Social etiquette that college students should pay attention to. Appearance etiquette?
Today's era is an era of individuality and team spirit. College students should make up according to their own groups, so as to show the youthful vigor and enterprising spirit of young people.
Dress code for college students. College students, who have no financial resources at school, should mainly emphasize simplicity and generosity. In classrooms, libraries and other places, as well as attending assemblies, performances or various public places, it is not easy to wear clothes that are not suitable for students, such as hurdle vests, suspenders vests, slippers, sports shorts and miniskirts. "
Wear casual clothes, casual clothes, etc. Easy to move and age-appropriate in daily study, life and work; On some specific occasions, dress should reflect one's own cultural level, moral standard and aesthetic taste.
Make-up should be properly strengthened and beautified according to the objective conditions of one's face, without distortion: make-up should not be exposed, but should be melted without exposure, so as to achieve the realm of "clear water gives birth to hibiscus and natural carving". Make-up also depends on the environment, occasion, time and identity.
It should be noted that college students should not wear makeup in their daily study and life; In social entertainment activities, moderate thickness is ok. Make-up should be natural and light, and avoid too many artificial marks, which will lose the natural beauty of young people.
Make-up should be coordinated with clothing. Different clothes make up different colors and styles. The color of cosmetics should be consistent with or have a certain contrast with the color of clothing; Make-up and clothing styles should also be consistent. Make-up should also highlight the key points, "with points and areas." The purpose of makeup is to highlight and strengthen beauty. This kind of beauty, whether it is eyebrows, eyes, lips or skin, as long as you can evaluate yourself correctly and objectively, you will always find that this kind of beauty deserves to be highlighted and strengthened and enviable.
Second, etiquette and etiquette.
Manners and manners are the expression of self-sincerity, and a person's external manners and actions can directly show his attitude. Be polite to others, be natural and graceful, observe the general etiquette of advancing and retreating, and try to avoid all kinds of impolite and uncivilized habits.
Posture has the function of conveying information, so a polite college student should learn to use body language to express self-esteem and respect for others. The basic etiquette of communication with people includes standing posture, sitting posture, walking posture, expression and speech. The following are the main points of the above actions:
Boys should be tall and straight, solemn and have a sense of stability when standing. When you stand in front of people and look from the front, make a vertical line with the ground with your nose as the point, and the human bodies on both sides will be balanced and symmetrical. The ancients said that "standing as loose as a pine" meant standing upright and stable. The correct and stable standing posture shows the firm and steady character and self-confidence unique to boys.
Whether boys or girls, to maintain a correct and elegant posture, we should also pay attention to two points: First, the body is relaxed, the muscles of the whole body, especially the upper body muscles, are slightly relaxed, the arms naturally droop, and the heels naturally lean together, which naturally shows the harmony of all parts of the human body. Second, when standing, you should slightly tuck in your abdomen, so that your chest will stand up, your hips will be lifted, your thigh muscles will be pulled out, and there will be a certain degree of tension.
Boys should sit up straight, with their shoulders straight, their waist attached to the chair, their legs naturally bent, their feet tied to the ground, and their limbs should not be too wide to form a regular, stable and comfortable sitting posture, which is called "sitting like a clock".
The girl's sitting posture can better reflect a person's demeanor and accomplishment. Girls sit down and move slowly and calmly.
Pay attention to the speed and total volume when you speak, and enunciate as clearly as possible, not in a hurry or slow. Speak in a moderate voice, so that the other party can hear clearly and not interfere with others' conversation. Besides controlling your voice, you should also pay attention to your eyes when you speak. If the other person is talking again, you must look at the other person's face or eyes, and you must not keep looking. When you are talking, making eye contact with each other can better attract each other's attention. In addition, in appropriate occasions, we should know how to use basic polite expressions such as "sorry", "thank you" and "goodbye".
Euphemism and subtlety, clever expression. For example, in social occasions, replace "where is the toilet" with "go to the toilet". Be good at listening and give others a chance to speak. Only in this way can we gain others' goodwill while listening to others' conversation. We should also learn to use humor and avoid the edge of contradiction. Humorous words are not only pleasant, but also can resolve the tension and embarrassing atmosphere caused by various reasons.
Avoid talking about topics: when talking with people, generally don't involve unpleasant things such as illness and death, and also pay attention to avoiding each other's privacy. For the average person, don't directly ask his resume, salary income, family property, clothing price and other private life issues. Don't get to the bottom of questions that the other person doesn't want to answer. Once you ask a question that the other person doesn't like, you should apologize immediately or change the subject. When you speak, you should also be careful not to criticize elders and people with high status, not to sneer at others, and be cautious about religious issues.
A person's external behavior can directly show his attitude. Be polite to others, be natural and graceful, observe the general etiquette of advancing and retreating, and try to avoid all kinds of impolite and uncivilized habits. When we want to go to another dormitory, we should ring the doorbell or knock gently before entering the door, and then stand at the door and wait. Don't ring the doorbell or knock on the door for too long. Don't enter the room without the permission of the owner or the owner. Nod, smile or say hello when you meet your classmates.
Third, give gifts.
When traveling or returning to school from home, we often bring some gifts to our classmates and friends. How to give a gift that is both affordable and affectionate is very important.
People in China often say that "courtesy is light and affection is heavy". Gifts are not measured by the value of money, so choosing gifts should be based on the principle of "good quality and low price". Gifts should not be too expensive, so as not to impose an excessive psychological burden on the other party. The key is the heart of the giver. When choosing a gift, we should consider the artistry, interest, practicality and commemoration of the gift according to the other party's hobbies. Gifts should be original, thought-provoking and unconventional.
What kind of gift can you choose to make your partner happy? This should be timely. There are many birthday gifts to choose from, such as flowers, candy, cakes, books, porcelain products, photo albums, scarves, clothing, handicrafts and so on. As a gift, books must be selected according to each other's special preferences. The books to choose from include: literary classics, encyclopedias, exquisite clothes, custom picture books, etc. Records and tapes of classical music and pop songs can also be used as gifts. If you have children at home, you can send toys and candy. Send a dictionary to students, a globe to those who are interested in geography, and a sportswear to those who are interested in sports. Gifts are usually given in person. People who accept gifts should accept gifts with both hands and thank each other. Westerners have the habit of opening gift packages and appreciating gifts in person, and politely say "I like it very much", "how beautiful" and "thank you".
Gifts contain feelings and friendship, which connect people and bring great fun to them. Gifts vary widely, and there are different ways to give them. If you put your heart into it, you can give them just the right one.
Etiquette is a pearl in the treasure house of traditional virtues in China and the essence of ancient culture in China. Being in the state of etiquette should be the people of etiquette. Knowing books and being polite to people should be the basic qualities of contemporary college students.