After college, everyone's hobbies and pursuits are different. You may see others shine in a certain field, and you will be excited to enter that field. But when you see another person in another field, you are fascinated by his field ... you will always fall into a kind of distress and entanglement. So it will be very satisfying to know what you love and stick to it for a long time.

2. Treat others' excellence frankly.

There is no shortage of excellent people in universities, basically in all fields. Human nature is jealous. At this time, praise and calm treatment can make you happy and develop your own style.

Step 3 improve yourself

It's a cliche, but it really works. We should pay attention to this not only in our study, but also in our interests, such as roller skating, manicure and painting. Just keep an open mind to explore the unknown and make yourself excellent. Believe me, it's more fulfilling than chasing drama painting Tik Tok …

4. Learn to relax and adjust yourself.

Sometimes when you are tired from climbing mountains, you must relax. If you fail, you should decompress. Don't be nervous all the time, or you will be unhappy almost every day. A lot of things may be very depressing, and it feels like the world has collapsed. But later you will find that it's nothing, it's your experience and negotiation.