, on the morning of the 4 th.
After the efforts of the police 12 hours, the case was solved. At present, the suspect Liu has been detained. Liu is a native of Shenshan Town, Chibi, who lives in Yulin, Guangxi. His wife Li is a local, with a 5-year-old son Lingling and a 4-month-old daughter.
Ling Lin was diagnosed with autism at the age of 3. He lives in his own world. He follows what others say. On October 3rd, 65438/KLOC-0, Liu took Lingling on the train back to Chibi. He said to his wife, I will take the children to apply for a disability certificate. "The child never said a word until he died." At 6 o'clock in the morning on the 4th, Liu and his son arrived at Chibi. After getting off the bus, the two men walked non-stop to the mountain. Liu bought a shovel while waiting for the bus. At 8 o'clock, Liu took his son through the house in his hometown and went directly to the back hill behind the house.
"I strangled him with my hand, and after a few minutes, his eyes closed." After being arrested, Liu cried for more than ten minutes. He said his son didn't say a word.
After preliminary investigation by Chibi police, it is indeed possible that Lingling has been killed. 12 At noon, Liu was summoned by the police to Yuzhou Branch of Yulin City, Guangxi. When the police appeared in front of Liu, he didn't resist: you don't have to ask, I know why, I'll go with you.
At first, Liu didn't say a word. Under the persuasion of the police, Liu suddenly burst into tears. /kloc-after more than 0/0 minutes, he was calm and confessed all the crimes. "Autistic, spending a lot of money every month, really can't afford it ..." Liu said that in order to look after the children, he worked two jobs, which was very hard, and the couple often quarreled over their son.
At present, Liu has been under criminal detention; Li, who knows the truth, goes every day; Lingling's body was sent to chibi city funeral home.
After reading it, I was really shocked by the news. It can be said that I was scared. The psychological collapse of vulnerable groups has reached the extreme. I didn't say a word when I saw the record of the child being strangled. My heart ached and I cried. Is the child silent or crying? Is the child frozen in such cold weather? Tears blurred my vision again, but I felt that I couldn't cry, stuck in my throat, and shouted wildly but feebly. I suddenly feel that I have to guide my parents who are familiar with autistic children. From the moment I was diagnosed as an autistic child (professionally called autism spectrum disorder), this disease was like my parents' disease. Children don't know anything, and they just smile for no reason, especially the families of children with severe autism. I thought: With the reported Lin Lin,
I want to shout in my heart, and I want to appeal to the society with all my strength: to care for and support autistic groups in an all-round way, and to pay more attention to the psychological counseling of autistic parents and their families! ! ! Their parents are more heartbroken than the pain caused by any disease. I suddenly remembered what Hua's (pseudonym) mother said: I want to read the Bible every night to calm myself down. Intervention can not be qualitatively changed in a day or two, a year or two, but it must be quantitatively changed, and it cannot be cured with money. Mostly long-term companionship with children and family. But anyway, please have hope. Science and technology are developing, medicine is developing and education is progressing. What's the point of waiting until the antidote comes and everyone is gone?
As a teacher of autistic children, I want to do my best to help the families of autistic children. My strength is too weak, and the media has a great influence. I hope the media can promote this rising disease in a responsible and positive way and encourage all-round social support system. In Japan, college students and social work volunteers will give regular volunteer support. I think this is a good way for every special group to integrate into society as much as possible and do everything well. Of course, don't complain about everything when something goes wrong, judge right and wrong, and blame the lack of social system. Before the antidote comes, our children should live and solve themselves with wisdom and indigenous methods. The media should publicize more positive cases, transmit positive energy and give hope to autistic families.
Our parents should be a hard stone, stick to their expectations as beautifully as you expected your children to come into this world, and never abandon or give up walking with autistic children. Let go of the child's label, and parents' happy and healthy psychology will change. Don't pin all your hopes on teachers or institutions. Teachers' institutions can only play an auxiliary role, and only parents themselves can really change their children.
Although the road is difficult, there are also different scenery. Autistic children are innocent. Most people won't hit others, but some will only hurt themselves. They are called "children of the stars". Their world is a mystery. I like autistic children because they are full of charm. Every child has his own characteristics, but one thing in common is that his mind is so naive.
These autistic parents, as persistent as Cornish, are now living a wonderful life. For example, Ms. Shi Yangzi Akishi, a Japanese woman, is committed to helping her son find various environments and opportunities, and helping her son Akishi, who has severe autism, become a self-reliant social person. Thirty years ago, everyone had never heard of the concept of autism! As a seemingly worldwide problem, parents can change their children's future as long as they insist on learning professional knowledge, grope for progress with the help of institutions, experts and teachers, and often adjust their mentality.
Fang Jing, the teacher of Qingdao Yilin, also founded the Yilin Autism Organization for his son Shi, helping more confused parents. Year after year, children step into society by groping. Tian Huiping, founder of Beijing Xingyu Autism Organization, is also a guide to our life and soul. Many families are still making positive achievements through perseverance and persistence, and many parents are actively insisting on intervention. And the parents around me are responsible parents who let me respect and give me a thumbs up!
Many of them once had the idea of "liberation" with their children, especially when nothing changed in the first few years of diagnosis. Despair, lamentation and repeated torture have exhausted all their energy and it is difficult to get out. However, their psychology is stronger and harder than a hard stone. They only have hope when they are alive, and the road is long, and I will go up and down. Parents should see through it. The "seeing through" here is not giving up, but rising to a height. There are more zeros behind family savings. Simply raising and serving children is also a disrespect for life. We should make positive progress together on the road of intervention and peers. Be responsible for life, and strive to live with meaning and dignity.
Of course, not to mention my parents, I am sometimes so anxious by these little people, but when I was being trained as a child's family psychotherapist, the Anti-drug Declaration borrowed by Teacher Yi was very useful, and I would like to dedicate it to all my parents and friends: I need peace and accept what I cannot change; I need courage to change what I can; I also need wisdom to tell the difference between the two.
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