2. Keep your distance. Don't let others know Zhihu account and Weibo account after being together, and QQ doesn't need to be related. Because sometimes there are really some unnecessary doubts and doubts. And once this happens, it is difficult to dissipate.
3, don't fall in love, the university has more important things to do. A girl will not change her mind because you love her so much. She needs to see that you have advantages that others don't have, such as looks, experiences and achievements.
4, don't lie too much, paper can't wrap the fire.
Lies can calm each other down again and again, but this is only a stopgap measure after all. The most important thing for couples to get along with is trust. Don't consume this trust again and again.
5. Love is unfair. The more you give, the less you may get, and the less you will be valued and cherished.
Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, but those who are optimistic are fearless. Personal experience, falling in love in college, don't devote yourself wholeheartedly, but also set aside a considerable amount of energy and time to study, otherwise you may end up separated.
6. Don't share all the stories as soon as you come up.
During the period of love, the most important thing is that * * * language is interlinked, which is the so-called topic. If you say everything in your heart because you are too excited at first, you will definitely have nothing to say in the end. And once there is no * * * topic between two people, they can only look at each other, and it is not far from breaking up.
Finally, I can only sigh: if life is just like the first sight, what is the autumn wind sad painting fan?
7. Don't forget to improve yourself and stay attractive.
Many people always complain that he has changed his mind and he doesn't love me anymore. But have you ever thought? Why did he (she) change his mind?
Because you have nothing to love now. It is really necessary to keep your charm and temperament, which is also very important to stimulate each other's passion.
Be responsible for yourself.
Everyone has different views on love, and outsiders have no position to comment and preach. Everyone is an adult, so we should be clear about our bottom line and principles. What you can and can't do is up to you. Whether you do it or not is your own business, but you must be responsible for your actions.
Both sides are willing to fall in love, and each has his own needs. Unless he deliberately falsifies personal information to cheat money, it has nothing to do with law and morality, not to mention who suffers and who takes advantage.
Where there is demand, there is business, and where there is business, there is killing. Since it is your own demand, there is no need to complain about being benevolent.
9. Both directions are meaningful. Let go when it's time to let go.
If two people get along, you can obviously feel that the other person's attitude towards you is very cold, and obviously you can't feel the enthusiasm, then it is time to let go. Because even if you want to keep it and save it, it's no use.
Put off the date of breaking up.
Life is still very long, and I will meet many people in the future. Although I feel very sorry and unwilling, I have to let go.