I. Respect and tolerance
The basis of communication is mutual respect. Everyone has his own values and lifestyle, and these differences are inevitable in communication. College students should respect other people's views and lifestyles, even if they don't fully understand them, they should not belittle or laugh at other people's beliefs or behaviors. Respect is also manifested in respecting the privacy and personal space of others and not interfering in other people's affairs at will.
Second, sincerity and trust.
Sincerity is the key to establishing good interpersonal relationship. College students should avoid falsehood and concealment in communication and show their true selves. Only through sincere communication can a true trust relationship be established. At the same time, college students should keep their promises, build the cornerstone of trust and make their communication more stable.
Third, understanding and support.
Understanding the feelings and situations of others is an important part of interpersonal communication. College students should learn to listen, actively understand the needs and feelings of others, and provide emotional support. At the same time, when others need help, we should give them support and help as much as we can.
Four. Equality and justice
Equality and justice are the basic principles of interpersonal communication. College students should abandon any form of discrimination and prejudice, regardless of gender, race, religious belief or social status, they should respect equality and not take sides. When dealing with contradictions and disputes, we should adhere to the principle of justice and not be partial to our own interests.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) mutual assistance.
Interpersonal communication is a mutually beneficial process. College students should seek a balance between the interests of both sides in their communication, neither demanding too much nor paying unilaterally. Establish long-term and stable interpersonal relationships through mutual help and support. This mutually beneficial communication mode helps to enhance interdependence and cohesion.
Communication and consultation of intransitive verbs
Communication is the key to solving interpersonal problems. When college students encounter problems in communication, they should solve them through active communication. Communication should be based on equality, respect and understanding, avoiding accusations and attacks. In the process of communication, college students should learn to express their own views and needs, and at the same time listen to others' opinions and seek the same solution.
How to avoid quarreling with others
1, learn to control your emotions.
Emotional excitement is the fuse of quarrel, so you should learn to deal with emotions calmly. In the face of conflict, you can calm your emotions by taking a deep breath and counting, and avoid saying hurtful words because your emotions are out of control. At the same time, we should learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes, think from each other's point of view, and understand each other's position and feelings.
2. Learn to communicate effectively.
Effective communication is the key to avoid quarreling. Pay attention to tone, words and expressions when communicating, and avoid using offensive or demeaning language. At the same time, we should clearly express our views and needs and listen to each other's opinions and suggestions. Once differences arise, we should seek common ground while reserving differences and find a solution to the problem instead of falling into endless quarrels.
3. Learn to respect others.
Respect for others is an important principle to avoid quarreling. Everyone has his own values and lifestyle, and we should respect and accept the differences of others. When facing other people's different opinions and behaviors, we should keep an open mind and don't question and criticize others easily. At the same time, we should also respect the feelings and privacy of others and not infringe upon their rights and interests.