There are advantages and disadvantages for college students to fall in love, so before we know this, we should understand what love is. From the conversation of my classmates, I found that in their eyes, love means washing clothes, shopping and spending money and time, which represents the love view of contemporary college students to some extent. It's really sad Who knows that life is precious and love is more expensive! Obviously, love nowadays has been misunderstood. Love is not spending money and time washing clothes and shopping. Is it because Meng Jiangnv cried the Great Wall that her husband accompanied her shopping? Love is an emotion and a part of yourself. Love is more about giving and responsibility. To make matters worse, all the students think that the key to the pros and cons lies in whether falling in love is useful to them. Are you all saying this because falling in love is useful to you? ! The criterion for judging the pros and cons is not whether it is useful to yourself. Love is an emotion. Since it is an emotion, it cannot be suppressed. The problem is that no one loves for love's sake, but they think too much about other factors. There is a big difference between living for money and living for money. The first purpose of the former is for money, without which the meaning of living is lost, while the latter is to live first. Similarly, there are essential differences between loving for other purposes and loving for other purposes. Of course, I understand that love cannot be bread, but bread cannot be love! In today's society, love is no longer noble and pure, but has already become a tool. Finding a rich boyfriend has become the general trend of girls. However, I think there will still be some people who still insist on waiting and pursuing that sincere love. Perhaps, we don't have the ability to turn decay into magic to change this dirty society, but at least we can get rid of the mud and clean ourselves up. Perhaps, this is also very difficult. I think college students do more harm than good in falling in love, because college is a microcosm of society. We just walked out of the greenhouse of high school, still pure. How can we resist the corrosion of society? Let's grow up first, find out the relationship between bread and love first, or get bread first. This is from a big perspective. Growing up, we just walked out of high school and were curious about everything, including love. College students don't fall in love, but talk about it-falling in love, falling in love for love's sake, just like writing for writing's sake. There is no denying the existence of love at first sight, but the probability should be small. However, there are also many people who fall in love only a few weeks after they met in college. Because falling in love in college is a trend, both sides want to fall in love and hit it off, which is mutually beneficial. This kind of love is not beneficial to study and life, wasting money, energy and time, not thinking about each other, and everyone thinks that each other exists. Of course, I don't deny the existence of pure love, and of course I shouldn't object, but I still think the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. As we all know, the disadvantages of exam-oriented education only teach us what to do, but never teach us how to judge what to do and what not to do. It can be said that when we first went to college, our psychological age was very young and our thoughts were not mature. How can we deal with many problems brought by love? ! Therefore, you should think clearly before falling in love, knowing that falling in love is not a kind of gain, but more a kind of pay and a kind of responsibility. Sometimes not loving is also a kind of love. If you do, I applaud your sincere love and courage. After all, love is above life, but courage alone can't solve the problem. You should calm down and deal with all kinds of problems correctly. I think the reason why the disadvantages outweigh the advantages is that I think many college students can't correctly handle all kinds of problems brought about by love. To be exact, I think the disadvantages of falling in love too early in college outweigh the advantages.
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