I think when I go to college, I should try my best to live high's style according to my own wishes. ...

Actually, you don't have to be so upset. Is this a book? 985=2 1 1. There are also poor people in the classroom, or the lecture style is not to your taste, or you can't give lectures at all, so get used to it and it will be normal in the future. ...

Since you also like literature and Chinese, and you are your own major, collect and refer to books that are useful to your major according to some bibliographies offered by your professional courses. You don't have to be too rigid in textbooks ... Although I am not a Chinese major, I want to go there for postgraduate study in the future ... In addition to many famous books I have read before, I am now eating San Xuan's Four Books and Five Classics; Look at Feng Youlan's History of China Philosophy. ...

In fact, everyone who has been to college knows that scholarships are not the embodiment of strength at all ... they are just the result of self-selection and a little test skills, and more activities they don't like to increase their comprehensive evaluation scores. ...

What really matters in employment is a person's strength ... language organization ability and director's courage are both important. Sometimes, recruitment companies have a clear understanding. Many certificates are just "dazzling glitz" and can't explain any substantive problems. ...

Finally, I think the book that my brother said upstairs is quite good. I have read it before. Although I don't fully agree with it, it does give us a new perspective on problems and universities. ...

"What do you want to study in the university? (If the landlord is interested, here is a free viewing address:/hopefuls/hope/a 651482.html).

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1. What do universities want to learn?

The main difference between college students and non-college students is definitely not whether they have mastered a professional skill ... A person who insists on a wrong view after independent thinking is more worthy of recognition than a person who accepts a correct view without thinking ... Plants can grow on campus year after year, but we are destined to be replaced by another group of people soon ... Although every time we catch a fish, we must weave a net if we want to catch a fish. ...

Second, life planning: the choice of three forks in the road

No detours are shortcuts ... career, business, academic. At this fork in the road of life, where will you go ... instead of competing with 100 people for five positions, it is better to compete with one person for one position ... Academic spirit should naturally keep enough distance from the noise ... Shopping malls are not afraid of any myths. You may be the next legend. ...

Third, there is no hot or cold major, and there is no high or low school.

No employer will think that you represent your school or your major ... Since it is a probability, there is more than one possibility ... If you choose an academic, an unpopular major is easier to achieve than a popular major ... Cross-major has almost become a fashion ... The power struggle between universities has reached the postgraduate entrance examination room and the talent market, which turned out to be so insignificant. ...

Fourth, we must not specialize in one industry, and we must not be single-minded.

It's better to know a thousand tricks than one trick ... 10% is not 100%, but zero ... In this real society, truly realizing personal value is the most respectable, dignified and dignified thing ... If you want to know what you need to learn, the best way is to pay attention to the recruitment information ... Many majors have become the art of killing dragons because they don't have professional effectiveness ... Why?

Students who don't skip class are not good students.

Don't skip any class, just like skipping any class ... The key to going to college is to learn how to think ... There is nothing wrong with skipping classes, but don't skip classes ... English corner is definitely not a place to learn English ... If you lose your English major, you will lose everything ... The recruiting unit is a place to use talents, not to train talents ... You should skip classes and ask teachers to give you high marks. ...

Sixth, the dialectics of work-study program.

For poor students, the first thing to do is not to earn money, but to save money ... Most girls regard computers as DVD players, and most boys regard computers as game machines ... Attitude determines everything ... When learning falls to a secondary position, college students can only say that they are part-time. ...

Seven, doing things is not as good as being a man, and connections determine success or failure.

Learning is not as good as doing things, and doing good deeds is not as good as being human ... If you can speak, you can reduce the struggle for 30 years ... How much money a person has, not the ownership of how much money he has, but the right to use how much money he has ... 12.5% of the money a person earns depends on his own knowledge, 87.5% comes from contacts ... Before the age of 30, he earned money by his major, and at the age of 30.

8. Internet: The Sword of Eternal Dependence and the Sword of Damocles

It takes two hours to write a seamless and excellent graduation thesis ... The technical threshold for starting a business in the Internet field is not high, but the key is market vision and marketing ability ... It is difficult for a girl to jump lightly, but rascal Cai continues to get in close contact with other girls again and again ... Many college students have netizens all over the country, but they never take the initiative to say to people around them: Hello, can we talk? ...

Love: Flowers must be folded before they can be folded.

Love is unexpected, but you can't expect it ... The more lonely you are, the more you should be wary of love ... Since being single is shameful, should Ximen Qing be rated as one of the top ten outstanding young people in the Song Dynasty ... Flowers can be folded, so don't let a man with 10,000 yuan spend 100 yuan for you, and you only take his/. And a man with only ten dollars spent ten dollars for you, and you became his whole life. ...

X. Sex: God dies.

After that, I will be more lonely and more empty ... Why should other people's vanity hurt me ... There is no sad song for me, I don't know if the flowers have fallen and people have died. ...

Eleven, one's deceased father grind: painful euthanasia

There is nothing worse than wasting youth ... the enrollment expansion rate of graduate students is 30%, which means that the depreciation rate of master students is 30% ... and it is also three years of hard work. You can increase the value of E 1 by 1, or increase the value of E2 by 2 or even 3 ... After finishing your master's or doctor's degree, it doesn't mean that you are more capable ... facing 13.

Twelve, studying abroad: "turtle" becomes "kelp"

The job with a monthly salary of 2,500 yuan has attracted three "returnees" to compete for employment ... For some majors, studying in the United States is no different from studying in Ethiopia ... Since companies all over the world want to share cakes in the China market, why do China people want to study abroad and then work for foreigners? ...

XIII. OAU: It is better to raise humble people.

She has set many records in China's information industry. She is known as the "working queen" of China. And she is just a self-taught college student ... If you want to win back what you have lost, you must make up for it with less efforts than others ... Non-unified recruitment requires not only certain strength, but also certain skills to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses ... The road is at your feet. Okay, okay. ...

Fourteen, graduation: the trap of flying daggers

Your alma mater doesn't treat yourself as a mother, so why should you treat yourself as a child ... Listening to remedial classes means spending money to buy sureness ... The talent market is a minefield ... There is nothing wrong with applying for a job in various ways, but don't go hungry ... As long as your employer says you want to pay, you turn around and leave ... It's not enough to make a word these days, let alone make a verbal agreement. ...

Fifteen, job hunting: don't be too kind.

Your resume must highlight your core competitiveness ... When you apply for a job, you don't have to "say one thing" like Yan Shouyi ... It's not difficult for a person to tell a lie, but it's difficult to tell it to the end without revealing flaws ... When filling out your major, you must be as detailed as possible ... A resume of a job is enough to make a form with a piece of A4 paper ... The interview is actually regular, and you only need to recite the standard answers for each interview.

Sixteen, riding a donkey can find a swift horse.

The standard distance between two tracks of American railway is 4 feet 8.5 inches. Why? Because the width between the hips of two horses is 4 feet 8.5 inches ... garbage is a misplaced talent ... The biggest tragedy in the world is that too many young people have never found out what they really want to do ... Small and medium-sized enterprises may give you more exercise ... Starting from the grassroots does not mean that you can start from every position at the grassroots level ... You have to "make money" and have a future. ...

Office politics: a compulsory course for white-collar workers

Big companies are people, small companies are things ... Whether employees can be promoted depends largely on whether they work hard or not, but on how much the boss appreciates you ... The company's affairs and secrets are always more complicated and profound than you think ... It is not only necessary but also wise to play dumb at the right time ... Just treat your colleagues as a group of strangers whose names you can name. ...

Eighteen, entrepreneurship: be a rich man before the age of 29.

A thin camel is bigger than a horse ... A brave and timid person is no longer a "big fish eat small fish", but a "quick fish eats slow fish" ... Grasping the trend is the most important ability of an entrepreneur ... The space left for high-tech graduates is already very small ... haste makes waste. It is very necessary to work for others to accumulate experience before starting a business ... the market is always more important than the product ... what if the money is not enough? First, look at the dishes and eat; Second, borrow chickens to lay eggs. ...

In fact, I am a college student.

Let's start with Stephen Chow's king of comedy.

In this masterpiece of Stephen Chow, Yin Tianchou has no talent and can only show his ambition in the neighborhood welfare association-giving lectures and teaching performances. The dancer came here to study. As soon as she saw him, she recognized him as a "unlucky guy who stepped on a banana skin" in a movie, so she laughed and scolded him easily: "Why don't you go to die, you walk-on." At this time, Yin Tianchou immediately corrected seriously: "In fact, I am an actor." Since then, Piao Piao has mentioned twice that he is a walk-on, and he has seriously corrected it.

There are countless classic lines written by Stephen Chow, but "Actually, I am an actor" is the one that touches me the most. It can be seen that Yin Tianchou's heart is actually very painful. But when everyone ignored him, he stubbornly maintained his inner self-esteem in people's laughter, never gave up his dream of being an actor, and always demanded himself by the standards of an excellent actor. "Actually, I am an actor." Did Stephen Chow rely on this sentence to support him through the gloomy days in his early years and eventually become a legend in the Chinese film industry?

Considering the situation of college students today, it seems that they are not much better than Yin Tianchou. At that time, "favored by heaven" has obviously become one of the vulnerable groups in society. When any cat and dog can disdain to say that "college students are everywhere", when you graduate, the school orders you to move out of the dormitory before a certain day of each month, without asking about your job and future. When the employer returns your resume again and again, or the salary offered to you is not as good as that of a migrant worker on a construction site, aren't you Yin Tianchou in another time and space background?

This is a cold social reality, far from being able to change by myself. What I can do is to sort out my feelings along the way and reflect on my experience and lessons in study, postgraduate entrance examination, job search and entrepreneurship, so that every college student can confidently say, "In fact, I am a college student." When all people don't take college students seriously, you might as well use this sentence to maintain your minimum dignity, and then demand yourself with the standards that a college student should have, persevere and make unremitting efforts, and finally become the leader of the times. I'm not Stanley Slavski. Your previous books can't compare with the actor's self-cultivation. However, I believe this is enough to make the weak brave, the weak strong, the lost find an exit, and the wanderer bid farewell to the detour. After all, not taking detours is a shortcut.

The Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, "One cannot step into the same river twice". It is certainly wrong for the same person to fall into the same river twice, but it is often inevitable for two people to fall into the same river one after another, unless the first person who falls into the river gets up and makes a conspicuous warning sign for the latecomers. Unfortunately, those who fall into the river rarely try to make the latecomers not repeat the same mistakes, and those who do not fall into the river will not carve a successful footprint for the latecomers. People who fail always feel that they are not qualified to speak, while successful people disdain or have no time to speak. As a result, groups of people fell into the same river, and the same confusion and confusion were repeated in one college student after another.

I started writing this book to prevent the latecomers from stepping into the same river with me, and also to share my little experience accumulated in recent years with my brothers and sisters. I thought I would finish the manuscript soon, but it took me nearly a year from writing to finishing it. After that, it was added and deleted several times and the manuscript was changed several times. I don't think it's been more than a year. On the one hand, because I am busy with the affairs of the company, I can only squeeze out a period of time to write a manuscript after work; On the other hand, I always want to say everything, and try to update and enrich every point in the book with the latest feelings.

Many views in the book are completely contrary to some mainstream views at present. For those who believe in the golden rule, I am completely an alternative to subvert the tradition. For example, everyone thinks that skipping classes is a sign of not making progress, but I say that students who don't skip classes are not good students; Many people think that postgraduate entrance examination is the best or even the only way out for college students, but I compare postgraduate entrance examination to painful euthanasia. If you can't accept my opinion when reading the catalogue, please don't put this book aside. I wrote this book just to exchange some ideas with an experienced person like you. I can't force you to accept my point of view, but I believe that if you change some ideas after reading the manuscript, it will benefit you for life.

I have listed a large number of examples in the book, a large part of which are based on the real life around me. Maybe you will think that these ordinary things that happen to ordinary people lack the authority they deserve, but please forgive my stubbornness. Because for me, these college graduates living around me are more vivid and real than any authoritative case. Although you may dream of becoming Bill? Gates is a man of the hour, but you are more likely to be just one of these ordinary college graduates mentioned in my book: find a satisfactory job when you graduate, then commute by bus, then expect your boss to give you a promotion and a raise, and finally choose to start your own business at an appropriate time. Please forgive me for not getting you out of this normal mode. What I can do is to make you walk faster, more steadily and more practically on this ordinary road.

Although I try to do everything carefully, I still feel that everything is lacking, and many opinions seem to be insufficiently expressed. After writing 200,000 to 300,000 words, I seem to have a lot to say in my heart. Due to many objective conditions, I can only hope that this book can be supplemented and improved when it is revised. At the same time, if you have any questions, whether it's refuting some of my opinions or asking questions about yourself, you can email me and I'll try my best to answer them. I

Email: qinbiaoxi @ 163.com In view of my busy business on weekdays, I may not be able to reply one by one in a timely, comprehensive and in-depth manner, so I can only ask you to forgive me in advance.

Because the written language has some defects compared with the spoken language, if possible, I would be happy to share with college students the details of my study, job hunting and entrepreneurship in the form of live lectures.

Ok, the peanuts on the table have been finished. It's time to serve. I hope the next 18 course will not let you down.

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