First of all, apart from Xing, do you think you two are suitable emotionally and in life? Secondly, Xing, are you satisfied with everything except what he told you? Are you happy? -because whether we want to continue with a person will not be denied because of one thing, but often we have to consider it together with many things. So, apart from this thing that makes you uncomfortable or dissatisfied, can his other things make you satisfied and comfortable? You can consider this question:)